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what is wrong with them?!


Question Posted Friday July 22 2005, 4:15 pm

okay i'm going out with this one guy and he's got a lot of friends but i guess i never knew how many people didn't really like him but then i went out with him a time before too and he's like the best boyfriend you could ever ask for i mean he likes me for who i am and stuff and a lot of the other guys that like me just want me because i'm "hot" but whatever..and like there's 4 guys that just piss me off because they like me (not to be conceited or anything) but they just get mad at me because i'm going out with him and they want to beat him up because he's going out with me..and i don't even like the guys that like me besides my boyfriend..so if they beat him up i'd like them less anyways..i don't know why they want to beat them up and i always have to stick up for my boyfriend (i mean i want to lol) but what do i say to them to not beat him up?! please help me!! =( i'll rate high if its a good answer!!

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xBestAddiction answered Sunday July 24 2005, 2:14 pm:
be like 'you know what? i dont like you and never will. and by beating up my boyfriend im gonna hate you even more!!' kinda harsh but something like that. good luck!

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LifesNoStoryBook answered Saturday July 23 2005, 10:37 pm:
They're just jealous because they can't get a hott momma like you! Lol. Just talk to them and tell them that their jealousy is not a turn on for you, but more like a turn OFF. You're with who you want to be with. If they like you so much, they wouldn't want to hurt the guy you like. Tell them you want a guy who likes them for your personality and not by your looks - and thats what your boyfriends does.
♥ Brooke

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Michaela721 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 12:10 am:
they seem like a bunch of meatheads. if its obvious your boyfriend likes you, why would they want beat him up for you, if theyre his friends in the first place? if they were good friends, theyd never try to take his girl away from him, only on the condition that if you flirted with any of them, or perhaps cheated on your boyfriend with one of them. that would be the only case. other than that, i always thought the slogan was 'bros before hoes'
anyways, i hope it works out

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karenR answered Friday July 22 2005, 11:40 pm:
Tell them to just leave you alone. Say I don't like you and I'll like you even less if you don't leave my boyfriend alone. If that doesn't work then try ignoring them. They are just trying to get your attention and they are succeeding. :)

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ncblondie answered Friday July 22 2005, 9:18 pm:
Tell them that their "he-man" tactics will only make you like them less. If they're truly interested, they'll quickly change their ways when they realize that beating up your boyfriend or even threatening to isn't going to help their cause any. You may still have to deal with them liking you, but at least they'll try nicer tactics and you won't have to deal with protecting your boyfriend from them.

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PrettynPink27432 answered Friday July 22 2005, 5:25 pm:
I think you should tell them you would NEVER go out with them if they beat him up!! If your b/f doesnt know this is gonna happen then tell him and they are just tellin ya that so you will break up with him probably !! I dont hav that prob. my b/f beats them up lik he beat up his best friend lol 2 get me back my purse and he was also threatin 2 rip up my homework if i didnt help him!! Well i hope it helped !!

~Mollie~ if u want 2 tlk more about this IM me at PrettynPink27432

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Ashley9391 answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:44 pm:
My suggestion is to talk to these 4 guys and tell them that by "beating up" your boyfriend they arent going to win you over because your just going to like them even less and your boyfriend even more. That should get them to stop. But most likely they wont beat him up either way, they're prolly just trying to show off to you.

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