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a LoNer
O.K. i don't want to sound desperate b/c i'm NOT!! i'm "concerned" about my `invisible` love life. i'm 13yrs.old, a female, and going to highschool.
i haven't gotten my 1st kiss, nvr had a b.f., and will prolly be single for the rest of my life.this is kind of weird but, i want to know why boys aren't interested in me? i mean you might not know why but,idk, i NEED som adventure in my life, and i guess i don't need a b.f. but, a 1st kiss wouldn't hurt ,right???
well i dk know if this was a question but, can anyone PLEASE help me!!!!!=(
*ANY 1 who answers this please DON'T say you're pretty on the inside or "one day it'll happen" or any other thing like that!!! i want the REAL DEAL
(don't be to harsh please, just HELPP ME )
thanxxxxxxx a lottta hearts ♥
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girl... chill you are 13. most of the things you say havent happened to you yet didn't happen to me till i was 15 and STILL haven't happened to most of my friends which are mind you, all good looking. so yes, it will happen some day, just wait a little while and it will be special when it does. <3
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I'm in the same position as you -no first kiss and no bf-. I heard a few days ago that if the guy you like is popular, play hard to get. But if the guy you like is sorta dorky, be there and avaliable for him. Dorky guys seem to give up on love easier, unlike 'popular' guys.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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Its totally fine to be 13 and not have your first kiss or boyfriend. I had a couple of "REAL" boyfriends but never any kisses yet. I guess i had my first kiss but i dont really count it, coz i didnt like the person. But maybe you didnt get any of it yet is because They havent found you yet. Your going into high school so there would be ALOT of guys looking for a relationship!
xoxo
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Wow, I understand your situation completely. I was a sort of late bloomer with the whole relationship thing, but it happened...and trust me, I never though it would.
You are still very young, A LOT of girls have not gotten their first kiss or boyfriends at the age of 13, and A LOT of girls are not ready for it at that age either. AS for boys, at your age, all they are interested in is a "hot" girl...it's completely superficial. I know I wouldn't want a guy who thinks I'm "hot"...I rather have one who thinks I am beautiful, intelligent, and focuses on something real. So, don't kill yourself trying to get a boyfriend..or a kiss.
I leave you with this story I have heard, that though cliche is pretty much true.
The best apples are at the top of the tree.
Some boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.
So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the perfect person to come along, for he will climb all the way to the top.
so just wait for your amazing boy...he'll come =]
-Teacup
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I know you didnt want anyone to say this but eventually it will happen!!! You just gotta start lettin guys know your interested in them. There might be some that like you but they are to shy to ask you out because there afraid you dont like them. You dont even have to tell them in person. Maybe tell a friend to let that one special guy know you like him. Or get the guys screen name and talk to him over the internet and ask him who he likes. I hope this has helped.
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relax! im 15 never had a boyfriend or a first kiss so your not alone! so many girls havent been there and you may feel like your the only one but trust me its perfectly normal! guys are just weird, you may be shy, which could give the impression your stuck up, or that your not interested, you could be really smart and guys could think that you just think theyre stupid, you may even just intimidate guys in general. theres alot of reasons why you may not have a boyfriend but dont sweat it! why try to rush anything? you want your first kiss to be special, not just something you do so you have it out of the way right? i know you said dont say " one day it'll happen" but truth is, one day it will, and you may be surprised to find that it was better all that happened to you when you were older
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ok dont worry because your time will deff come. i was worried about all that stuff too but it all came and sometimes it all comes at once too. Like right now you might think that it will never happen but once you get your first kiss there will be so many more after too. Hope i helped at least a lil and its hard to wait but itll be worth it.
♥brittany
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