Ok well im asking this question for a friend of mine because he doesn't know what to do and he asked me and idk. So anyways my friend really likes this girl and he's had a crush on her for almost a year and now she is single. But whenever he asks her who she likes she always tells him "noone" or "nobody" but he doesn't know if she is serious or just doesn't want to tell him. And he thinks she knows he likes her but she is always giving him mixed signals. so how can he find out if she likes him or if they r just friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Sunday July 24 2005, 12:29 am: If he wants know what's in heR heaRt, he MUST ask heR! Have him just tRy telling heR how he feels. That way she'll Realize the seRiousness of the conveRsation. And I think it's best to just flat out tell heR. Don't beat aRound the bush, just say it. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. I think once HE'S told HER how HE feels, he'll be a lot moRe likely to get an HONEST Response fRom heR; since he would have bRoken the ice, you see? It's Really the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if how she feels about him; he can *ASSUME* heR feelings alllllllll he wants... but he'll neveR actaully know EXACTLY how she feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom HER mouth, ya know?? And let's assume the woRst and she say she infact DOES NOT like him. Then it's kind of an 'end of stoRy' deal. Bottom line.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR anyhow?? All that matteRs is that he tRies to peRsue this to the best of his abilities. Hopefully eveRything tuRns out how he'd like! :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
karenR answered Friday July 22 2005, 11:37 pm: The fastest easiest way to find out is for him to just ask her out. Lots of people are going to say no one. She may be a little shy. He needs to just go ask her out. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
x0xbrunettebabex0x answered Friday July 22 2005, 11:26 pm: I'd tell him to just do the most basic thing anyone could to do to find out if someone likes them. Have one of her friends ask her who she likes. It's the easiest way, as long as one of her good friends ask her. I don't know, you may think it's stupid, but it's actually a good way. Hope I helped! [ x0xbrunettebabex0x's advice column | Ask x0xbrunettebabex0x A Question ]
PrettyLady16 answered Friday July 22 2005, 9:49 pm: I think that you should tell him just to go for it.. since he has been crushing on this girl for quite a while then he should just ask her out instead of always anticipating if she likes him or not. so he should ask her out and if she says no then he should be like ok thats fine and remain a good friend of hers once she knows his feelings she might eventually change and begin to like him. If she says yes, then yay for him he has a new gf. [ PrettyLady16's advice column | Ask PrettyLady16 A Question ]
bootylicusbaby83 answered Friday July 22 2005, 6:01 pm: well i think your friend just has to be brave, and tell the girl straight up that he likes her. Maybe he can ask her to do something after school one day or on a weekend to see if she likes him to. He can tell her they can hang out as just friends, if she doesnt feel the same way about him and maybe her feelings for him will progress
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louisianaisforlovers answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:39 pm: ok ima say this like you are your friend . just tell her that you like her, and just ask if she likes you back. if shes giving you mixed signals then theres reallly no way to kno then to just ask. ask her and if she says yes then congrats. if she doesnt then just work on being good friends :) hope i helped?
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