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Im 18 years old.I love giving advice to people.I try the best i can. Im going to be having a baby very soon.I love spending time with my friends and chatting online.Also writting in online journals, going to the library and spending time with my boyfriend and family. Also enjoy fishing and going to my lil bros baseball games , and going to the movies
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ok so me and my family are interested in a Sprint PCS Vision plan for our cell phones..there are four of us and od course my dads name will be on the plan thing..we want 300 anytime minutes plus sprint pcs vision picture mail and stuff so the total is $50 a month..but then it says its and extra $25 per month to add a phone with PCS Vision on it..if we all activate our phones to that plan at the same time will we have to pay that fee? or does it mean phones that you add later on? im so confused and i dont really trust asking the people at the counter..thanks!
i was just at sprint today because i wanted the vison pack also on my phone. Its $20 for the first main phone and then 5 dollars per phone you add on.thats what the paper says ,go to sprint they have a flyer with all the details , i was just there today i know what ur talkin about. If u look it up online there differnt then actual store. just so you know.
so im 13, female, and me and my boyfriend just began to go out. he has had many girlfriends before me, what im getting at is, he is experienced, and im not. i have only made out 1 time, and i dont think i did anything right.
i dont know what im supposed to do with my tongue?
i will rate 5's to anyone who answers decent.
sorry, i know this is a stupid question.
If you mean kissing , it isnt really as hard as it seems. I can tell you this i wasnt 15 years old till i got my first real make out kiss , and i was so scared because he was experienced and i wasnt . Follow his lead. Once u do it you will be able to do it all the time. Even if you need practice. I would tell him listen i've never done this before. He can teach you.
okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!
I must say that this sounds liek something i've went through before. But your friends are going to have friends you dont like and you are going to have friends your friends dont like. they need to choose am i going to not be her friend just because shes friends with this other person. Although i think if a good friend is letting someone bully you around thats not right. Real friends would atleast say ease up on her dont be so mean . Im sure if she got to know you she'd like you.Most girls who are bullys and say mean things to you are jealous of you and want to be like you or would want to be your friend , but there way of acting as if there better then u when infact there the ones who are the loser. They act like there the sh*t.I think you need to talk to your friend , and then tell all your friends to accept the friend you have because shes been the only good friend to you at this point. You shouldnt have to choose your friends because other friends dont like um. Im sorry but that is childish and its sad when the principle has to get involed. tell them they need to grow up . if the principle isnt doing anything , you can go to the cops for harassment , i've done it before and get a restraining order put agianst the girl. That way she cant talk to you , and if she does she'll get arrested and sadly sometimes it has to lead to that because teenage girls are dumb sometimes. Your not doing anything wrong. Just keep your head high and know you better then that .
There`s this boy I know.He says stuff to me like"since you`ve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight so where going to be making babeies"or"I am going to smak that big ass of yours".And I don`t realy like it when hedose that.One time I was alone with him and he started rubbing my body.I`ve told him to stop but he dosent listen.And if I tell an adult he might try to rape me.I need help so can you plese help me.
I honestly think you should tell someone he wont leave you alone. When you tell someone to stop and they dont thats going to far and he can get into trouble. i know u dont want to tell but your better off getting help before he does hurt you.
Dont not tell and then he'll keep going and then you'll be even more scared to tell. I had a similar thing happen to be and i never told. And its been 10 yrs . I was just a little kid though . --*>Mdezzy
where do i get those henna necklaces? you know..the cool ones that look like tattos on your neck that are black...is there anywhere that would be at a mall (such as claires or something)! i rate well!
I havent seen them around a lot latley.I know u can get them from like walmart or something! I got a couple from there . Alsoo sometimes they have them in gum ball machines too .
Hey everyone,
My sister n law is having a baby, and she just found out today that she's going to be having another boy! I was wondering if anyone could help me out, and suggest any boy names pretty much that you can think of. I already suggested about 45 names to my brother, and he hasn't liked any of them! He's the most picky person I know! I know alot of the common ones people use these days, so if you can try not to suggest some of those. Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try, cuz I'm a really nice person. :-)
Tadd
Louis
Rick
I agree with babynames.com
there is baby name books at the store .
im naming my kid jacob, which i picked that name before i realized it was the number one name in america.But i dont care its the name i liked since forever. Good luck hun.
Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?
Well it does kinda depend on what the fight was about. try and talk to her , if that doesnt work give her time to chill , im sure she'll relize how much she misses you as friend. SOmetimes peopel say those things , but they end up forgiving you and misses each other. try a talk.
Im sure you to can rebuild a friendship , it may take sometime but im sure u can work through it. Even if u dont hun , its her loss , because people like that arent worth being friends with.
mDezzy--->
Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
16 f
Honestly if he does it once, hes probley sure enough to do it agian. Maybe you should suggest anger management classes , because u have to have a serious anger problem.I dont mean to be mean , but im going to tell you from friends experiences.
Just dont do anything you dont feel right doing though , its all up to you.
ok so i was wondering how long will it take me to get a flat stomach..im not asking for abs that show just to lose about 35 pounds and get a flat stomach. this really means alot to me, cuz since im overweight no guy ever likes me even though they can tell im fat. we r going to corpus christi with my swim team this weekend and everyone i know is going to wear a 2 peice and be all pretty, will i'll be stuck in my one piece and all the guys will go to my one friend. so please help me. thnx in advance. i'll rate high to anyone who is nice to me.
there is a diet. but you have stick to the diet. Its a south beach diet you can read about it , if u look it up or something. They have certain healthy foods you should eat and things like that. you can still eat meat , but no pasta , nobread. you could even work out some , maybe running for a little while. do you have a Ymca by you ? because then you join and work out there , they have a pool and a place to work out and things like that .
what is ska music?? is it like punk music, and give me examples of bands that are 'ska'! THnks!
ska music is like punk-Mxpx , supertone. -or so my boyfriend says lol!!
Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.
Tim
Im 18 years old right now and im pregnant . The best ways for a guy to help out in the realtionships is to be there for her emotionally . We women tend to get mean and emotional the further along in the pregnancy. She might feel sick and tired sometimes and need your help with somethings. So the best thing is to help her out and ask her if she needs anything. Make sure she gets good sleep to because her sleeping might change , it gets harder to sleep when your pregnant . If you share a bed it gets harder for her because shes going to want to lay other ways then she did before. Believe me im 8months now and i cant get comfortable if i tried. She will get upset over things much easier. Her parents might come around at some point i mean its there granchild it didnt do anything to them.But im sure if you want the baby , you too will be able to handle it. Taken care of a baby is a hard thing , but it will get easier. Just when the baby comes be ready to not get any sleep , and be up all hours. I wish you both the best of luck and im sure you too can make it. Just remember.. -- mood changes , cravings --she will want things weird, she will want ice cream probley , i always wanted ice cream. -- Goodluck!!!*mDezzy--->
one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand?
the best way to handle it is to tell her how you feel about it.You need to just tell her. Dont not say anything to her cuz then she will not understand. If i was in your shoes i'd tell her listen i really dont like that girl. But if your friend likes her and your her friend you will still be her friend. Some friends as you get older are friends with people you dont like and u have to suck it up and understand that they like other people too . Its a pretty crappy thing and believe me i've felt the same way you had , so just tell her how you feel sometimes that helps . I hope i didnt say anything that sounded like i offended you . *mDezzy---->
I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.
*heartbroken, and confused*
I know you dont want to hear your time will come.Sometimes it takes longer for somepeople to get boyfriends then others. I never used to date until i was 15 years old. Its hard to to find boyffriends when your young. I'd say maybe if you start to be more open with people you like you may finally get someone. Maybe this guy you like is dating someone. Maybe you should find someone else to like and you should tell them how you feel. Im sure you will have someone soon!! I wish you luck sweet heart.
Does anyone else think that Anikan Skywalker from starwars (episode 3) is hott? I do and so do a couple of other ppl i kno. But some of my friends think im weird i tell them that if they saw him they would think hes hott too.
Im just curious.
I rate high!
