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Ok my friends a girl but shes just a friend and she says that she is really fat but shes really not like shes really skinny. And she says shes on diets and stuff like that, how can i make sure that she wont like hurt herself or anythin bad?

Just be there for her.. ♥ Dez

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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do?

I suggest waitin til you meet a guy your comfortable with ♥ Nikki

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well... i like this girl a lot. and i want to know the proper way to finger a girl. i dont want to do a bad job and i want her to be pleasured by it. so please tell me the best way to do it. i need to know by thursday.

i suggest slowly move your hand down her vagina and slide one finger in and move in and out gently first and also ask her if she's ok.. dont jamm it in there and hurt her.. then if you can try to put another finger inside of her.. also while doin this just keep askin is she ok.. ♥ Nikki

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hey, i'm a fourteen year old and i've never kissed a girl in my life, idk how, and i'm too shy to do it, a lot of people think i'm good looking and i've had a lot of gf's, i've just been too shy to do it, and i don't know how, so, yeah, any tips?

just go along with what she does. maybe practice or tell this girl you've never kissed a female and u are nervous bout it maybe that would help her also. dont feel stupid to open up to your girl. ♥ Nikki

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Im buying a shirt for a friend of mine who is 6`1 and quite thin. Im not sure what size shirts he wears and I dont want to ask him because I want it to be a surprise. Do you think a large or meduim would work best? Looking at both length and width. I dont want him with baggly clothes but I dont want it too short either.

Depends on his style. if he dresses baggy then get it baggy if her wears it tight get it tight n if he wears his shirts lik a normal guy get a size medium.. ♥ Nikki

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is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)

Maybe try gettin contacts orrrr takin the glasses off. but i believe u still can make out with them on as long as there not like real think and big.. i mean my grandma and grandpa both wear glasses and still can kiss.. ♥ Nikki

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hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!

nice looking.. and ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha LOVE YA!

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i'm dating this guy right now and he's my first real relationship so i've never kissed before and i'm not sure if i know how or not what if i totally screw up if or when we kiss or something? how can i make sure that i don't? because the person has kissed other people before so he probably knows what he's doing but like what if i drool on him or something????
--paranoid

Calm down hun.. i thought all the same things i had my first kiss from a guy at 15 just go with what he does after the first time you'll know what your comfortable with maybe swllow spit before kissing him so you dont have to worry about the drooling thing.. just dont freak out about the whole thing you'll do alright.. ♥ Nikki

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Me and my best friend both like the same guy, and obviously we both know about it. We think he likes both of us too, but we're not 100% sure. If he does like both of us we're not sure what to do because we both like him. I was thinking that we could let him decide, but if he picks her (which I figure he will cause I think she's pretter than me) I'll probably feel hurt. And it's probably the same with her! Does anyone have any ideas??

How about neither of you have the guy and remain friends.. cause if it hurts one of you then get mad then your friendship will end over a guy.. dont chance that and just be friends with the guy.. ♥ Nikki

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The other night at my sleepover I called this guy that I really like. My one friend that was there really likes him too. I told him that he should come over and watch movies with us. We didn't think he'd take it seriously, but he did and he asked if he could come. We told him that my dad would kill me if he did and I know that he really wanted to come over. We told him there was enough room between me and my friend that liked him for him. We think he likes both of us, but we dunno. Does this sound like he likes me more? or what? plz help!!

i think ASK HIM would be better.. ♥ Nikki

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im a 21 year old male and my girlfriend is 19 and 8 months pregnant.She's thinks i dont find her attractive anymore because it seems like ive lost my sex drive!!what should i do??

