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okay well my friend went out with this guy and she treated him really bad, she played games with him and didnt really act like she liked him and they finally broke up cus he couldnt trust her cus she was always lieing to him && flirting wiht other guys and a few..weeks--maybe?--he started talking to me and we started liking eachtother and after a few weeks of talking and getting to know eachtoehr a little better, he ask me out and i said no cus i think my friend still likes you, but i talked to her and she said it wouldd be okay, so he asked me out again and i said yes this time and she was okay with it until after a few weeks,about 2 or 3 maybe, after i had started to really like him. she started getting mad at me and spreading rumors about me and everytime she saw him she would try to be all over him adn kiss him and all that and he'd be like get off of me i have a gf, and she would be like who cares about her? and she talked really bad abotu me behind my back but then around me shed be like ohh i love you! like she wanted to figth me at one point and then she took my best friend from me...and she doesnt like me anymore but she'll be all nice to me when she needs a ride somewhere or something ... so what should i do? i mean i want us to be friends but i dont want her to go on talkign about me behind my back. and dont say to break up with him cus we've been going out for a while now and i love him a whole lot. so please tell me what i can do to get her to stop spreading rumors about me and about him to break us up!
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your first mistake was dating him.
best friends say it is alright go ahead but inside they really feel hurt.i kno you love this dude. i kno you want to be friends with her but it doesn't always work like that. you are going to have to pull the plug on your friendship because as long as you and this guy are dating she will always be jealous. if you and your guy love each other that much you shouldn't care wat she spreads ignor it.
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There isn't much you can do about a person like this. So why is it you want to be her friend? I think it is time to break it off with her. If you continue to hear rumors that she is spreading and you are hearing this rumor from someone you trust not to lie to you. This person has to also hear the rumor first hand. I'd confront her with it in front of other people so that you would have witnesses. I'd ask her directly why she said, bla, bla, bla. Do it in a nice conversational tone. Don't be angry when you do this because she then can't be angry with you unless she knows she's wrong. Sometimes when people are wrong about something they will get angry to deflect the focus off of them and throw it onto the person who is confronting them. Be careful of this. If she denies that she's said anything then you have witnesses. The word would be out on her. Finally, I want to stress that this is not the behavior of a friend. You don't need someone in your life who would do this to you. She's only about herself. Enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend and dump her.
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Ok so your so called FRIEND is in my oppion is not the chick you should be hanging with. I one was friends with a girl and she cost me trust of someone and my own money for smoething i did not do. I say if she told you its ok then stay with him.Shes just jellous that your a better girlfriend and he LOVES you.Oh yea when she tryes to kiss him and get all over him say BACK OFF or your going to get it. Trust me dont let her get in the way. She is not worth it and i bet you can do alot better than that.tell me how it goes and GOOD LUCK!!!
P.S STAY WITH YOUR BOY!!!
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hey there! OMG. What kind of friend is that? She treats a guy badly, at the same time, spreads rumors about you, and doesn't care that you are in a relationship with this guy. AHEM, what kind of friend is that? The best solution to this problem is to end your friendship with this girl. All she's going to do is hurt your relationship and your reputaion more, and at the same time take advantage of you. And for all those stupid rumors she's spreading? Don't beleive them, and don't react to them because they're not true anyway, and she just wants to stab you in the back because she's just jealous of you. Seriously, don't consider her your friend anymore, and if it gets worse, be the mature person and don't turn around and start spreading rumors about her, because you'll be stooping down to her level--a very low place to be in.
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Your friend doesn't deserve anymore chances after the things she put you through. If she was upset that you two were together a little while after, don't you think a true friend would actually tell you? Yes. Spreading rumors and being all over your guy is not the way to tell you shes not comfortable anymore. You need to tell your friend that you know for sure about her two-faced attitude, and that if she wanted to keep you as a friend in the future, that she'd better knock it off, she will act like she has no idea what you're talking about, but you need to come out and tell her you know about what's going on, and that it's hurting you. Honestly, this girl just needs to hit the road with you. She sounds really disrespectful and just evil. I don't think you'll ever find a way to get her to stop messing around unless you just tell her that the friendship is over. If her rumors continue, go to a counselor.
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okay first of all your friend said it was okay that you two went out and she is fine with it until you really start liking him. That is messed up. It sounds like you guys really like each other so don't get rid of him. I would say get rid of the friend, I understand you still want to be friends with her and all but a real friend would not treat a friend that way no matter what. I mean, she talks about you behind your back and spreads rumors about you and then when she wants something she is all nice to you, I would just get rid of her, you don't need a friend that is going to treat you like that. I hope I was able to help. Good luck.
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Keep the bf, dump the friend!!!!
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you still want to be her friend after she did all that shit to you?? shes a bitch! you shouldnt be friends with her at all. if she keeps doing it just stand up for yourself and tell her to knock it off and that shes really immature and jealous. seriously. you dont want to be friends with someone whos a bitch like that!
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