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ahh what to do?
So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole.
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my suggestion is just ignore her and hang out with your other friends and soon they will all begin to ignore her to and eventually she realize how shes acting and if that doesnt work then simply just yell at her and make sure she listens
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If she starts bugging you again, tell her, in a nice way, that she is really bugging you, and you want ehr to stop it, and if she doesn't then just don't be friends with her. Hope i helped.
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I have a friend JUST LIKE THAT! and it's RELE hard 4 me cuz she lives right next door, and I know EXACTLY whut u mean! I rele haven't figured out whut to do yet....but so far i have been kind of not hangin' out with her as much. i mean..dont blow her off completly but give her a hint and if she dont get it then...then tri to tell her...start the convo like "i have a friend that goes to another skool, she..." and tell a story about "someone else" and see if she gets it then. ya noe? i hope that helped a little.
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Maybe blowin up on her and sayin what you got say will straighten her out cause she needs some reality blown into her mind to think people are actually poseing her.. If everyone was posing her i think that you wouldnt be able to stand anybody.. but i would just speak my mind if i was you maybe be a lil bit mean but just so she knows whats going on.. ♥ Nikki
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Hi Hun, Sorry to hear about this friend of yours. Hmm.. I know this sounds weird, but iv'e had a friend like this a while ago. I know it seems like she wants to be "miss popular", or the most beautiful, or anything like that. I know this sounds a little mean, but if your this annoyed of her behavior and/or personality, you should try making some new friends that you can actually hang around or thats more like you. Because every girl is beautiful in there own way, and if someone like this girl your mentioning is putting herself out there too much, then she really doesnt have a true beauty. It doesn't seem like shes really a poser.. but maybe sort of a "Push Out Girl". If you know what that means.. But like i said. If this has been annoying you long enough, you should consider making new friends. And in the end, she will finally realize what shes been doing wrong.
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well tell her that you to are eagul; and you dont have anything to prove duhhhhhh
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my suggestion is just ignore her n hang out with your other friends n soon they will all begin to ignore her to and eventually she realize how shes acting and if that doesnt work then simply just yell at her and make sure she listens
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If she starts bugging u again, tell her, in a nice way, that she is really bugging you, and you want ehr to stop it, and if she doesn't then just don't be friends with her. Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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I have a friend JUST LIKE THAT! and it's RELE hard 4 me cuz she lives right next door, and I know EXACTLY whut u mean! I rele haven't figured out whut to do yet....but so far i have been kind of not hangin' out w/ her as much. i mean..dont blow her off completly but give her a hint and if she dont get it then...then tri to tell her...start the convo like "i have a friend that goes to another skool, she..." and tell a story about "someone else" and see if she gets it then. ya noe? i hope that helped a little.
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Maybe blowin up on her and sayin what you got say will straighten her out cause she needs some reality blown into her mind to think people are actually poseing her.. If everyone was posing her i think that you wouldnt be able to stand anybody.. but i would just speak my mind if i was you maybe be a lil bit mean but just so she knows whats going on.. ♥ Nikki
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Hi Hun, Sorry to hear about this friend of yours. Hmm.. I know this sounds weird, but iv'e had a friend like this a while ago. I know it seems like she wants to be "miss popular", or the most beautiful, or anything like that. I know this sounds a little mean, but if your this annoyed of her behavior and/or personality, you should try making some new friends that you can actually hang around or thats more like you. Because every girl is beautiful in there own way, and if someone like this girl your mentioning is putting herself out there too much, then she really doesnt have a true beauty. It doesn't seem like shes really a poser.. but maybe sort of a "Push Out Girl". If you know what that means.. But like i said. If this has been annoying you long enough, you should consider making new friends. And in the end, she will finally realize what shes been doing wrong.
Hope i helped,
L0VE ALWAYS, ALLi * X0XO
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