OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do?
1. just know because you see at shcool
2. talked few times (a year)
3. he sit close to you so he talks you occasionaly
4. he talks to you frequently
5. you guys are acquaintence
6. you guys are good acquaintence
7. you guys are friend
8. you guys are good friend
anyways, if you are lower then 3 then you should at least try to get to know him and talk to him but if you are higher then 6 then you should try watch what happens for few day or even few weeks
becaus he might like that new girl his making out with(probably he DOES like her since he makes out with her, unless his a kiss and run type of guy which i doubt)
and when they seem like they are hitting off, then you have missed out but if your heart says you must tell him now then
you should tell him that you've liked him for long time but never had a courage to tell him and now you see him with a new girl that you thought this would be your last chance and you must tell him that you really like him.
but most importantly about the timing is, listen to your heart. and go with your instinct.
Michaela721 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 12:14 am: Basically boys are scum. They think with theyre balls and not there brains. If this girl is completley gorgeous I most definitley garuntee that she will start to like other guys evenutally. and when she does, the boy will be heartbroken, this boy will probably try to run back to you. SO, the advise I am giving you is to go out there with your girlfriends and try to pick up some hot nice looking guys to be potential boyfriends:) ... and by that time, HE'S going to be the one jealous of you!
I hope I helped:)
good luck [ Michaela721's advice column | Ask Michaela721 A Question ]
Bowling4soup522 answered Friday July 22 2005, 5:43 pm: if hes a normal guy he will probably stop going out w/ her in a week or 2...tell him u like him and if u dont have enought courage 2 do that then try flirting with him...if he flirts bac...he likes you! : ) [ Bowling4soup522's advice column | Ask Bowling4soup522 A Question ]
xkellyx answered Friday July 22 2005, 1:59 pm: Ahh, that happened to me too! I liked this guy from 6th-8th grade and then in the beginning of 8th grade he started going out with this gorgeous girl and everything went downhill from there. Well enough with my life, lol. Before their relationship or whatever gets any stronger, you need to do something. Talk to him more and more and start flirting. Make sure you know he likes you. Have one of your friends tell him if your afraid, but it's better if you tell him yourself. Also try to hang out with him more, so he has less time with this other girl. But, if he doesn't see something in you just move on! There's plenty of other guys! [ xkellyx's advice column | Ask xkellyx A Question ]
ElmosBrightStar answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:41 am: Well, let's hop ehe likes her, because if not the making out is totoally inappropriate. Well, if he knows you like him, you can't do much more except continue to show your intrest and hope for the best. Also, find out where he stands on this other girls, because that will have a lot to do with what goes on between you two. [ ElmosBrightStar's advice column | Ask ElmosBrightStar A Question ]
xdinGyxbaBex answered Friday July 22 2005, 12:49 am: Talk to him and find out if he really does like you but if all he wants to do is make out with grls then he prolly isnt worth your time !!
mooch789 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 9:26 pm: Talk to this guy and find out if he really likes you. If not, he's not worth drooling over. Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
VanityScore answered Thursday July 21 2005, 5:19 pm: If he's already going with another girl, don't throw yourself at him. Why lose your dignity along with him?
If you want to know how he feels about this girl, ask him. If you want him to know how you feel about him, tell him. You can't keep a guy in the dark, or keep him guessing.. it's not fair. And because of that, he'll probably move on.
Nevaeh314 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 1:50 am: (I'm going to use the names John and Sarah for the guy and girl.) So, first off, figure out if John really likes Sarah, or if it's just a crush that's likely to end as soon as the fireworks burn out.
If it ends up that he doesn't really like her, or if they date only for a little while, then just tell him how you feel about him, and ask him out on a casual date, like for coffee or something. If you've liked him for 3 or 4 years he's obviously worthwhile, and who knows, he could like you as well, so just tell him and see what happens.
And don't be made more self-conscious by Sarah's 'completely gorgeous' outside. There are plenty of guys out there who would rather be with a funny, real, okay looking girl with personality than a super model with nothing between the ears. And I'm sure you're very pretty anyways, so go for it.
:) Nevaeh [ Nevaeh314's advice column | Ask Nevaeh314 A Question ]
nickieeldorado24 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 10:52 pm: i know how you're feeling. i liked this guy for about 2 or 3 years..and he went through a few girlfriends and sadly i was never one of them..cause i was to young..well..eventually after you relize that you may not be able to be with this guy since he has a girlfriend..you'll slowly pick up the pieces and move on. you may not think you'll be able to at first but trust me..it's hard but you can..you eventually get tired of not being the first thing on his mind and you just think "is it really worth it to wait around for him when i know it may never be" and you'll move on..just follow your heart. hope i helped
ballerina04 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:57 pm: I'd just forget about him for now. Yeah, it'll be a hard thing to do, but if he's interested in someone else, there's virtually no point in getting involved right now. You can't really make someone like you, it has to happen on its own. [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
x_jessicamichelle_x answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:47 pm: I think we've ALL been through something like this. If that guy likes her and is going out with her then I dont think you should get in the way or/and try to ruin their relationship. Are you friends with this guy? If so, you should be there for him when they break up. As the saying goes, nothing lasts forever. And who knows? Maybe he likes you as well.
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