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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help
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everyone is different when it comes to that. just massage around the cliterous then start with 2 fingers in and out.. in and out then go to 3 and up until you can't any more and just ask her how it feels.....etc
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lay her down, preferibly in a bed, couches too small, get underr the covers because for better technique you should get her pants pulled down or off..and she might not feel confortable yet letting you see "her".. start by making out ( cause like somebody else said, sitting there just fingering her will be an uncofortable and akward situation..)once you get your hand in between her thighs.. rub her vagina .. slowwly..and if shes wet / rub that in the upper area cause if its too dry itll burn a lil .. go in circles too ( up and down doesnt ushually plesure a girl much ) once you can tell she feelin that - id say start with 2 fingers, and finger her - use everyone elses advice on what to do inside her ( remember, dont stop kissing her ) if your hand starts to cramp because your wrist is bent too much.. kiss on her neck or chest and move down a bit - i think what you do before you actually finger her is essential to a Great time.- Hope i helped - ask if you need anymore advice - im happy to help you ! <33
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hey,
well this is embarassing....lol....but its ok. The way to finger a girl is just stick your finger in her and just move it in and out and around. Start off slow and as she gets excited do it faster.....maybe you could eat her out while you finger her(if you want)......i bet she'll like it and maybe give you somethin in return.....;). hope i have helped....If you need anythin else dont be embarrassed to ask.....
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That'S nOt embarrasSing at all! I'm nOt really Sure there iS a "perfect way" tO finger a girl, but juSt dOn't make it Such a big deal! I'm sure that if yOu juSt dO it withOut wOrrying "Oh, I'm nOt dOing it right" then yOu'll find it'S nOt that hard, lOl. Or maybe aSk yOur girlfriend tO juSt shOw yOu what She wantS? That may take the stresS off Of yOu becauSe then yOu guyS will have fun with it! TheSe thingS cOme naturally, dOn't wOrry sO much babe!
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From experience... don't just poke away... take it slow.... slide them in and out til she gets wet... do what was suggested earlier with the whole "come hither" motion... when she's really wet maybe slip in another finger because i knwo when i get really wet i don't feel just two fingers so my boyfriend uses a third... its best to read her face... watch... if she cringes or looks in pain slow down a bit... but sometimes a look of extreme pleasure can be confused with pain... make sure you communicate with her. Remember... she is a girl... girls like the whole communication and closeness of sexual activities... its the boys that don't liek to talk about it ususally...
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Honestlly there is no perfect way so just be gentl, go slow and tease her a bit and then if she is liking it && enjoying do it faster. ♥//
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anonymous -
First off, realize that there's more you can do than just finger her. Explore the possibilities!
But one that I find that works for most girls is to stick your index and middle finger inside, have palm faced upward, and do the "come hither" motion. Trust me on this one.
If you're still a little hesitant, why not ask her what she wants? This way you get her input and don't give her any unpleasant surprises.
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There is no perfect way. The best thing to do is take it slow, be gentle, and follow your girlfriend's lead.
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It's okay not to know. How could you? You've never done it before. Well, it's basically something that you should learn for yourself, but here is a hint: don't just stick your finger in. Kind of rub her vagina, slowly (but not too slowly), and go in circles and sort of work your way in. If you still have problems, ask her for details on what she wants, cause really, how are you supposed to know what she likes unless she tells you?
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