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my name is joey, im 14 years old. i like music,TV,hanging with friends,swimming,writing and going online. i live in salem, oregon. you can ask me any queston you want and i'll try to answer it the best i can. i want and hope that i can help youhearts bigboy13
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what is the difference between french kiss and like a makeout?
french kissing is putting your tounge in the other persons mouth while kissing. a make out is just basically kissing.
I'm giving a speech tomorrow, and it's about "my basketball court" now ive wriiten everything im going to say - EXCEPT the introuction!
which, according to my teacher, is super important!
With that said, here comes my question..
I don't want to say "hey my name is.. and im going to talk about my basketball court" i want a fun way of introducing my speech!
something about the actual game, BASKETBALL, or the basketball court..
I know this is a total challenge for you,
but you're totally a good writer..so thats why im asking.
So thank you - you are truly amazing if you help me with this.
I've been brainstorming but it's not coming to me!
thank you so much :)
for any ideas AT ALL about introducing my speech.
your teacher's right. it is super imortand. maybe what i would do is maybe start off about how you got it or when you normally go there or maybe why you like it. what also might be a good intro is asking if anyone in the classroom likes basketball. or if they have a basketball court.
i hope i helped
harts bigboy13
What does it mean when someone "takes you for granted"?
I've had a friend say that to me.
I dont really understand.
it means that they assume you'll always be a certin way no matter what or start to not appriate things you do like when your good to them or when you do stuff for them. they just assume you'd do it with out even asking or saying thankyou. it's just when they don't appriate you or the things you do for them.
hope i helped
hearts bigboy13
I know this guy named devon we were kinda friends last year liike not the best of friends just like we would talk and stuff. When we talked his girlfreind got really mad. See me and his girlfriend (ex) are like worst ememies. Devon is freinds with my neighbor so his is over alot. My phycail appearce has change like really big change. He shows off for me and stuff. He even told my mom i was extremely hot. I went to his football game and he told me he heard something really good bout me and stuff. But would it be weird to call him? Becuase he told the whole football team he like me. Would it be weird to go out with him?
no i dont think it would be wired to go out with him. what i think you should do is think long and hard if you really like him. if you do then you should tell him that if you guys do go out then he can't be spreading romurs about you. and then you should just give it a shot and then see what happens. and then if it dosn't work out then it's better to know now then when you really love him.
good luck
hope i helped
hearts bigboy13
i like this guy alot and hes a year younger than me. im 15 and hes 14 but he turns 15 next month. anyways hes on A team in football and im an athletic trainer for his team so i see him for a couple of hours every other day and at games. i went to middle school with him and we went to the same camp this summer. hes in our guys choir and im in the varsity choir so we have alot in common. at camp we were really flirty he is kinda touchy feely but not in the creepy way, in the cute way, like playing with my hand or just being really sweet. he talks to me at practice and like gives me silly looks or sticks his tongue out at me, but hes just being weird. i dont know if he see's me as a friend or as something more than that. how can you tell? i dont want to say anything to him about it because im really shy and that sort of thing is awkward. also ive been shot down alot by guys like asking them to hang out or go somewhere and they never say yes, but i always make it a no pressure situation. so anyways, how can i tell if he likes me? is there anything i can do to show him i like him that is odvious but not like too odvious. i have practice with him on tuesday and im going to the game thursday for his team so i could do something then, thanks so much!
i know how you feel. that happens to me all the time. well from experince. dont just say that you like him. you should probably show little hints. try complamenting him and boost his confidance. try smiling at him alot and touch him like he touches you. if you do that you should probably just wait and see what happens. if he does like you he'll respond. it may also help to look directly in his eyes and smile when he talks to you. it may also help if your really nice to him.
hope i helped
hearts bigboy13
I had my boyfriend over one day. We were watching a movie. And I can't stay still during a movie... that's not of my interest.
And besides that, my dad suddenly got into a discussion with him about speakers.
And it seemed like they're rather talk alone... So I left the room for a few minutes to go on the computer.
