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Boys...
ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help!
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Messing around with boys is not a good idea. Your just basically saying to him, "call me up whenever you want a quickie". If he likes you and is a mature person, he would ask you to be more than just friends before he started 'messing around' with you. I know most people don't do it that way mostly in highschool and all, but I'm telling you, thats how most people get hurt. I mean, how would you feel if he was hooking up with someone else at the same time he was hooking up with you? That would just cause more drama that's needed with you and him, and you and the other girl. I would talk to him about it first, ask him if he likes you, and ask him if he wants to make a commitment with you. and if he doesn't, i say you book it. he's not worth it if hes just a player.
i hope it works out.
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okay theres nothing like first love and the guy you lose your virginity to will always be in your heart somewhere. hang out with him and talk to him if it seems like sex is all he ccares about then let him go.it will hurt if that happens but if it doesnt then you have the guy you love in your arms.good luck.
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Ask him. Dont be afraid to ask him out or ask him why he actually wants to chill. AsH!
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The only way to find out is to tell him before-hand that there will be no more sex for a while. If he seriously wants to be with you, sex will not be a requirement.
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Hey babe, how long did you go out with him? If it was a couple months, and he's still talking to you now, there's a great chance he still likes you. But if it wasn't that long and you guys just messed around for the most part, then it sounds like it would just be a physical thing. Try telling how you feel and see what happens! You never know, maybe he'll say he still likes you too and he was just afraid to admit it! Best of luck! xOxOx
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