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Was I rude?


Question Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 6:18 pm


I had my boyfriend over one day. We were watching a movie. And I can't stay still during a movie... that's not of my interest.

And besides that, my dad suddenly got into a discussion with him about speakers.

And it seemed like they're rather talk alone... So I left the room for a few minutes to go on the computer.

Later, I found out that offended my boyfriend. He wanted to hold me and when I suddenly left to go on the computer. He somewhat felt the computer was more important than him.

What I did ... was that really rude?
I apologized, but I don't know...
What else could I do?

He means everything to me.


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russianspy1234 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 8:03 pm:
why did he want to be all up in you while he was talking to your dad? thats just weird.

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Bam answered Sunday August 27 2006, 7:03 pm:
ok well i think you did the right thing becuz he was talking with your dad so you had nothing else do to so you just did your own thing just tall ur boyfriend that he was talking to you but to your dad and you got bored and went on the computer

hope i helped

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more_than_a_feeling answered Sunday August 27 2006, 10:36 am:
That was really rude. Even if he's having a conversation with your dad, he came over to see you...so don't leave the room to go on the computer. Stupid move.

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AskAndy answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:28 am:
you werent rude. just tell him what you've told us and how you didnt mean to offend him. he wont leave you or anything so you wont lose him so honesty is the best policyy

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bigboy13 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 12:55 am:
i dont think it was very rude. but you probably offened him because he came over to be with you and you went on the computer. it's not really your fault cause your dad was talking to him while you wre watching the movie. i think you should tell him what happened and hug him and tell him how much he means to you. and if your dad comes in and wants to talk tell him your watching a movie and you'll talk later

hope i helped
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MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 12:32 am:
No, I don't think you were rude, it was just a misunderstanding. Explain to him that whenever he and dad were talking about speakers, you felt they wanted to talk alone, so you decided to leave the room for awhile. And tell him there's noway the computer means more to you than he does, and that he means everything to you. Invite him over again to watch another movie and just spend the whole time together and hold eachother just like he wanted to do, and don't get up or anything again if him and your dad get in conversation, haha. :] I hope I helped. <3

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XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 12:22 am:
Na, it wasnt rude. You just didn't know. Just let him know you didnt do it to hurt him. That you just thought he and your dad wanted to talk alone. I'm sure he'll be understandable about it.Hope i helped. Happy Summer :).

-Brina

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