Alot of girls seem to think that when they get pregnant cause they get fat and stuff.. but just show her you do love her and everything.. kiss her every now and then cuddle with her.. do everyting you did before she got pregnant.. ♥ Nikki

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im 15/f & i have been dating this guy for about 5months now...whoopie 5 months i kno it doesnt sound long..but we talked for the longest before dating...we've had sex a couple of times & stuff...i love him so much..well at least i feel like i do & i know we arent going to break up & i know im guna be with him forever...but no one believes that i "love" him..how can i prove them wrong?!
sincerly,
Love Struck In La.

you dont need to prove anything.. you know what you feel nobody can tell you how you feel for somebody.. and you also believe what you believe.. and it is possible to love somebody even if it has been 5 months.. just dont try to prove anything to anybody and keep your relationship tight with him.. ♥ Nikki

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okay.. i have a boyfriend who is a marine and i dont get to see him until some weekends.. and he can only call during some days of the week.. i havent talked to him in a few days now.. but i know he is busy with work.. anyways.. i hang out with more guys than i do with girls.. i jsut have more guy friends i guess.. but a few of these guys likes me.. and i dont know.. i mean they are wonderful guys.. and i do like one of them.. he is always there for me and i talk to him everyday.. and he makes me very happy... but i love my bf.. its just i dont get to see him.. and i am not happy cuz i feel so alone when he is gone.. and he will be leaving in about a few months to go fight in iraq.. and the situation already hurts... so i dont know what to do.. i guess i am confused.. can someone help?..

Awww thats awful im sorry to hear about him going to Iraq.. But i think you should talk to your current boyfriend about this and tell him how you feel but tell him your not happy.. and mention why you arent happy.. or maybe write him a letter if that would be easier.. but i wouldnt tell him right away about the whole being interested in another guy.. just tell him you'd like to move on and still be friends with him and that you'll always love him and what not. i know worrying about him in Iraq will be horrible.. and then i guess move on with this other guy but keep the current boyfriend in your prayers when he;s in iraq and i wouldnt lose contact with him if you decide to do this.. keep him close as a friend.. ♥ Nikki

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hey sakura, my great great step-grandpa raped me but like he's sort of related to me in a way thats too confusing to say. well i had my kid and the kids dad is like 97 years old and im only 14. this is very embarassing but i am in a crisis because the baby is going to live a bad life and it's dad is going to die pretty soon..like you don't live very much longer than age 97. plz help me my baby it's so innocent.

Thats fucked up.. im not sure how serious you are about this question but when the awful mother fucker dies you'll most likely be gettin hella money.. and uh final charges on him.. but if your lyin bout this GROW the fuck up.. grow out of this childish bullshit.. ♥ Nikki

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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole.

Maybe blowin up on her and sayin what you got say will straighten her out cause she needs some reality blown into her mind to think people are actually poseing her.. If everyone was posing her i think that you wouldnt be able to stand anybody.. but i would just speak my mind if i was you maybe be a lil bit mean but just so she knows whats going on.. ♥ Nikki

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I recently had a baby 8 months ago. I just stopped breastfeeding her 2 months ago and I still have not gotten my period. I have been getting real bad painful cramps like I would be getting my period soon but nothing comes. Sometimes my cramps hurt so bad I have to run to the restroom and have real bad diarea. Is there something wrong with me??

I think it takes awhile for you to start your period again it took my mom and siter a long time hun.. But to be on the safe side maybe see a doctor anyways.. ♥ Nikki

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hey in the song gin and juice does it go "rollin down the street smokin mendo" or "rollin down the street smokin indo" ?

indo..

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Okay, I wasn`t really sure what to put this under but okay. I am 13 years old and I have some clear, kind of gooey stuff that sometimes appears in my panties. I'm afraid to get fingered because of it. I'm afraid the guy will get grossed out. Could someone tell me what this is and how I could get rid of it?
Thanks I'll rate fives for good answers.

Hey Calm down this is completely NORMAL.. Ebery female gets it and he can still finger you.. he'll most likely think its from you being wet if you get wet.. but even if he does say anything tell him its normal.. ♥ Nikki

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Hi,
Ok, so this guy has asked me out for the longest time. about 5 minutes ago he ask me out again and i turned him down, again, and he was like 'well if we cant go out can we be friends with benifits? like blow jobs, fingering, etcetera... ' and ive noticed myself feeling more attraction to him lately just not enough to be in a relationship with him. but there is that need for sexual attention from an attractive guy, you know? so i dont know what to do?? help please!!

If your comfortable with being friends with benefits then thats okay.. just do what your comfortable with and what makes you happy.. ♥ Nikki

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me friends are in this fight and I dont know how i am supposed to help my friend!

Help her solve it.. talk to her.. ♥ Nikki

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