Hes a cute guy.Im sure they would think the same way.Im sure they think someone else famous is hott and they dont want to admit it .But im with you on that sweet heart.Hes a cutie pie!!!!
you know how we all sometimes have quotes as our away message on AIM? well does anyone know any for BBQ's? instead of saying "oh outside having a BBQ" anyone know any BBQ quotes? thxxx
anytime u need away messages i dont know if there is any bbq ones but if u ever want humors ones go to www.aimawaymessage.com
Hi im in highschool and looking for a scholarship program for a medical school, my family makes only 60,000 a year and im afraid that there wont be enough money for colledge! I need a scholarship program, anything is apperciated! thanks!
there are many sites , look up online for them , immm sure you could find something.even when you go to college you could even maybe get a student loan , which you'd have to pay a certain amount back in a certain amount of time. Its like a payment plan they give you. If you dont have the money for college more colleges let you get paayment plans.If you have good grades or play a sport you couldl get a fullscholarship. Or some scholarship. My friend had really good grades and got a full scholarship to college.
My friend is so annoying ive been dating this boy Josh for a week or so and she flirts with him in maths becuase she sits next to him. She does it on purpose then going on websites in lessons and searches for love metres then types "Abbie" then "Josh" and then she calculates it and i say to her "Omg you fancy my boyfriend" and she is like no i was just wondering what %'age it would come up i was like yeah BallS**** its so annoying every boy i like SHE likes and the MOST ANNOYING THING IS she can get anyone she wants. She has everyone and just flaunts it right in my face when she is ment to be my "Best friend" and when ever i confront her she gets her older sister on me and stuff and goes round the school spreading rumoours bout me and josh and stuff so no one likes me. Then i tell her to p off and get out my life then she follows me and my girls just b/c she is on her larry i hate her i seriously wish she wernt invented!
Shes not your friend if shes doing that to you. She wants what you have sounds like.But if shes going to run to her sister thats so mature. thats about 2nd grade bullcrap. you need to ditch her ,, shes not worth the time.Friends dont do that crap to each other. there are better friends then that . *mDezzy
does anyone know any cute girly quote websites? not quote craze because it really doesnt have anything new? thanks! i rate.
www.firehotquotes.com
and there is another one but i dont have it off the top of my head ill send it once i find it.
and theres www.xanga.com/Html_quotes_x
there is some girly quotes there too.
Ok, I'm 17/f and I just had a baby. He's 3 weeks now and I'm having a hard time supporting him. His dad won't do anything. He says that he's not sure if it's even his which is a completely false because I gave my virginity to him. He said he won't pay a time until he knows that it's his so he wants a paternity test. So I arranged for the test and he never showed up. He gave me a bogus excuse but I said fine and scheduled another one. We've gone through this process 5 times and he still won't help me or even get the test done. I dropped out of school and I'm working 2 jobs to try and support him because I have no family to help me. My best friend has been an angel she's been taking him to the school and putting him in the day care center so that I can work. She's also been watching him after school for me. I've tried paying her but she refuses the money. She's only one that I have helping me. I need his help. I just don't have enough money. I don't want to put her in foster care because I grew up in different foster homes and I refuse to put her threw that. I think that things would be fine if I could just get him to pay even a little child support. How do I go about taking him to court for child support? Do I need to hire a lawyer for this or can I do it on my own? If he needs to have a paternity test done is there anyway that I can make sure that he will actually show up?? Please help me I'm really confused. I will rate 5's to anyone who tries.
Im pregnant right now. I was at the start having some problems with my boyfriend. he wanted to take me to court. I'd say talk to a lawyer and tell them whats going on and how its hard for u to make a living. He will get papers sent in the mail with a court date. he will have to show. if he refuses to pay child support after they tell him too , he will have to go to jail for x amount of days. and it will just keep happing until you give up. I'd say try it once .He must not be a man if he cant take care of his child. Men are immature , and girl mature so much faster then men . I wish you so much luck sweet heart. I hope to god you take him to court and they take money outta his paycheck everyweek so you are 100% sure you get your money. Tons of love and if u take him to court , please let me know how you make out . *mDezzy.
i hav a crush on mi best friend wat should i do?
I had a similar deal. My friend though liked me. a lot . He told me , you should maybe tell them how you feel and how your starting to like them. Thats only way you know something can happen. *Mdezzy*