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I'm 14 and I started my period like 3 years ago. I thought that when you started your boobs grew faster and stuff. But mine havn't grown that much. Like I still have cleavage with a push-up bra but I thought I'd be bigger by now. My moms' are really big so she told me, mine would be too. So is there a reason why this is happening? Is it normal? Thanks for your help in advance!
Hon just because your mom has big boobs doesn't automatically means you'll have big boobs. Plus your period doesn't make your boobs bigger. you'll boobs will get bigger over time don't worry about it. You still have more years for them to grow.
Ok im female and 17 and i got the worst belly ever its like im having a baby not like really fat but like theres a pile of fat that sticks out and im really embarassed i feel im putting on more and more weight i used to be slim and now im all Fat!!!!! i won't let my bf touch my belly when i see him its like a fear!!! is there anything i can do please help. x x x many thanx
Well you can try to get on a diet and go to the Gym like 2 a week. in some weeks you'll slim down adn your belly will be gone.
Im a 15/f, 16 in april.
okay for some reason i think its really odd to date a guy whos like 17. but then id love to date a guys whos turning 15. i know usually everyone wants to date guys who are older and taller then them but i mean i think its kinda gross well not gorss but just weird if i would date a guy whos like 2 years older then me or 2 years younger. is there something wrong with my brain or is that just my personality towards guys i like?
theres nothing wrong with you hon. it's just that you have differnt taste in guys. every girl does.
Hey, Im 14 years old and found a bump on my vagina. It looked somewhat like a pimple. There's only one. Could this be herpes or what? Should I just forget about it? I'm a virgin. Any help thank you.
you have to go to a gyno so she/he can tell you what you might have. It could be nothing or it could be something. I don't want to give you the wrong information.
how do you pronounce gynecologist
Gynecologist
Guy-ne-colo-gist thats how you pronounce.
Lately, I have had no purpose. I don't join after school activities and I don't really like to do many things outside of school. I just saw this movie saved and it got me thinking about thing. I never really was that into religion. I mean my family never went to church and we basically never practiced. I just want to start being a better person and starting up things to help others. Does anyone have anyideas?
Why don't you volunteer at a homeless shelter. You'll be helping other's and it's a nice thing to do. Plus if you want to go to college you can put your volunteer activities on your recomendation. Hoped i helped.
is it true that if you want to get pregnant, that the best time to have sex is right after your period ends?
No thats actrully not true. the best time to get pregnat is before your period starts like a week or some days cause then you'll be ovulating. When your off your period you know right when it's over then your not ovulating anymore.
Ok im 13/f and my bf and i are really close weve been dating for 2 year now and we are pretty sure were in love with each other...For REal...and its so weird because when we are just hangin out with all of my bf's friends we are like allways fooling around with each other and like kissing and hugging and i feel sorta..turned on...and i like wanna touch him and stuff...but then when we actually wanna take it a little further he starts putting his hand down my shirt and feeling my boobs! and i chicken out...what can i do to make my boyfriend feel that i want to be like sexually involved with him but i dont wanna be like all the other girls and a "whore" and just do it all at once?
please help i rate fives!
you can just be upfront. tell him you want to be intimate but you want himto me patiant with you and take it slow. that way you'll get what you want without feeling like your a whore and a whore is a girl who sleeps wit er body. And you fare away from that.
when you wear an OB tampon...should you wear a pad too? can you feel if you leak when you have a tampon in?
yes you can feel when you leakbut you don't have to wear a pad when you wear a tampon just wear a panty liner.
I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.
Cheers. I rate high
no it is not morally wrong it'sa natrual thing. don't stress about it.
Is there any way to tell by a hug if a guy likes you in a romantic way? I've had many different types of hugs, but most hugs are from family and friends, that's the type of hug where it's friendly, but does not in any way feel sexual.
I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with, after giving me my birthday gift, hugged me, but when he hugged me he held on for a couple seconds longer than most hugs last, and then he started to to stroke my back really slowly with his hand. There was no one else around, and normally he's shy around me with other people.