Later, I found out that offended my boyfriend. He wanted to hold me and when I suddenly left to go on the computer. He somewhat felt the computer was more important than him.
What I did ... was that really rude?
I apologized, but I don't know...
What else could I do?
He means everything to me.
i dont think it was very rude. but you probably offened him because he came over to be with you and you went on the computer. it's not really your fault cause your dad was talking to him while you wre watching the movie. i think you should tell him what happened and hug him and tell him how much he means to you. and if your dad comes in and wants to talk tell him your watching a movie and you'll talk later
hope i helped
hearts bigboy13
What is flirting? How do I do it? How do I know if it's working? How do I know if a girl is flirting with me?
btw I'm a guy
really all flirting is is giving special attention to the one you like. somtimes flirting is diefined as poking or tikleing or being cutesy wutesy with each other. i wouldn't really reccommend it. some girls find it enoyying. and somtimes it can be a real turnoff. normally you can tell if it's working if she does somthing positive back or dosn't freak out when you do it.
normally if a girl is flirting with you you'll know but if you don't it's when they complement you or are really nice to you or just do stuff to get your attention. the best thing to do is to do somthing back and see how it go's
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
Okay so I swim on a team and every time I do breast stroke kick I get this weird and incredibly awkward/slightly painful crampy that like starts in my toes and shoots up my leg. Why does it do this, how can I prevent it and/or make it go away???
that's normal. it happens to me somtimes. try swimming lighter at first so your body gets used to the water and try not to swim so hard. take a brake then swim hard again.
hope i helped
hearts bigboy13
Who sings the song "Material girl" Thanks!
madonna sang it
How can you tell if a guy is interested? What if you are shy and don't like to make the first move? Also what do guys like? Like what do they look for in girls? Lol. Thanks bunches!~!~!
well all guys are different but if a guy likes you he'll probably pay alot of attention to you, and look at you a lot, and be really nice to you. he might feel a need to make you happy like give you stuff or be really genorous to you.
well if i were you i wouldn't blurt out that you like him. i would flirt with him and see how it go's. don't tell him that you like him. show him. like complament him and make him feel good about himself and smile at him alot. it may help to look into his eyes
guys normally look for...
1. nice and polite girls
2. girls with high self esteem
3. girls that are friendly
4. and of course pretty
guys tend to notice...
1. eyes
2. hair
3. face
4. personalty
guys also tend to notice thier figure but normally with older girls.
hope i helped
bigboy13
What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely
a tease is usally somone who acts flirty and slutty but won't do anything like kissing and other stuff
hope i helped
bigboy13
me and my bf have been dating for 5 months and we usually talk about anything but lately whenever we talk on the phone we dont have much to say. its just alot of silence now and i really dont know what to talk about and neither does he. i really need help on what i should do!
this can be fairly common in relasinships. at first you talk all the time and always hang out and always have a cool time, but through time the relasinship isn't as new and exciting as it once was and becomes a bore. if i were you i would think of ways to spice up your relasinship. like going out somewhere like the mall or a resteraunt or including your friends where you go might work so you'll have more people to talk with. what also might work is doing somthing you both like to do or doing somthing he likes and then doing somthing you like or maybe you could try doing somthing different like going to a different resteraunt or a different mall or a different side of town or somthing
hope i helped and good luck
harts bigboy13
I think I may be bi... I never really thought about it before a few days ago, you see my friends and I were playing Truth (it's like truth or dare without dares)and "David" asked what my deepest, darkest secret was. I said that it was that I used to make out and do other things with a girl that used to live by me. Then I realized I do a whole bunch of other things, like look at women's faces and breasts. I never really enjoyed doing things with her, but it felt nice... sorta. I don't really want to be Bi (no offense!!! I'm an activist). Do you think this was just a phase or do I truly have feelings for women? I haven't had any feelings since and I don't intend on doing anything with girls again.
Thanks...
