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it would help if a guy answered this
ok my friend.. is soo amazing... she is absolutely beautiful... infact all the guys say she is the prettiest/ hottest.. out of our school (we have a very big school)... she is 16.. and she is soo freaking awsome at sports she has lettered varsity for both tennis and track and was like number 1 on both.. like got all the track girl awards and went to state 4a both years in track and is just pure amazing.. she also has a 4.0 and im pretty sure she is teh smartest in our class... she also is soo incredably nice, and funny, like she is soo much fun to hang out w/, and soo crazy, but in a good way... like she is real not one of those fake girls... and she treats her boyfriends soo good but they always end up treating her like shit... i dont think she picks bad ones but somehow they never treat her good.... she deserves the best and i dont know what to do... like the theme song to her life would be lucky by britney spears... i just dont understand y guys arent better to her
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The problem is your friend is 16. Very few guys want a relationship at age 16. She has to just keep looking for the right guy. Look for the unlikely guys too. Like the nerds and geeks (people like me). She probably wont find the right guy until she is much older, but she sounds like she will find the right guy. Make sure she doesnt settle for someone who doesnt deserve her cause that will end with much unhappyness.
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if its to good to be true it probably is. those are the girls you need to watch out for they seem nice and all but until you get to know them they are the biggest bitch of your life and the guys that treat her bad are prolly just her victimes (sorry to say) and they just got fed up with her wants and expectations any other girl would be fine in fact you could be her bff and you'll never have to buy her a present (but if you did she'd like it) and you would never have to worry about breaking up.
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well first of all this girl sounds amazing, second, i dont think you should ask her out.
some of those types of girls can be really nice cool and yet can have really high expectations of who they go out with. some of them can be all about looks and some of them just want the best of the best.
but then again i dont' even know this girl so if you wanna ask her out i say go for it but im just warning you some of them arent as perfect and amazing as you think.
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The thing i've noticed in girls is the prettier girls get the worst guys, because chances are that the guys are going for the body, not the girl.
Less prettier girls always end up with the great guy, because obviously if they aren't as pretty they aren't going after there body, they are going after there heart...
Talk to the girl, let her know that she needs to take it slower when getting into relationships so that she can find out what the guy is really like, and talk to his ex's maybe, just to see how they were treated.
Hope I Helped~
Tyler~
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Your friend seems like a great person.
The only thing i could think of was that since shes so nice the guys take advantage of that and they can treat her like shit because they think either she wont dump them and wont get mad. My advice to help your friend and tell her your opinion about the guy she is with. Hope your friend starts gettin treated better.
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Oh, thats highschool for you.
And thats what it looks like for a best friend to be watching her absolutely goregous friend get hurt.
Boys in highschool no matter how much they have "grown" up, they will always take forgranted the most amazing people, and not realize how great they were until its too late, you know?
Your friend being so nice and great at everything, she will find someone she deserves, but you can tell her how you feel about the guys who treat her badly, tell her how amazing she is!
Boys are dumb sometimes, they seriously dont realize how precious or great a person is until they've lost them, and hopefully all her ex boyfriends who treated her badly remember that.
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Hey there. I think the only reason guys treat her this way is because they don't understand. Most popular super hott guys are really rude and inconsiderate. Maybe she should try finding a guy that's shy, cute, and really really nice. Someone to fit the part of her personality that she doesn't show. She needs to find someone the exact opposite to fir her needs. Try to look for guys she wouldn't normally date and have them start talking. It should work.
=]hope it helped.
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