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Bi the Way
I think I may be bi... I never really thought about it before a few days ago, you see my friends and I were playing Truth (it's like truth or dare without dares)and "David" asked what my deepest, darkest secret was. I said that it was that I used to make out and do other things with a girl that used to live by me. Then I realized I do a whole bunch of other things, like look at women's faces and breasts. I never really enjoyed doing things with her, but it felt nice... sorta. I don't really want to be Bi (no offense!!! I'm an activist). Do you think this was just a phase or do I truly have feelings for women? I haven't had any feelings since and I don't intend on doing anything with girls again.
Thanks...
P.S. I have a boyfriend.
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It sounds to be like you're just curious. Lots of teenagers gets curious and experiments, it's perfectly normal. I mean, you always hear girls saying "you look pretty" "you're gorgeous" and so on, but they're not bisexual or anything. If you were bisexual, you'd probably be thinking of doing more with girls and you would have feelings, and like you said, you haven't. So, don't worry. I hope I helped. <3
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We're all a little curious at one point in our lives. And it doesn't matter if you're bi or not.
To me, it just sounds like you're curious and not bi. but that is just my opinion. you can only know yourself.
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hey dont worry about it your body doesnt care if its a boy or girl it thinks "oh pretty want to touch" or "ew gross leave it there" i wouldnt even worry about it.
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I think youre most likely just curious. Its totally normal to look at other womens bodies and face and think they are attractive. It doesnt necessarily mean you want to have a relationship with a women. These days, pretty much anyone can make out with anyone and not be gay or bi. Sometimes girls make out with girls because its fun and to get guys attention. Also, you cant really choose to be bi so if you are, you have to accept it.
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It really depends on your age.. its naturally for people in their teens and twentys to look at other womans breast because they compare themselves to others like that and don't even think about it.
And making out with a girl doesn't mean you are bi.. its also natural for young woman to be curious and expiriment.
If you didn't truelly enjoy making out with a woman and you have no interests you don't sound bi you were just curious and there isn't anything wrong with that
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Hey,
Not just because you did something once or twice, even three times, with a girl, that means that you are a perfect bi.
Sometimes we do stuff just to know how it feels or if its good or bad. Its like an experience that we go through to learn things from .Its no big deal at all. And you are pretty much not the only girl who looks at breasts and stuff, i know alot of other girls who keep commenting and looking and staring even much more than guys.
Therefore, i want to tell you that it was most definitely a phase and as i told you, just like an experience you went through,but you didn't like it that much. And as long as you do not want to be a bi, than you won't be one, because no one is gonna force you to be.
We do alot of things in out lives, sometimes we enjoy it and go on doing it over and over again, and sometimes we regret doing it, so we learn from it and we step back.
And here you are, you have a boyfriend, so give him all that love and make out with him all you want. And don't regret making out with a girl or staring at a woman's breast, because when we do things or mistakes, we shouldn't regret doing it, we should learn from them.
So consider what i said, and as long as you know from inside you, that you don't want to be a certain thing (bi), then nobody can force you.
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i personally think that it is just a phase. practially every girl goes throught it, but most of them dont admit it. but dont think of it to much especially because u ahve a boyfriend. most ppl find women attractive, that doesnt make you bisexual, its just that women are pretty.
dont worry!
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well to me it sounds like you were just curious. it can be fairly common for teenagers and other ages as well. i wouldn't worry about it. some people have small feelings for the same sex but also at the same time have bigger feelings for the opposite sex. if i were you i would just contiune living my life and then what happens happens and then just move on with your life.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
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Since you have no intentions on doing things with girls again and you have a boyfreind,you probably arent bi.When you made out with that girl,you were probably going through a really confusing moment of your life and didnt know what you were doing.You might have been through a bad break up that moment and didnt know what to do so you turned to girls.Dont worry,im pretty sure youre not bi,cuz if you were,you would be still wanting to do things with girls.
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It sounds like you were just experimenting. Everybody does it..or atleasts questions their orientation. Since you didn't really have feelings for her (you were just messing aorund), you haven't had any feeling since, and that you don't intend on doing anything like that again, and that you have a boyfriend, it doesn't seem like you are. =]
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