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okay. im 13 and theres a guy, named chad, whos 14. we went out for a while, almost 5 months. and then had this really strange period where he was acting really weird around me and when i confronted him about it. he said hed talk more. and i was like okay. the next day, though, he broke up with me. everybody that knows me and also him said he scrweed me over cause he knew id brake up with him. anyways, i went out with this guy named tyler after for only about 2 weeks, when we decided we were better friends. now chad keeps telling me he likes me again and i dont know whether to go out with him again or not. its complicated because i know hes a good boyfriend and all but its almost like he has 2 sides. like one side of him talks to me, and treats me like his girlfriend. [hugs, holding my hand, flirting like mad, etc.] and the other side of him is totally weird. he wont talk to me, he talks about girls he used to like, and walks away from me. im so confused because i like him a lot but it seems once we've been going out for a month or so turns in the bad side of like 5 of the 7 days of the week and i hate that. i apoligize for the length of this. and i hope someone has advice, experience, etc. thanks in advance. (link)
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Ok well if you really like him alot than you need to talk to him about this problem you think he has. Well if you really wanna go out with him again than talk to him say "well I still like you too but I am afraid that you will break my heart again and I don't like when you act all weird around me and then break up with me the next day I comfront you of it". I am sure he will understand if he still likes you and I hope all goes well!! Hope I helped!!
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ok i want to go skating at 6:00 but i have my period, is there anything i could do to not leak? pleez dont say use a tampon or two pads thx! (link)
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Well use one Maxie Always pads with wings and you should not leek. If you do not wanna leek tampons do not always half to be used and not always 2 pads. One will work with wings. If you don't wanna use one than you WILL leek. Hope I helped.
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i am a 15 year old female and i no for sure that im ready to have sex.i no that seems alittle young but im mature for my age.the thing is i was kind of going out with this guy but not really.and i was ready to be intimate with hi but i didnt no what to say ti him. i felt ready because i was falling in love. but now we arent talking anymore.and i still am ready but now i dont no who.and i dont want to get a bf and have sex with hi after a day of going with him.should i get a new man and wait till it feels right with him.or go back to my old beau(boyfriend) (link)
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Ok so for one thing 15 is too young to have sex, and even if you are falling in love you still need to wait. Ok so the thing is that even if you think you are falling in love you still need to wait. Think about it, what if he is not the one you will be spending the rest of your life with. Don't you wanna be commited to your husband and all his. Well thats what I will be doing. And if he tells anyone you could be called a SLUT and I don't think anyone wants to be called that. Well I hope you make the right choice and I hope i helped you plz tell me what choice you made on my advice column Ask BeautyBaby800. Ok hope I helped!!
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Alright, so this is what is going down. I am going to ask this guy out, but the thing is, whenever I go to do it, he does something or calls one of his friends over. I am asking him out because he is incredibly shy and won't do it himself. But here is the other thing, his best friend asked him what he would do if someone, like me, asked him out. He said he would just wing it, but then a couple seconds later he said that he would say yes. I don't get it. I am really confused and a little pissed off, considering I tried to do this three times and each time it fell through. Is he just avioding the question, is he nervous about answering the question or does he just not like me at all? (link)
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well it could mean anything. He could like you or not want you at all. You need to find out! Tell him you need to talk to him alone without anyone around.Then when the time comes and no ones around ask him do you like me?when he answers then go in for the well i like you and will you go out with me?If he answers no than say ok i just wanted to know see you around.If he says yes than say great i really like you and im glad you and i are going out.
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ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
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My answer is to flirt! Im turning 14 and i know what i like. If a guy ask's me out and i say that stuff im just plain hard to get! So this may be the case. If you play sports make sure she see's you! And dont be afrid to pass notes in class! Make sure she know's you aprriceate her and you dont just think of her as a booty call! She needs to know you will always be there for her when she needs you. When she finally does come around you'll seem like her knight in shinning armor!