P.S. I have a boyfriend.
well to me it sounds like you were just curious. it can be fairly common for teenagers and other ages as well. i wouldn't worry about it. some people have small feelings for the same sex but also at the same time have bigger feelings for the opposite sex. if i were you i would just contiune living my life and then what happens happens and then just move on with your life.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
i eat way to much all the time. like im not overweight or anything but i know it will cetch up to me sooner or later so i jsut need ways to stop eating so much & thinking about food all the time.
well it all depends on your age but your probably just going through a growth speart witch is where you eat alot because your body is growing rapidly and it is completley normal.
but if your still concerned one way to get rid of hunger is to drink water when ever you get hungry. another way is to keep your self busy so your brain won't think of it so much.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
okay. im 14... i dont see how people geet fat... i mean theres alot a big people in this world always complaining about their weight..&& ive never been fat before..im like really skinny...and i eat alot...when i see that im gaining a few pounds i cut down a little..&& it helps me keep my figure...alot of people even think im anorexic but im not..trust me.....what i dont get is why is it a really big person all like look at me im fat..i dont fit in&& low self exsteem and stuff...when really they can control that fat of theirs...unless someones making you eat alot...if you really want to be skinny...work for it you fat cows...just kidding...just saying...if you really want to be skinny WORK...and if you think you dont fit in cause you're different(fat )..you are different..cause you take up more space so get over it seriously..im tired of listening to them fat people...most people who are fat are fat because theyre 'GREEDY'
get over it..or do something about it..WORK..
My question really is: why are there so many fat people in this world??? cant you learn how to cut down..you GREEDY people...why cant a fat person just stop eatting so much..and WORK..come on people!! if you are one who eats alot..it helps to cut down by eatting less..dont even look at the food that is saying"eat me!!!"...so please help me understand thanks...
somtimes people feel bad when they see skinny people because thier fat and they feel ugly. being overwaight can be really hard on your self esteam. it can make you feel ugly and unwanted and unaccepted so when fat people give you dirty looks or think your anorexic just ignore them and think nothing of it.
now to answer your queston. there are alot of fat people in the world because most people don't want to go through all the trouble to be skinny. if your fat in can be really hard and take a lot of work to be skinny again. most people would rather watch TV then jog a mile and most people would rather have buger king for dinner then a salad.
being thin can also be hard for some people because they have give up things they love eating and things they love doing for somthing they don't even really want. belive it or not most people would rather be happy then be healthy.
you can't change how other people feel or what they do but you can change yourself. so when other people are being mean to you because your skinny just remember how they might feel and ignore them.
hope i answered your queston
harts bigboy13
Ok, I'm 14/f, and you know normal teenagers are usually fighting with their parents and stuff over stupid things.. well, that's the case with me. I dont know, but I seem to lose my temper easily. It's not always me, I mean I'll say something back to my parents that ticks them off until the point where I get so angry that I.. well I've scratched my mom before. And not that long ago I got in a fight with my dad and hit him. It's not like I intentionally want to hurt them that way, I just can't control it. And I feel like now it's gotten out of hand. I'll tell you exactly what happened with my dad before.. My family was watching tv in my family room, and I was thirsty so i went to go get something to eat and some jello lol. Well there's this little stool kinda table thing that I used as a table. It was off to the side so I used my feet to drag it over to the couch since my hands were full. It got caught on the rug and my dad, i dunno what he said exactly but he made a remark about it and I was like, "What am I supposed to do? my hands are full" And he was like.. well.. blahblahblah, I don't even remember what he said, all I remember is I ended up hitting him, and then he flipped out and took the jello and drink away and yelled at me and threatened that I didn't have to get a new cell phone, etc. See how stupid it is? But I really can't control this. Idk what I should do. I really want this $88 hair straightener, and my mom said if I was good during the vacation we are going on next week then I could get it. But I'm gonna be with my mom dad and brother in a hotel room for like 4 nights, and I have a feeling I'm just gonna get mad at them for the stupidest thing and end up ruining the chances of getting that straightener. How can I control my anger? I feel really badly about everything now, I really don't mean it.. I'm just.. i dunno, everythings changing. Sorry this was so long.. please help.. thank you
i know hou yoi feel. somtimes my parents are like that and pounce on me for the smallest things.
