There's a girl that I've liked for about 2 months. She's just about my perfect girl, but had been going out with this guy since I met her. I gave up on her about 2 weeks ago cuz he friends said she always has really long relationships. I moved on to this other girl and her and I hit it off. I told the 2nd girl that I like her today, and she said she liked me too. But not 10 minutes after that I found out the first girl was finally single. I think I might like the first girl more, but now it's like the 2nd girl expects her and I to go out. What should I do? Which one should I pick? And how do I not make myself look like an asshole either way? I'll rate high for good answers.
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 10:10 am: If you've been waiting a long time for the first girl, you should take your chance with her while you still have it. Just tell the second girl that you can't date her right now. You might make yourself look like an ass, but it's probably worth it end the end.
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helpachick answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 10:05 pm: hey! alright well i'm a girl, and i think a girls point of view on this question could be very helpful!! well if girl 1 (the girl you liked first) if her boyfriend broke up with her, she is obviously going to need some time to get over him. (she most likely liked him a lot since they went out for a long time) so while that is happening, maybe since you already told this other girl you like her, go out with her for a little while...see how things go and you might find that you really do like her as a g/f. if you still think that the first girl is the one for right now, after a while break things off with girl 2 and then ask the first girl. make sure the 1 girl has had enough time, and that you have CLEARLY made your decision on the two ladies. good luck xoxohelpachick [ helpachick's advice column | Ask helpachick A Question ]
BeautyBaby800 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 9:59 pm: ok here it is i think you should ask the 1st girl if you like her and then tale your answer from there you will seem like an asshole at first but the other girl will soon get over it and move on.
p.s what state do you live in and what school?? [ BeautyBaby800's advice column | Ask BeautyBaby800 A Question ]
WHCH_WAY2__NEVERLAND answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 9:51 pm: It seems as if you've been waiting for this girl to become single for quite sometime now..and you were just waiting around for someone to be a "replacment". How do u know that if you begin to like this first girl again..she'll like you back? You already know that the 2nd girl likes you and you seem to like her back..Just think if the 1st girl never started to be single..would this make you rethink about liking her again? If not, then i think the best thing to do is to start to get over the 1st girl and begin to move on to ur 2nd girl who you already seem to like. If you go with the 2nd girl, this wont make you look like an asswhole but it will show the 1st girl that you have moved on. I hope this helps you out!
AlwAYZarOUnd00 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 9:51 pm: hmmm... i don't know what to do. that sucks and your in a shitty situation... i think if you liked the first girl more and liked her first to try it out with her.. i mean long relationships are hard to get out of so maybe she is lookin for a guy to be there for her.. i'd say it's your ticket in [ AlwAYZarOUnd00's advice column | Ask AlwAYZarOUnd00 A Question ]
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