Mackenzie answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:44 pm: This isn't a big deal. Why do anything?? But if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 14, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfull, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. It's just a good ice bReakeR, you see? And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. But to answeR youR question, it's difficult to tell you HOW to 'make out', but I found a website that thinks it's capable of doing JUST that: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Goodluck!! Hope this helps!! :P [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
tasuki answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:40 pm: Who cares? Why do you HAVE to make out with a guy? What's the point? It's just licking and moaning and getting his SPIT all over you and even in your mouth. It's disgusting. Plenty of people older than you have never done it. Why rush things? When you get the oppurtunity to make out with a guy, just let it happen and no, you don't have to do anything specific, there's no guidelines and nobody can teach you how you will just have to DO it and learn from the experience. But still, don't rush it, it will happen eventually for now just go buy some new shoes, which trust me, is a lot more fun than making out. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
SWANKiFiED answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:36 pm: Making out is pretty much long, drawn out & passionate kisses. It's pretty much a "go-with-the-flow" thing. Everyone kisses different so the guy you kiss won't be able to tell that it's your first time. Just take it slow & move your mouth in a rythmic motion similar to his. Guys lead when it comes to kissing so just kind of follow. The only way to get good is practice so just take advantage of the time you have with your boyfriend. Good luck!
willa113 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 3:32 pm: well not sound been but your probally being a difficult person to kis so let your guard down a little. i'm not saying to be a slut jus relax a little around your guy and if its getting a guy to kiss thats troubling you jus find one uou like and date him then kiss him [ willa113's advice column | Ask willa113 A Question ]
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