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He wont stop


Question Posted Wednesday June 15 2005, 12:29 pm

There`s this boy I know.He says stuff to me like"since you`ve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight so where going to be making babeies"or"I am going to smak that big ass of yours".And I don`t realy like it when hedose that.One time I was alone with him and he started rubbing my body.I`ve told him to stop but he dosent listen.And if I tell an adult he might try to rape me.I need help so can you plese help me.

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little_lightning_bug answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:28 pm:
you NEED TO TELL AN ADULT!!!!!!!!!!there is no reason he should treat you like that after you have asked him not to. you really just need to stop him in his tracks when he starts touching you, say if you don't stop im not afriad to make you and the instant that he does touch you again in a way you don't like, kick him right in the balls!!!!!you still will need to tell an adult if you don't tell and let him get a way with it then you are allowing him to think its ok and it isn't ok! just in case also ask the adult you talk to if you could possible be moved far away from this person and also ask for your name not to be used. also inform you parents so that they can also take nessary procautions so that no one will be hurt!

best of luck!

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BeMyPrInCe22 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:20 pm:
Just totally avoid him.

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xBABii3GURLx11 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:19 pm:
Tell your parents or a friend. Maybe together you can take some action because stuff like this in the world is bad. He needs some serious help. And make sure wherever you go stay with alot of people because you never know what he could do.

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selectopaque answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 12:43 pm:
Why is it that he would try to rape you if you tell an adult? You need to find someone older that you trust a lot and ask them to help you.

You need to make sure that your never alone with him. Make sure you always have someone with you, close to you, so he can't wisper things like that to you without them hearing it also.

Does this happen at school? If so, then you definately need to tell someone before it gets to the point where your too afraid to go to school.

Is it possible that he thinks you like this? Or, that once he knows for sure that you don't like it, that he'll stop?

I know it doesn't seem likely, especially since you've already told him to stop... but... guys can be quite dense. In these kind of situations, people can sometimes ignore please of "stop" and see and hear what they want to hear. Which, in many cases is that you like what he is doing even if you clearly do not.

I really think you need to tell an adult who you trust. Or at least a very good friend who can help you out.

Other than that, you need to avoid him as much as possible, and make it COMPLETELY clear that you don't like his advances. Try threatening to go to an authority figure if he doesn't stop. Or, just go to an authority figure without warning him first.

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mdezzy16 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 12:43 pm:
I honestly think you should tell someone he wont leave you alone. When you tell someone to stop and they dont thats going to far and he can get into trouble. i know u dont want to tell but your better off getting help before he does hurt you.
Dont not tell and then he'll keep going and then you'll be even more scared to tell. I had a similar thing happen to be and i never told. And its been 10 yrs . I was just a little kid though . --*>Mdezzy

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