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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high (link)
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wow, yeah, boys are basically wicked ass holes. i totally know how you feel. boys want to get as much ass as they can, and since he and his girlfriend have more sexual experience and know each other better, thats why he did what he did. and he's probably in denial because his girlfriend is influencing him to be that way. don't worry, you will get over this kid because my guess is your a better girl for him than his girlfriend and he will be wanting you in the next two weeks. my advise to you is to get over this kid. burn every picture, every note, eveything he gave you and cleanse yourself of him. (believe me it works). and when he calls u one random night him and his grilfriend got in a fight, you can be like "fuck you ass hole" and be on your way...
.. i hope i helped(:
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sry this is really long but I rate really high!!
well i really fell for this guy over the summer and hes been away at summer camp for like 6 weeks and I was wondering weather or not i should tell him because i dont know if he likes me back and hes rarely online so if i do i have to tell him when hes actually online because i cant call him and then I have another problem, I'm not really allowed to have anything to do with boys both my parents think its crazy to have boyfriends at this age!! im 13/f by the way so i cant be with him if he likes me back, I've had a boyfriend before but i had to sneak calls on my cell phone with him and we never actually went out on a date and i cant talk to my parents about it, i mean my mom is ok but my dad would TOTALLY freak out even if i mentioned boys hes so overprotective in that way!! well I'm really sorry this is so long but i need advice!! (link)
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Hm.. yeah that does suck that your parents won't let you have boyfriends, but they are right. 13 is way to young, it seems like people want to grow up way too fast. Once you start getting into relationships, the more risk of heartbreak, and other things that you probably won't be ready for, for at least a couple of years. My advise to you would be to just get to know this boy. Be his best friend and get really close. And in a couple of years, you'll know everything about this kid and like him just the same. See where it goes from there, after all, best friends do make the best lovers
... hope I helped.
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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
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That's normal. Long term relationships are very tense and hard to deal with most of the time. He's probably missing you so bad that if one little thing you do like go out one night gets him mad because he cant go out with you. Considering you said FIANCE i'm thikning it's a pretty deep relationship. If he trusts you with all his heart, nothing bad can ever happen(unless you do something to ruin that trust). I'd say you try to avoid the negative energy weather the fight is going to be big or small. Try to make him laugh and be cute with him, this will help. I was in a long term relationship, it's definitley hard. But love conqors all in the end(:
I hope I helped(:
Good Luck.
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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do? (link)
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Basically boys are scum. They think with theyre balls and not there brains. If this girl is completley gorgeous I most definitley garuntee that she will start to like other guys evenutally. and when she does, the boy will be heartbroken, this boy will probably try to run back to you. SO, the advise I am giving you is to go out there with your girlfriends and try to pick up some hot nice looking guys to be potential boyfriends:) ... and by that time, HE'S going to be the one jealous of you!
I hope I helped:)
good luck
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okay i'm going out with this one guy and he's got a lot of friends but i guess i never knew how many people didn't really like him but then i went out with him a time before too and he's like the best boyfriend you could ever ask for i mean he likes me for who i am and stuff and a lot of the other guys that like me just want me because i'm "hot" but whatever..and like there's 4 guys that just piss me off because they like me (not to be conceited or anything) but they just get mad at me because i'm going out with him and they want to beat him up because he's going out with me..and i don't even like the guys that like me besides my boyfriend..so if they beat him up i'd like them less anyways..i don't know why they want to beat them up and i always have to stick up for my boyfriend (i mean i want to lol) but what do i say to them to not beat him up?! please help me!! =( i'll rate high if its a good answer!! (link)
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they seem like a bunch of meatheads. if its obvious your boyfriend likes you, why would they want beat him up for you, if theyre his friends in the first place? if they were good friends, theyd never try to take his girl away from him, only on the condition that if you flirted with any of them, or perhaps cheated on your boyfriend with one of them. that would be the only case. other than that, i always thought the slogan was 'bros before hoes'
anyways, i hope it works out
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ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help! (link)
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Messing around with boys is not a good idea. Your just basically saying to him, "call me up whenever you want a quickie". If he likes you and is a mature person, he would ask you to be more than just friends before he started 'messing around' with you. I know most people don't do it that way mostly in highschool and all, but I'm telling you, thats how most people get hurt. I mean, how would you feel if he was hooking up with someone else at the same time he was hooking up with you? That would just cause more drama that's needed with you and him, and you and the other girl. I would talk to him about it first, ask him if he likes you, and ask him if he wants to make a commitment with you. and if he doesn't, i say you book it. he's not worth it if hes just a player.
i hope it works out.