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Hi
I am diagnosed for Obsessive compulsive dissorder and Paranoid schizophrenia, However they are wondering if I have an intruding mental health issue, i.e. authism....? What may this be and can anyone please help...?
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autrhisum is a dissorder where you dont talk to anyone! This can be a problem because when people tell you to eat you probly deniy them and shut them out. What i can tell from you already, not even knowing you is that your seeking help and this is not autistic! Dont be scared if they pycologists say you do have autim, they may be wrong. They try some meds but it may not help. If this happens dont be scared! My friend was diagnosed with Manic Desspressive disorder, ADHD, and Angsiaty issues all in the same day! So dont be worried, it will all turn out good in the long run!
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....I'm not too sure if i am a guy or a girl, it's really confusing and my parents wont tell me. So how can i tell if im a guy or a girl???? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
plzz no stupid answersss (link)
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I dont know if this is a trick question or wat but you can tell by if you have a long jiggle thingie than your a guy and if you have 2 sides and in thye middle a long pice of skin and in that a hole your a girl.Let me know by my column if your a chick or a dude ok hope i helped.!!
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ok look it has been about 5 weeks now that i had sex.. well i didnt want to.. wat happended is that my brother had one of his friends coming up and im 13 and the guy was 17.. and wen i went in my room he was on the bed just sitting there and starring at me. he told me to come over and i did well he started to kiss me.. and wen he did all i said is that i just wanted to kiss.. but he started to touch me down there and i was scared i pullrd bak and said dont i just wanna kiss. and he said ok well we started kissing and he did it again he was kinda forcing himself on me well then it lead to ''''sex'''' i dont no if i should tell someody about it i mean i did it but i didny want to... help (link)
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You need to tell someone!! Thats RAPE!!! Its very bad and i think you should tell someone that you trust.He diserves to get caught.Hope I helped and write me back on my column and tell me how everything goes.!!
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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__ (link)
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Well what i think you should do is go to the hosptil where he is and even though hes in a comma say im sorry. It will make you and maybe him feel better. Pray for him and a God for forgeness about him. When or even if he gets out of his comma be his friend and tell him over and over that your sorry and maybe he wont try to kill himslef anymore hope i helped write me back on my column about every thing and how it goes.!!
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Hi,
My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.
I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.
I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.
I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.
I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)
I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.
I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(
If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.
One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.
Thank you very much! :-) (link)
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I feel really bad and I will tell you how I would do it in this situation. Well dont be afrade to tell her you care and think shes cutting. Maybe it will make her think at least one person in this world cares about her. Yeah you should invite her over for Thanksgiving and then have her spend the night ask her how and why she is doing this. Get info and tell me how it goes ok Good Luck to the both of you and I hope I helped.
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okay well my friend went out with this guy and she treated him really bad, she played games with him and didnt really act like she liked him and they finally broke up cus he couldnt trust her cus she was always lieing to him && flirting wiht other guys and a few..weeks--maybe?--he started talking to me and we started liking eachtother and after a few weeks of talking and getting to know eachtoehr a little better, he ask me out and i said no cus i think my friend still likes you, but i talked to her and she said it wouldd be okay, so he asked me out again and i said yes this time and she was okay with it until after a few weeks,about 2 or 3 maybe, after i had started to really like him. she started getting mad at me and spreading rumors about me and everytime she saw him she would try to be all over him adn kiss him and all that and he'd be like get off of me i have a gf, and she would be like who cares about her? and she talked really bad abotu me behind my back but then around me shed be like ohh i love you! like she wanted to figth me at one point and then she took my best friend from me...and she doesnt like me anymore but she'll be all nice to me when she needs a ride somewhere or something ... so what should i do? i mean i want us to be friends but i dont want her to go on talkign about me behind my back. and dont say to break up with him cus we've been going out for a while now and i love him a whole lot. so please tell me what i can do to get her to stop spreading rumors about me and about him to break us up! (link)
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Ok so your so called FRIEND is in my oppion is not the chick you should be hanging with. I one was friends with a girl and she cost me trust of someone and my own money for smoething i did not do. I say if she told you its ok then stay with him.Shes just jellous that your a better girlfriend and he LOVES you.Oh yea when she tryes to kiss him and get all over him say BACK OFF or your going to get it. Trust me dont let her get in the way. She is not worth it and i bet you can do alot better than that.tell me how it goes and GOOD LUCK!!!
