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Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:
*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...
hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!
sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice? (link)
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Hey Sweetie! I'm really not sure who she likes better. It seems as if she still likes her ex, but im not sure if she likes you as much. I kno that you dont wanna hear this, and that it will be hard, but you should try to talk to her about it. Try to get her to tell you the truth on who she likes better, if it's you, then tell her that she needs to get over her ex, and if it's her ex, then you should respect that and see if you still wanna go out with her and/or if she still wants to go out with you. But, just respect her answer and try not to get pissed off at her, because i can tell hat you really like her, but she really cant help who she likes better, so try not to get mad. Hope i helped...love ya! JoRdAn!
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Okay, my sister pretty much passed out while online, and I asked her friend why and he said because she said that she had really bad cramps, and that she was throwing up, which I can tell because it's in a bucket. But she got really light headed as he said and passed out? Now, I wanna know, is that normal, because she's only 14 and I'm worried about her. I don't want nothing bad happening to her, she's my baby sister.
Please help me.
Thanks. (link)
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Normal? Well, it doesn't happen to alot of girls, but it does happen to some. It's nothing to worry about too seriously, because that has almost happened to me before. You should tell your mom to take her to a doctor to see if there is a perscription they can put her on (mine got so bad that thats what I did). But, if they aren't always that bad, then she should take 1 or 2 Aleve's every 4-6 hours starting two days before and ending one day after her period. Sorry so long. Hope I helped!
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okay my boyfriend and i were in the shower together i engaged in oral sex(i gave him head). the semen didnt go near my vagina but it went on my hand and in the bottom of the tub. is there any chance like i could get pregnant. thanks
also what the percentage risk of getting pregnant while on your period thanks (link)
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im almost positive that you acnt get pregnant from semem that has been in water
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http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/leebyon/detail?.dir=/7d58&.dnm=c37a.jpg&.src=ph&.tok=phZPcWDBnyid3iuz
this is a pic of me...im in the middle...do you think im pretty or ugly...be honest. (link)
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i think that your VERY pretty! i wouldnt lie to you either!
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i have a lot of questions regarding sex, relationships, and everything in between.. but some questions are too personal to ask.. is there any columnist who has an AIM screen name who can answer my questions.. i'll feel really weird asking them but i have no one here to help me and there's a lot on my mind and i would really appreciate the help..
thanx♥ (link)
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Jesuslover901 ask me anything!
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I've been reading this site for awhile now and up until I got to this site, I never realized the magnitude of idiots cutting themselves.
What the hell is the allure of slicing metal, glass or whatever into your skin?
"Oh god, life sucks, and I feel so bad. What should I do?"
Its like the people here take half of the advice here seriously and because they can't help themselves through simple problems they do something stupid and nearly suicidal.
"I know what I can do, I can inflict injuries to myself - because a double negative is a positive right? Thats what I learned in English class!"
Enlighten me? (link)
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hey...i am not a weak retard so you need to shut the HECK up and go through something that you cant handle and tell me what you did about it, and THEN if the answer isnt cutting or hurting yourself in SOME way, then you can call me a weak retard!!!! you have no FREAKING clue! (that was to makenzie or w/e) im sorry about that outburt but she pissed me off!
I used to cut myself all the time and I realize now, that it was stupid, but it felt good to let my pain out that way. I guess that my mental pain was so great that I couldnt feel the phisical pain. I had no intentions of killing myself, but just knowing that I had control over something in my life helped me through the pain. The only thing that killed my addiction to cutting was knowing that God was there for me and I could trust Him and i knew that He was my best answer...Now, I just pray and/or go somewhere where I can and I scream as loud as I can.
Please let me know if i helped...I hope so..laughalott26...Jordan
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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.
Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?
Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.
Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight (link)
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hi! My hair is the SAME EXACT way...i love it sometimes, but hate it others. What i normally do is straighten it in layers and i use an oil called "Frizz-Ease Oil Serum" (you can get it at wal-mart and the cheap brand works just as well) use it on every layer after you srtaighten it, but not too much or your hair will look greasy and spray a little of some type of strong hold hair sray on every peice, brush it and spray it really good before you leave the house...that should last for at LEAST 2 days and it will still take a while, but that helps the frizzyness.
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ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does? (link)
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I think that you should tell him even if you will never see him again. If you don't, will you always wonder what would have happened?? These last few days with him might be great just as friends, but you have to ask yourself if they will be better if he knows how you feel. hope i helped!!