Do you think this was his way of letting me know he likes me as more than a friend?
yes. He's all rubbin on you and shit. girlof course he likes you. A hugg tells everything.
I've been having a lot of trouble this year concentrating, and my grades are definetly reflecting it. Everytime i sit down to do my homework, something distracts me so i go and do that first, or i call that person, or go talk to people online. I always feel like everything is more important then my schoool work but i know its not. I end up going to bed so late doing all these things i get distracted by. Does anyone have any suggestions that could help me concentrate on my schoolwork and not all these other little things?
i have the same problem just do what i do, go somewhere where it's quit and do your homework. make sure the phone your computer or other distractions are out of the way. then do your homework. when your done with it then you can do whatever you want.
Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl.
then stop hanging with her if the rumers started since yall been hanging with each other and maybe that will help stop it.
when i wake up in the morning i have my mind set on school and bringing my grades up but when i getto school i began to skip what is the problem dio i have skipping problem.;
i'm like the same way. Skipping is so easy at my school. Plus it's like a drug. The more you do it the funnier it gets but really you have to set it in your myne that if you skip you fail and if you fail you can't become anything in life. set up a plan to atten a certain number of classes a day then gradually you'll be attending all of them.
So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male.
man dump her ass. You just lost weight and she wants you to basicly gain it back. Tell her if she wants a fat ass boyfriend then get one. I mean what if yall break up (which yall will ) then your stuck being a fatass and who the hell want's a fat ass am i right. hell i know i'm right.
My guy friend sat down next to me an put his hand on my knee and said let's play "Are you nervous". I have no clue what that is so i didn't do anything. What is it and how do you play?
Thanx
Girl he wanted to fuck. Thats why he got all touchy feely. and said "do you wanna play" you just should have been like what. but your so slow that you didn't get what he ment.
Hey, So I screwed up really bad. I stole 3 pairs of pants from one of my friends. But then I gave them back, I said sorry and explained myself and everything. But now I don't feel like any of my friends like or trust me. What can I do to get our friendship back? PLEASE HELP!!
bitch noone wants to be friends with a someone who steals. Get over it. Your friendless. now cry to your self cause i don't wanna hear it.
There's a girl that I've liked for about 2 months. She's just about my perfect girl, but had been going out with this guy since I met her. I gave up on her about 2 weeks ago cuz he friends said she always has really long relationships. I moved on to this other girl and her and I hit it off. I told the 2nd girl that I like her today, and she said she liked me too. But not 10 minutes after that I found out the first girl was finally single. I think I might like the first girl more, but now it's like the 2nd girl expects her and I to go out. What should I do? Which one should I pick? And how do I not make myself look like an asshole either way? I'll rate high for good answers.
go with your perfect girl and if you find out she just wants to be friends then move on to girl number 2. So now you can have your cake and eat it too.
im a really petite girl...but a have a really wide and sorta i guess flabby butt. I neeeeed some excersizes of something before cheering starts!!!
you must be white cause if you were a sista your ass wouldnt be flabby. i'm glad i'm black. Anyways yea um do sum palaties that will tighten your flabby ass up real quick.
ok...im like one of the most popular girls at school but my friend is known as a "almost geek" and i love her to death shes like my sister...and i have been so popular since elementary school and i cant give that up but i also cant give my bestfriend up...Why is this so hard for me to decide on?What should i do give up popularity or help my friend become popular 2? please help!!
15
female
bitch i doubt that your all that populare. Plus who gives a fuck if your friend isn't. God i can tell by the way you wrote that you were whining. Being poplare is so hard @@. If you loved her and she was like a sister to you than you wouldn't care that she was a almost geek. Plus to add the more poplare you think you are the more people secretly hate you. don't you watch teen movies. So get over your self. If your friend is happy just the way she is then leave her be. You'll be a fat ass women in 12 years thinking about how cool and beautiful she was in her younger years.
:)