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Question Posted Thursday July 21 2005, 3:01 pm

hey, i'm a fourteen year old and i've never kissed a girl in my life, idk how, and i'm too shy to do it, a lot of people think i'm good looking and i've had a lot of gf's, i've just been too shy to do it, and i don't know how, so, yeah, any tips?

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X0C0URT answered Thursday July 21 2005, 8:14 pm:
All I can say is wait for the right girl. Don't go in for it with whoever because then you might regret it. Just wait until you have a girlfriend that you really like, and you know she likes you. Then you have to wait for the right time. Try to do it when you're at the movies, saying goodbye, or just hanging out together. Don't be shy about it because I'm sure she'll be anxious for you to make a move too.

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lil_advice_babe013 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 6:15 pm:
try telling the girl you plan on kissing that you have never kissed anyone before and go along with what she tells you or does

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cookierat123 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 5:48 pm:
well, life is short. dont sit around and watch it fly by. your young....do SOMETHING! dont think...just kiss her and get it over with. its better to kiss someone then wonder afterwards wat would have happend if you did right?

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MicahsLilGirl answered Thursday July 21 2005, 5:27 pm:
just go along with what she does. maybe practice or tell this girl you've never kissed a female and u are nervous bout it maybe that would help her also. dont feel stupid to open up to your girl. ♥ Nikki

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Mackenzie answered Thursday July 21 2005, 4:13 pm:
This isn't a big deal. Why do anything?? But if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 14 - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfully, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. But it's difficult to tell you HOW to kiss. HOWEVER, I found a website that thinks it's capable of doing JUST that:
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Hopefully this helps you some!! :D

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tasuki answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:42 pm:
You're just gonna have to take a deep breath and do it. There's no other way. Don't worry about being bad, you'll get better the more you do it.

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willa113 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:35 pm:
alright number one i'm a guy and i got my first kiss at 5 years old jus don't be afraid to kiss a girl number two to find out how jus watch a chick flick and do it jus like that. trust me it works i have never had a complaint about how i kiss

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historygrl4no1 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:23 pm:
When u meet the girl of your dreams, and you are about to kiss, you just put lip to lip, you'll know it when you get there. Your probally a late bloomer. Hang in there.

*~Alexia~*

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SWANKiFiED answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:19 pm:
Since you've had alot of gf's, I'm sure you're experienced in the relationship department. The next girlfriend you have, wait for the perfect moment. It might be in a movie, or before you guys leave. For a first kiss, try to make it somewhere private, it'll be less nervewrecking. Go about 90% of the way & then let her come the other 10%. If she doesn't then just shrug it off. Most girls love to show affection that way but if you'd feel more comfortable just ask her if you can kiss her. As far as technique, it's really just a go with the flow thing but if you want, you can google kissing tips. There's plenty of like articles on there that explain like how to tilt your head the right way etc. lol. Good luck!!

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ncblondie answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:15 pm:
When you're ready to kiss, no amount of shyness is going to stop you. With that said, I think you should wait until you can get past the shyness. If you don't feel like waiting, try letting your girlfriend take the lead.

There's no real art to kissing since each person has their own preference but basically don't get all slobbery, don't try to stick your tongue down her throat, and do take it slow and gentle.

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