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Hey guys, I'm Jessica. I'm 14 years old but I dont think age should matter! I've been through alot of stuff and people have told me I give good advice. I can answer any question you ask me. Dont be afraid to ask a certain question.XOXO
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okay im 13/f and ive kissed a few guys but i've never made out but i want to but i dont know how.. please help
Well it's difficult to tell someone exactly how to "make out" but the first, most important step is to RELAX.
Here's a great website with everything you need to know about kissing:
http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html
XOXO
Jessica
is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)
I have glasses and yes it is possible. Just take them off and put them back on right after your done=]
XOXO
Jessica
hey does anyone know a different type of "blog" journal thing besides myspace and xanga.. i want something different from everyone else.. but kinda along the same.. sorry if its confusing ill rate high!
*Opendiary.com
*Teenopendiary.com
*Bloopdiary.com
Those are the only ones I know that haven't been listed yet.
XOXO
Jessica
whats a site to get really cute love quotes and stuff to put in your aol profile 14/f
www.awaydoll.com has some really cute quotes.
ive never made out with a guy im 14
and i dont know how can any one help me like what do i do and how and please no rude comments and answers
thx in advance
The first and most important step is to RELAX.
Here's a cool website with everything you need to know about kissing:
http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html
Okay, I don't know what to do. Should I shave my bikini area? I've shaved it before and it was really itchy and painful. I don't know whether it's normal to be shaved or not. Is it?
Yes it is normal to be shaved. Alot of girls shave in that area. I'd suggest waxing because it's not as itchy or painful. If you just want to stick to shaving it then use a really good shaver and shaving cream or gel.
XOXO
Jessica
ok well i told this kid knows i like him but he wont tlak to me about it and hes leaving tomorrow until friday until the 30th..and i honestly am in love with him hes going to florida and i know what he does when hes on vacation...and that makes me wanna cry he gets with all these girls and im hurting so bad
what do u guys think i shouold do??
If you've already told him how you feel and he doesn't seem to care then just forget about him and move on. I know that sounds hard but theres no point in wasting your time on a guy who doesnt care. There are plenty of other guys out there. Keep your head up=]
ok so im 13 and im going out with this guy named Bobby. Bobby has had already had his first kiss and he make outs with his girlfriends. I have never done that before and i think he might be a little too fast for me. I need to learn how to be a good kisser. Also I have only had two boyfriends and they werent very serious so how should I act with Bobby? As you can see I need your advice badly.
please help!
You're only 13! You shouldn't be moving that fast anyway! If you think he's a little too fast for you then you should really talk to him about it.
Here's a great website with kissing tips:
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
xoxo
Jessica
Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?
I've been through something like that before. All throughout middle school people have made fun of me and disrespected me. I think everyone goes through stuff like that.
Not everyone will like you and not everyone will hate you. You just have to ignore the people who treat you like that. People like that are not even worth looking at.
I've never had a boyfriend and I felt like my childhood was flushed down the drain as well. I dont let any of that bother me anymore. If you like who you are and other people dont, then tough. They're the ones missing out on a great person.
Keep your head up k, hun?=]
xoxo
Jessica
hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks
If you two really love each other than I say, why not? Just be careful.
xoxo
Jessica
the sides of my stomach are really big and i want to get rid of them what are the best ways to loose weight on your sides
Side crunches work really well. Also, you can go to www.toneteen.com for more really great exercising tips.
xoxo
Jessica
16/f
i was wondering, what are some ways to help cheer up someone who suffers from depression? my friend suffers from it a lot and she gets down really easy. thanks in advance.
Like someone already said, burn her a mixed CD with her favorite songs. Also, what are some of her favorite things to do? Take her to do the stuff she really enjoys doing and that make her happy. I hope everything works out for her
OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do?
I think we've ALL been through something like this. If that guy likes her and is going out with her then I dont think you should get in the way or/and try to ruin their relationship. Are you friends with this guy? If so, you should be there for him when they break up. As the saying goes, nothing lasts forever. And who knows? Maybe he likes you as well.