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I think my gf is gonna break up with me, but i dont know. i rewally like her. but i dont think she likes me that much, thanks in advance.
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move on. your thirteen? there are plenty of other fish in the sea:)
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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do? (link)
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that sounds tough. i think one day you should take her out on a nice date and make her make the desicions. ask her what she likes, doesnt like... and when you have her in a good mood, start talking about her anger problem. ask her why she gets so upset over little things. as much as you know, she could have other things going on that she's just keeping in. if she has a real serious issue, maybe you could help her overcome it. but if its simply because shes always been hysterical i would think of breaking it off, but still adress what the problem is before you make any actions you might regret.
good luck and i hope i helped.
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Hey, i NEED help. i really like this guy. but he has a girlfriend. but he made a move on me. i dont know what to do. i think i do have feelings for him. but i dont know what to do. Should I tell him how i feel? or should i just be close friends??????
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I say you talk to this kid. If he is the kind of kid who wants to cheat on his girlfriend, I say screw him. Don't get involved with a cheater. But, if you and this kid have known each other awhile and things are falling apart with his girlfriend.. maybe that's a different story. Call him him and ask what the deal is, don't tell him how you feel until you know he likes you.
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
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I say you should sit her down and have a talk with this girl. Tell her how you feel, and how you really like her. Tell her all the things you say you can be to her that the other guys arent. But just remember; a girl like that is going to have no trust in you and is going to get jealous real easy. It is likely that a past boyfriend will come up that she will start having feelings for, because this is what girls are like. She has trusted, loved, and cared before, but that person hurt her. So her defense mechanism is hatred of the male race. However, she can love again, she probably just needs time alone to figure out who she is and what she wants. Believe me, if you don't want either one of you to get hurt in the long-run. Just stay friends with her until shes totally positive and confident to start a new relationship.
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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
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I'd say if it isn't love now, it will be later. But you have to remember, love hurts. There are many complications to getting attached to one person. Things like jealousy could take place. If you chose to be IN LOVE.. there will be many sacrifices that the both of you need to make. On the other hand, LIKE; which is the smart thing to be in highschool, its less serious and lose. This is what highschool should be. It all depends on the guy you date. If hes a controller and what-not. Anyways, I think it's great your 'falling in love' but just remember try not to fall too hard.
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ok well this might be long but please stay with me.
in the beginning of last year i made a knew friend. he was popular and so funny. we got close.and then at the end we got in a argument about the stupidest thing. and now he hates me and even if i tell him sorry it doesnt even work. and hes just so mean to me like always talking behide my back and i cant stand it cause i never talk about him.and like he'll even comment my myspace pictures and go EWW or something and if im in my friends he'll do the same thing cause im friends with a alot of people who he is friends with except for some and like i cant delete the comment either =[ and its not like im ugly, im really not. like i had boyfriends and i have alot of friends and now like he is turning everyone against me and when i try and talk to him .. like you just cant..hes just so friggin mean and i dont kno wat to do. like hes close with my friends and all and when he hangs out with them and im invited i wont go just cause i kno how mean he'll be to me and its embrassing.
please help..and please dont leave mean advice..i hate when people do that and i already had that done to me on myspac =[
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First of all this kid is a jerk. He is immature and isn't worth your time if you were mature enough to say sorry in the first place. He wasn't ever a real friend is he's going to be like that. I say you go out, make out with his best friend and shove it in his face. Be ruthless, remember; you ALWAYS want what you can't have.
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i met this AWSOME guy at the mall. i hav his sn and he has mine, but i cant get the courage to say hey to him. i thought i would just wait until he talked to me, but he hasnt yet and its been about 5 days. wat should i do? should i talk to him? wat should i say? (link)
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IM him!
You have nothing to lose!
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say
"hey, what's up.. it's so and so you met at the mall"
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how can i get my self estem back (link)
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Think of positive things that you know you have. If you're feeling down on yourself for something someone said, or how you look, or how you act, sloathing about it doesn't help at all. No one can love you until you love yourself. Life is too short. Turn to friends and family and they will help you through whatever you are going through, and they will tell you good qualities about yourself. Your question was very vague so I don't know if have low self esteem from a guy, how you look, or how people treat you. Just know people are how there to help. I hope you get through this(:
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