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Ugh. Boys.
Hey guys!!
Im stuck between two guys. They are in the same group of friends. and i really dont kno what to do.
guy number 1: Bob: Bob is a player and hes really flirty and stuff. and i really like him. i think a little more than i like guy number 2. but since hes a player he can flirt with all the girls and stuff you know? and im not even sure if he likes me but i can relate to him and he can relate to me and we can talk and talk for hours without even realizing it. and my two best friends tell me that he really likes me but i dont even know. like today we went to see lady and the water and both guys were there. and bob didnt stay in the movie so i was with guy number 2 and he comforted me and stuff. but i still felt a little guilty because i knew there was someone else. and when bob was talking to me guy number 2 got mad and wen guys number 2 would talk to me bob would get mad.
guy number 2: hes really a sweet guy and all. but he sometimes trys to hard and hes a relationship type of guy. he was talking to my best friend thats a guy and was telling him how he really likes me and stuff. and i really dont kno what to do because i dont feel like i have that connection with him. but its just that i dont want to hurt any of them.
but bob said that hes not looking for a relationship and this was like a week ago. and everyone thinks guy number 2 has a thing with me and that im pretty much taken bye him.
ugh helpp
sorry its longg.
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I think your best bet would be guy #2. You may not like him as much, but he could grow on you. HE seems a lot nicer than "bob".
Of course, the important thing is to follow your heart and do what you think is best.
do you really want to go out with a player, who might just be pretending to like you so he can have multiple gf's, or do you want a guy who wouldn't do that, like guy #2?
It will be hard, but in the end i bet everything will be ok!
HOpe i helped,
Katie <3
p.s. If you need anymore help, drop a note in my inbox!!!
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I think you should give guy number two a chance maybe time will help you like him or perhaps you like him already but don't notice it.Guy number two will only wind up hurting you,humilating you,and making you grow into false illusions.
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i think you should give bob a chance
somtimes boys who are players are faking or over doing it because they wanna have friends and they want to get the girls and they wanna seem sexy and appealing,some of them can be real sweet and loyal
but i'd watch out because some players arne't faking and can be a real jerk and a heartbraker so i'd see how it is first.
i don't think you should go out with guy #2 because he seems kinda desprate and jelous but if you think so then i say go for it
hope i helped and trust your heart
hearts bigboy13
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Think of it this way...
Do i want a boyfriend that will love me? (Guy Number 2)
Or do i want a boyfriend that will love me...and a few other girls (Bob)
The player will only end up hurting you, and making you think you aren't good enough.. Sure he's appealing to you, all the girls like him, he's probably good looking, but good looks aren't the foundation of a good relationship..
I have one rule in dating, and that rule is...
You don't find him, you find each other...
Right now, you found bob, bob hasn't found you yet, maybe he won't, but Guy Number 2 has found you, the question is, are you going to find him too?
Guy Number 2 sounds like a sweet guy, a guy that would never ever want to hurt you, and that would stick with you, not you and a few other girls. Only you, because you would be his, and nobody elses, and nobody else would have him...
Hope I Helped
Tyler~
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