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idk what to do
I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.
*heartbroken, and confused*
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I know what you mean. And trust me theres nothing wrong with you. You just got a late start. I mean try to be a little more open with a boy you have a crush on . BUt dont think so low of your self. Good luck
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honestly. true love waits. i know i sound cliche, but it's true. you're 14. most relationships at this age don't work out. there's really no point in dating until you're ready to get married, because it'll just give you a reason to do "things" with a guy. about this guy that you may be in love with.. if it's meant to be it'll happen. seriously, don't worry about it. oh and you don't have to be pretty or skinny to get a good guy. don't settle for anyone.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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for some boys..or most you need to have/be--
"cool"
out going**********
nice
awesome
funny *************
"pretty " :/
but please do not change these are just things that guys like
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hey! I am going thru the exact same thing!! right now I am just taking it one step at a time. Try talking to him and hanging out with him and getting to know him better. Always be yourself! If nothing happens then, then look for another guy...no guy is worth you waiting for. Lastly, have confidence in yourself! Never let anyone put you down no one on God's green Earth isn't beautiful in one way or another!
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Well, first you need to boost your self esteem. You don't seem to be very confident at all and guys like confidence in a girl. It lets them know that you trust yourself and can be more comfortable in a relationship. Don't just look at your body for confidence, you need to look at all of you, meaning inside and out. You are pretty in more ways than you know, you just need to find it within yourself to believe it.
You don't have to have had a boyfriend to be 'popular'. My friend had never had a boyfriend in her life and she was one of the most popular girls in school. She is nice and funny and that's why everyone liked her. Boyfriends aren't meant to show everyone how cool and pretty you are, you can shine on your own.
Boyfriends don't always bring you the glory you think they do. It's very hard work. It takes two people in a relationship to make things work. Only the best guys can give what it takes to make a great relationship. It takes trust from both people to make it work. Relationships can distract you from school and they also bring stress. If your boyfriend has accused you of cheating or not liking him, you are going to worry about it until it has been cleared up. It's very draining emotionally.
So enough of that, when you find a guy that you like and he can see how beautiful you are, then it will be right. Rushing into a relationship is never good. You will find the right guy, he just might not be around right now. Your fourteen. Remember that. You have so many years ahead of you to enjoy life. Being single is so much fun! You can flirt with anyone and you aren't restricted to not talking to your guy friends. Enjoy being single and free, don't rely on boyfriends to make you happy. Party with your friends and just chill. :)
I really hope this helped you out!
~K~
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WEll maybe you have to become more interesting to boys. More confident. All people are attracted to people who have confidence in themselves. Look at Donald Trump. He is a pompous ass, and not that good looking, oK so he's rich, but he has lots of women after him. Because he is very very confident. actually he is kind of conceited. BUt there is a happy medium. SO how do you gain confidence. Well be smart, and kknowing what to do and how to act in all situations. Being mature. Knowing that some day your time will come, not whining about it and wanting it to change. This don't change just because we want them to. So a mature person would know that some day, they will meet someone wonderful. Or find someone wonderful. BE outgoing and be available. When you are around boys, help them to feel good about themselves. Ask them questions about themselves. Boys love to talk about themselves. As their opinion about something. That works with anyone because people like to speak their mind, and many are flattered when some one asks them their opinion, about anything. People also like to help. Ask a guy for help with something, and the be real appreciative. Tell them you would have never thought of that, or you could not have accomplished that without their help.
And confidence comes with age. Things will get better. It sucks being a young teen.
I hope this helps.
MIchele
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I know you dont want to hear your time will come.Sometimes it takes longer for somepeople to get boyfriends then others. I never used to date until i was 15 years old. Its hard to to find boyffriends when your young. I'd say maybe if you start to be more open with people you like you may finally get someone. Maybe this guy you like is dating someone. Maybe you should find someone else to like and you should tell them how you feel. Im sure you will have someone soon!! I wish you luck sweet heart. <3*mDezzy-->
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omgsh! i know just how you feel all of my friends have or have had boyfriends and i have not i think im the only one in my school who has not danced with someone at a dance and just like you i have this HUGE crush on this guy that goes to another school but im not sure if hes dating someone. to me it seem like God wants us to have only a few true boyfrinds that we love an d not like 100 duds! know what i mean?
best wishes--hope i helped
--Becca--
p.s. im sure your beautiful!
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