you could have an anger problem but it also sounds like your over stressed. everybody feels like you at times but most people don't take it that far.
i think when you get in a fight or close to a fight with your parents you should take a walk and cool down. then when your back camly explain to them what happened. it also helps to get a peice of paper and write down everything that's bothering you. it also helps to get a good cry and to scream into and punch a pillow.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
My friend told me he started smoking weed so I want to know how bad it is. Is smoking weed considered a drug? And is it worse then ciggarettes? And is it addictive? Any more info about it would be appreciated!
yeah somking weed is a drug. it's actually illigal but that dosn't stop people from doing it.
yeah it's worse than ciggarettes. ciggarettes are legal in every state and although they cause lung cancer and other heath problems thier completley legal for people 18 and over
most types of drugs are addictive including weed. some other info is that...
1.it can effect some parts of the brain
2.makes you lazy
3.effects will power
4.destroys brain cells
5.effects eating habits
6. if you smoke enough, can stop your heart
hope i helped
bigboy13
Ok i made my boyfriend promise that we wouldn't do anything sexual anymore. And he said that he promised. He even promised that he would stop me in the case that I came on to him. But yesturday he was playing with me and tried to have sex with me and I pushed him away but he kept coming at me. Now I don't know what to do because..it really hurts me that he finally seemed like he made a promise that was worth while. Does he even love me. We have been going out for almost 10 months now...
i think he still loves you. he probably just had an erge and thought that if he faught hard enough you'd give in and go with it.
you should sit him down and tell him that what he did was not okay and that if he wants to be with you he has to respect you and what you want and don't want.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
Okay, so i had sex(in a pool) for and 6 minutes, and my bf did not ejaculate.
I haven't gotten my period, though, it should have started yesterday or today, and i'm very regular.
But ALSO! understand that i was not eating correctly for the past about 4-5 weeks, but i am doing a little better this week.
And yet, i'm still losing weight. I was 124, and now i am 114.
I checked pregnancy symptoms, and i have absolutely NONE of them.
Do you think I can be pregnant? or do you think my period is acting up because of the lack of eating correct, a month previous to getting my period?
I know none of you are doctors, but i'm so nervous, and i can't really talk to my mom about it.
Also, i am getting my normal signs of getting my period, i break out a little, and i'm bloated/gassy bubbles are in my stomache, just not nearly as much cramps.
What do you think?
Thank you so much.
i seriously doubt that your pregnant. periods can be confusing somtimes and arn't always correct. my sister did it with out a codem and then missed her period for 9 days and still wasn't pregnant.
again i don't think your pregnant so i wouldn't worry about it but i also wouldn't do it for a while until i got my period.
hope i helped
bigboy13
Tomorrow is my first day of school and i'm really excited. But I have to get up at 5 in the morning to get ready and leave for the bus stop at 6:20ish. Problem is my shower is broken and we can't get the repairs done till 10 in the morning tomorrow.. ughh. My mom is letting me use her shower in her room but I can't until her boyfriend gets up 5:45! I really can't wait that long because it takes me an hour to get ready. It's not like I can't do some things before I take a shower like putting on my make-up, clean my ears, and stuff. I asked my mom nicely if she could get up at 5 and so could her boyfriend just for one day. And it's only a half hour difference. She started flipping out on me too. Do you honestly think I'm being selfish? and how can I convince her?, I've already cleaned the whole house! thanks for advice.
somtimes adults can be real babys about their importand sleep and somtimes they can be real unreasonable about stuff they dont want to do. it is a tad self centered but they should be more understanding and reasonable. what may work for you is to not take a whole shower but maybe just get your hair wet and maybe wash your face and since your bathroom still has a mirror maybe put on your make up on in there.
you should tell your mom and her boyfriend that you won't bother them and that you'll just take a very very very quick shower and then do your stuff in the other bathroom.
hope that helps and good luck
harts bigboy13