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I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.
*heartbroken, and confused* (link)
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hey! I am going thru the exact same thing!! right now I am just taking it one step at a time. Try talking to him and hanging out with him and getting to know him better. Always be yourself! If nothing happens then, then look for another guy...no guy is worth you waiting for. Lastly, have confidence in yourself! Never let anyone put you down no one on God's green Earth isn't beautiful in one way or another!
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Hi. my name is maddie and im 14. For about a year now I have liked this guy named pj. I could swear at somepoints he liked me to but im not sure. Well you see now he is liking this other girl. who I really dont like. And im not sure what to do. Everyone says I should move on even my bestfriend does! they say I have so many other options.. but I keep giving guys up for a chance with him, but that never seems to happen.. Im not sure what I should do.. Can you help?
-thanks maddie (link)
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Don't ever sit around and wait on a guy! If he feels the same way about you as you do about him things will happen. You should tell him how you feel or nothing will ever happen. hope that helped if not trell me more about your relationship now.
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i am a 13/f. i need indepandance. i want to be able to go places. to peirce my belly button. to go to rated r movies. not to have to sneak out to see my boyfreind. dye my hair purple. own a housekey.
i cut my hair, and it looks okay, but my mom didnt see it yet. i am so grounded tommorow. i have like no freedom in my house. my mom reads my emails and my books! she doesnt let me go to peoples houses unless she knows them. doesn't want me to pluck my eyebrows like i do. sh wants me to let them be natural!?:/ doesnt want me to have a bf. (she would flip if she knew the truth)my mom is like a watchdog. i gotta do something. talking to her or my dad doesnt work. my mom is in charge of the family, and in my face. what should i do to gain her trust and rights that a teenager should have?
-thanks
-xoxo olga (link)
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hey! i know how you feel! Your mom doesnt understand that the more she watches you, the more you want to rebel against her. She is only trying to keep you close by her and safe from the dangers of the world, but it can be too much to handle!! Just listen to her and unerstand what she is trying to do, while keeping your grounds, also. The more stuff you get caught doing the more she will want to hold you right by her side, so be careful what you do!
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I found a pipe and a lighter in my brother's draw. I was furious because I'm am strongly against smoking. He's in college...I understand he's old enough to make his own descisions, but he has a lot going for him and I don't want him to screw up his future....What are the possibilities of what he was smoking? Like weed..tobacco?And, is there a site that has the bad effects of it, or if you guys can list some that will convince him to stop, I would appreciate it! (link)
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Don't jump to conclusions so quickly. Even it it was him, then just hope that it was a one-time thing. There is really no speach to give him. I went through this problem, but I was the one smoking. The only thing that helped me stop was knowing that Jesus Christ was watching every step that I took and I knew He wouldn't approve. That really helped me and my friends all helped me to stop. Try talking to him, but don't let him know that you are mad about it.
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in college I want to major in interior decorationg because I think I have a flair in that type of art. for those who don't know that much about it, it's when you help design color schemes, furniture, decorations, paint, etc. for peoples' rooms and stuff. Well I want to know if that's a good paying job and if I'll make enough money to support myself and kids, a house, etc. I'm not trying to be selfish, but I really want to know if it's a good enough job. Thanks. (link)
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My aunt is an interior decorator and she is GREAT at it. She also cleans their house while she's there. You could do that if your still worried, but I think that you would make enough just designing.
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form my upcoming birthday me and a bunch of close friends are goin camping .. we have 3 sites booked and i know the pools will be open cuz they are after memorial day. but i was jsut wondering if anyone knows anything else we could do there for fun. most the poeple going have never been camping, and i want my party to be fun!...please help ...ill rate high! (link)
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There's always hot dogs and smores at night and during the day you all could take walks and look around...most of the time there are playgrounds somewhere around (you can act crazy, but don't get in trouble.) lol did that help any?? I Hope that you have fun!!
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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole. (link)
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I have a friend JUST LIKE THAT! and it's RELE hard 4 me cuz she lives right next door, and I know EXACTLY whut u mean! I rele haven't figured out whut to do yet....but so far i have been kind of not hangin' out w/ her as much. i mean..dont blow her off completly but give her a hint and if she dont get it then...then tri to tell her...start the convo like "i have a friend that goes to another skool, she..." and tell a story about "someone else" and see if she gets it then. ya noe? i hope that helped a little.
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