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Hey everyOne! My name iS Nikki and I'm here tO give yOu guyS the beSt advice I can give! I can't guarantee that I'll update Or w/e Often but I will aS much aS I can! PluS the Site may nOt be that great but I juSt gOt this tO give advice, nOt See whO haS the beSt site lOl! I'm a fun, OutgOing girl and I have lOtS Of friendS! I'm 15 and I'm gOing intO 10th grade! I'm abOut 5' 2", shOrt I knOw lOl, I have haZel eyeS and black hair! But enOugh abOut me, aSk me anything and I'll try my beSt to help! LOve yOu all! xOxOxNikkixOxOx

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ok i need help ok. I like this guy for a very long time and we went out for like 7 months. We broke up and are still really good friends, but i still have feelings for him. I tried really hard to get over him but its to hard. I have a boyfriend now but i still really like my old one. I think i should get over my ex and move on but im not sure. What should i do?? If u have any ways that can help me get over him please tell me.

Maybe you should ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he does, you'll just have to listen to your heart to find out what's right but if he doesn't, the best way to get over someone is to go out and meet new people. Give some other guys a chance and gradually you might get over him. I'm not saying you will get over him fully, but I'm not saying you won't. But hun, the best thing to do would just be to listen to your heart. You can ask hundreds of people for advice, but only you know what you truely want! Do what you feel is right. Good luck! xOxOx

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okay well i have these 2 friends and they're both my best friends..well me and one of them (christina) live across the street so we're the closest in our friendship or 3 but my friend just moved across the street from us (karlie)..and well now when all 3 or us hang out i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel..and i feel like i'm losing my best friend (christina) i mean i love karlie right to death but i just feel so left out when all 3 of us are together..like christina will leave the room and karlie will have to follow her every move..idk what to do and i'm just afraid that our friendship is going to fall apart over something stupid..what can i do to make things better please help!

Hey hun, it may seem like you're losing Christina, but maybe it's because this is a new thing. And she just wants to hang out with someone new for awhile. I highly doubt that you guys would become something less of best friends because of this. I would suggest confronting them about it so at least they know how you feel and maybe they'll realize what they're doing. I wish you the best of luck! xOxOx

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Ive had this best guy friend for a while. We went out a few years ago, and it lasted fr over a year, things got rocky, and we're still very good friends.

But recently it's been obvious that theres been attraction between the two of us. We hung out the other day and one thing led to another and we got to the point of almost having sex. I stopped it and went home. Tomorrow we are hanging out together again, and i know the same is going to happen. The thing is, i REALLY want to have sex with him because we had such a great relationship, but it just feels funny.

Would it be be wrong and "slutty" of me to do so?

Have you ever had sex with him before? I don't think it would be that slutty of you if you do because you have a history with him. Plus it sounds like you guys may be getting to the point of going out again, maybe? If you want to do it, go for it. Sure, there will be people who might say bad things about you but you shouldn't care what other people say if you've already dated him for over a year. This is YOUR choice, no one else's. Hope I helped! xOxOx

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i know this is kinda gross .. but ive been broken out on the back of my shoulders for the longest time.. probably since freshman year, im gonna be a junior in the fall. is there anything i can do besides using creams? they really dont seem to be doing anything :/

Have you tried any body washes that are made to help with that type of stuff? If nothing has worked, maybe you should go to your doctor and they could refer you to a dermatologist who could help you out! Hope I helped and best of luck! xOxOx

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These last few times I've had my period I've been really PMSy. Like all constantly have cravings for chocolate, something sweet, or something salty. This has been throwin me off my diet. *Im skinny but I wanna remain healthy and fit* .. What should I do when PMS strikes again?

Try eating non-fat stuff. There are alot of good, healthy ice creams out there too ;). lOl. Even if you decide to eat chocolate and what not, you can always exercise because I heard it's good for the menstrual flow. Sounds weird, I know, but hey, you can still keep fit! And drink lots of water. I'm not sure I really helped there, and I'm sorry if I didn't, but I hope I did! Good luck hun! xOxOx

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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much

Hun, just be yourself! Go out and have fun with it, don't worry whether he likes you or not. There are plenty of other guys that would more than likely be attracted to you for who you are. Maybe you'd feel better if you hung out in groups, like with some of your girl friends and stuff. I can't think of anything else other than to be yourself. Honestly, you'll find it a lot easier than trying to be all flirty. And eventually, you'll be more open to flirting. Good luck babe! xOxOx

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Ok well im asking this question for a friend of mine because he doesn't know what to do and he asked me and idk. So anyways my friend really likes this girl and he's had a crush on her for almost a year and now she is single. But whenever he asks her who she likes she always tells him "noone" or "nobody" but he doesn't know if she is serious or just doesn't want to tell him. And he thinks she knows he likes her but she is always giving him mixed signals. so how can he find out if she likes him or if they r just friends?

I'd tell him to just do the most basic thing anyone could to do to find out if someone likes them. Have one of her friends ask her who she likes. It's the easiest way, as long as one of her good friends ask her. I don't know, you may think it's stupid, but it's actually a good way. Hope I helped!

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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.

That sounds pretty rude that he broke up with you just for smiling at his friend. But obviously he likes you or he wouldn't have asked you out again. If his sister doesn't like you, then that's her problem, not yours! If you like the guy, don't break up with him just because she doesn't like you! I mean, sure, it would be a nice way to get back at him since he broke up with you for something stupid, but again, if you like him, don't break up! Best of luck and tell me how it goes! xOxOx

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Well theres this new line of eye make up[[Instence eyes i think its by Alaba or something like that...]] it brings out brown eyes [[its eyeshadow,eyeliner,and mascara]] I would like to get it but are they expensive? and are they worth the money? and also where can i buy these?

