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one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand?
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Well, you can't "make" her understand.
I am friends with all sorts of people and there are some that my best friend doesn't care for.
But I'm not going to tell them "hey my best friend doesn't like you, so GO AWAY!"
There is obviously something your bbf likes about this "slut" you don't care for. Don't ruin things with your friends just because she simply is hanging out with someone else. And don't think of it like your being replaced. I think you should tell her how you feel and see if it means anything to her at all. Then you will know what to do.
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I totally understand. the same thing has happened to me! .. talk to your best friend and tell her why you dont like sam. Explain to her that it hurts your feelings. Tell her. she may not notice it. if she doesnt listen the 1st time... try again. GIVE HER EXAMPLES! **good luck!**... it may take time!... just be patiant ... DONT GIVE UP!
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dont make fun of people
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Now, now, namecalling is not the answer.
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This has happened to me just recently except for the whole(no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a b!%(# ) part. But I dont really know a way to catch her unless you catch her in the moment of being a total Horr-able person. Im sorry i couldnt be more helpful.
~CrzyLatinaChc~
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I suggest telling your friend how you feel about this girl and why. Tell your friend what you said in here, and explain to her why you think Sam is not a good person to be friends with. Tell her she really hurt your feelings by replacing for awhile, and if she was really your bestfriend, she would understand your feelings. I hope I helped! If you already did this, I suggest not being friends with her anymore and keep your distance.
~Alexa~
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the best way to handle it is to tell her how you feel about it.You need to just tell her. Dont not say anything to her cuz then she will not understand. If i was in your shoes i'd tell her listen i really dont like that girl. But if your friend likes her and your her friend you will still be her friend. Some friends as you get older are friends with people you dont like and u have to suck it up and understand that they like other people too . Its a pretty crappy thing and believe me i've felt the same way you had , so just tell her how you feel sometimes that helps . I hope i didnt say anything that sounded like i offended you . *mDezzy---->
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