P.S STAY WITH YOUR BOY!!!
BeautyBaby800!!
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OK I am very sorry if you all are tired of these questions but I'm HOPELESS and can necer tell if they like me or not, so here we go.
Ok he talks to me a lot and sometimes flirts with me. I never see him doing that with anyone else and he somehow finds a way to go by my desk/lunch table.
So.. does he like me? I'm very bad at this and please no answers like "Are YOU BLIND" or "What kind of a hopeful idiot are you?" ... All 5's :/ (link)
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Hey yea he likes you and tell him that you like him and that if you wanna go out with him tell him that!! Good luck!!
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There's a girl that I've liked for about 2 months. She's just about my perfect girl, but had been going out with this guy since I met her. I gave up on her about 2 weeks ago cuz he friends said she always has really long relationships. I moved on to this other girl and her and I hit it off. I told the 2nd girl that I like her today, and she said she liked me too. But not 10 minutes after that I found out the first girl was finally single. I think I might like the first girl more, but now it's like the 2nd girl expects her and I to go out. What should I do? Which one should I pick? And how do I not make myself look like an asshole either way? I'll rate high for good answers. (link)
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ok here it is i think you should ask the 1st girl if you like her and then tale your answer from there you will seem like an asshole at first but the other girl will soon get over it and move on.
p.s what state do you live in and what school??
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Ok, I like this guy and I am trying to figure out if he likes me. He isnt a giant flirt, but he is sweet. If I say I am cold he gives me his jacket. If he wants to talk he will come in to some of my classes during passing period to surprise me. Today before last period he waitied for me to come in to the class so we could talk and so I could give him his jacket back. But know it wasnt just for the sweater, because this teacher came out and was like "uhh, you need to get to class cuz you are going to be late. So he goes "Oh I can run a few extra laps" I love being around him and I like him so much! Please, does he like me or what?
*I rAtE hIgH* (link)
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yes i think he dose so put it out in the open say i like you do you like me and maybe you will get the answer out from him!!
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Ok I was just wonnderring one of my best friends is a guy and i kinda like him but he likes a girl who is now his girl friend and he likes her like crazy... does anyone watch laguna beach? i was wonderring if guys actually acted really like stephen on the show does... (if you dont watch stephen and lc are like best friends and lc liked him for a really long time but he never did anything about it because he always liked her her as just a friend just like me and my friend and he liked this one other girl who was his gf on and off but then lc she got a boyfriend and he suddenly got jeleous...)so i was wonderring if guys were actually like that, if i suddenly find a guy who i like and stuff would by other friend feel jeleous... i doubt he would care but i was just wonnderring if there were guys who acted like that in real life or if its just crap... if your guy can you tell me if you have ever done something like that or when your bestfriend who was a grl got a boyfriend did u get jeleous or how did u react?
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ok heres my answer. Go for it. If you really like him than tell him i like you i would love to be your gf but plz dont go breaken my heart.TELL HIM and maybe he will concider you to be his gf. Write him a letter if your too embarsed to tell him your slef thats what i did.i did this once so personally know what your going through.
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I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier? (link)
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i m a girl and i take dumps hard personally but i guess she dose too. If her parents dont want you to date her well WHO CARES?? Well you do but if her parents really care about her they wont really care who she dates they will want her just to be happy. If you still wanna go out with her then i say GO FOR IT!!!! But dont go out with her and then dump her for a stuped reson dont break her heart. Think about this one before you loose her FOREVER.
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