Hey babe, I think you mean the line by Almay. I got the eyeliner from it and hun, it's the best I've ever used. It doesn't smear pretty much at all! And it's waterproof, extra plus lOl. I'm not sure about the eyeshadow and mascara, but I think it's a good line of products. You can get it at Wal*Mart for, I believe, $5-$6. At least, that's the price at the stores around me. They're deffinitely worth the money!

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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?

I'm really sorry to hear that hun. But if I were you, I'd just be there for her and maybe sit down with her sometime, and ask her if there's anything you can do to help her. Maybe she's getting frustration built up from something and she just doesn't have anyone to talk to. So just be there and let her know that if she needs to talk, you're there. Hope I helped and best of luck! xOxOx

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hey my name is ashley and im looking for some cool new things 2 add 2 my profile like quotes or daily tips. I went 2 google and everything and i cant find anything so would someone please give me some quotes or anything i can put on my profile! thx i appreciate it.

O u can Im me on AIM its modeltownerfan

Try www.xanga.com . You can search through Blogrings and find alot of people who have quotes! I answered another question like this earlier so if you don't understand just look at that answer. Hope I helped! xOxOx

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my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
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Hey babe. If you're friend feels the need to run away, you should deffinitely be there for her and let her stay with you! Also, try and talk to her and see why she is, because it could be something major that has to be stopped even. Example: her parents may be do something that they shouldn't. NOT that I'm saying anything like thats taking place. Because I don't know you or your friend, it's just a thought. But you should let her stay with you until she's ready to go back home! Best of luck to both of you! xOxOx

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What r some good sites for quotes that are NOT about love and stuff. I'm looking for quotes about like friendship mainly, and funny or inspirational quotes. Please help, i'll give 5's for any website yu give

If you go to www.xanga.com and go to Blogrings, then type in "quotes", you'll get HUNDREDS of sites with a wide variaty (sp?) of quotes. Good luck!

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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-wondering

Hey hun, I know I'm not 16 and up, but I have a pretty good idea about this. Girls LOVE it when a guy holds her. So like, when you're standing in line, or just standing somewhere, try holding her around the waist. It's a good way to show a girl you really care. But when you're in the movies, there's not much you could do other than what you've thought of: hold hands and put your arm around her. What kind of movie are you seeing? If it's a scary one, let her hold onto your arm. If she does, it'll show if she likes you too. ;) Unless you know she does. Then, well, you've pretty much got yourself set! Hope I helped! xOxOx --I'm 15. I'm not sure how else to tell you other than edit my answer. So I hope you read this! lOl I'm glad I helped!

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ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help!

Hey babe, how long did you go out with him? If it was a couple months, and he's still talking to you now, there's a great chance he still likes you. But if it wasn't that long and you guys just messed around for the most part, then it sounds like it would just be a physical thing. Try telling how you feel and see what happens! You never know, maybe he'll say he still likes you too and he was just afraid to admit it! Best of luck! xOxOx

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Can girls get orgasm's without having sex?

Yes, girls can get orgasms without having sex. They can get them from being fingered because it's basically having sex, just using fingers. Also, some people may disagree with this, others may not, but you can get an orgasm from horseback riding. It may sound weird but I was a horseback rider and it's possible! The thing that triggers an orgasm in a girl is her clit, so pretty much any "activity" that takes place near it would most likely give her an orgasm.

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hey i cant get this boy off my mind i think about him all the time i mean like whenever a song comes on or anything. I mean i think about his 24-7. And he broke up w/ me because he said he didn't want a gf at that point in time. But we are still friends and we hang out and stuff. I go 2 his house and we watch movies. I still like him alot and i think he really likes me but im not quite sure. I really wanna go back out w/ him but he doesn't want a gf what should i do? please help!

Girl, I have the same problem! If you two already went out, and you still hang out often, then there's a deffinite possibility of the two of you getting back together! He may say he doesn't want a girlfriend now, but maybe he just wants to hang out with you to get to know you better. I would say just keep doing whatever it is you're doing because hun, it sounds like you got everything under control! What's meant to happen will happen! Best of luck! xOxOx

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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help

That'S nOt embarrasSing at all! I'm nOt really Sure there iS a "perfect way" tO finger a girl, but juSt dOn't make it Such a big deal! I'm sure that if yOu juSt dO it withOut wOrrying "Oh, I'm nOt dOing it right" then yOu'll find it'S nOt that hard, lOl. Or maybe aSk yOur girlfriend tO juSt shOw yOu what She wantS? That may take the stresS off Of yOu becauSe then yOu guyS will have fun with it! TheSe thingS cOme naturally, dOn't wOrry sO much babe!

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I like this guy but hes older then me!! He's gonna be a junior and im gonna be in 8th grade!! is that a big difference to guys? do they care how old there girlfriend is? thanks!

Hey babe! Seeing aS thOugh the guy iS gOing tO be a JuniOr, that muSt make him tO be 17 sO even thOugh yOu may like him, I wOuldn't suggeSt trying fOr him. MoSt guyS that age juSt want Sex Or they dO want Older girlS whO are mOre experienced, yOu knOw? But hey, he cOuld be a tOtally different guy and actually care abOut girlS! But I have a queStiOn, dOes he like yOu? MoSt guyS I knOw dOn't date that yOunger Of girlS unlesS they're juSt uSing them fOr sex. Sorry if that's nOt the anSwer yOu were loOking fOr hun! I hOpe I helped thOugh! xOxOx

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