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Should I Get over him!!
ok i need help ok. I like this guy for a very long time and we went out for like 7 months. We broke up and are still really good friends, but i still have feelings for him. I tried really hard to get over him but its to hard. I have a boyfriend now but i still really like my old one. I think i should get over my ex and move on but im not sure. What should i do?? If u have any ways that can help me get over him please tell me.
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Right now you need to really think about if you want to move on or stay unhappy. If you have a boyfriend now you should be happy with him and not have to worry about anyone else. It must be hard for your boyfriend because if he knew you still liked your ex that much he wouldn't want you to stay with him. You should get over your ex and really think about your present boyfriend. You dont want to hurt him do you? I dont want to make you feel bad, but you gotta think about him too. Whatever happened in the past has gone and your now in the present so think about what you got now. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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Im going through the same situation right now. and truth be told i want my ex more. i think its because i love him and i havent fallen in love with my boyfriend yet.so you need to ask yourself which one do you love more and which one do you want to be with.if your having trouble getting over your ex chances are your not over him, you just think you should be because you have a perfect man in your life.i dont think there are any ways to get over him you just have to follow your heart.
hope i helped
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I went through a situation like that a couple times.. I have 2 completely diff. forms of advice lol k. WELL i don*t no the complete situation but if you wanna get over him then try not to be SUCH good friends with him rite now, because staying super close to him unfortionately will only make it harder. Try focusing on your boyfriend that you have now unless you really don*t like him then don*t lead him on. Go out n have fun with your friends just try to get your mind off of boys. However if you really don*t want 2 get over him then you hafta break up with your boyfriend and tell your ex how you feel. I don*t suggest this cuz i*m a strong believer on if it didn*t work the first time it won*t again.. but hey that*s just me. Also since your friends now then you don*t wanna jeoperdize that. But only you can decide wut you wanna do! so go with what your HEART says not what your head says.. a little confusing but i think you*ll figure it out! i hope i helped n tell me wut you decide on n how it goes!! <3 <3 chelsea
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I'm quoting Roxette on this one..."Listen to your heart."
♥ Brooke
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Aw, okay. Well, I think that you should try and get over him now. It's hard, and it will take a while, but you can doooo it. Stick with the boyfriend you have now, you never know how good this relationship might turn out! Just try and slowly forget about your ex, and eventually you'll wonder why you even thought of him so much. I PROMISE, I just went through the same exact thing, and it was a sloww process, but I'm finally over him, and soo happy now. :)
♥ ariel
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i agree, you should get over him. life is too short to just be sad about one thing for a really long time. just take one day....JUST ONE, and sulk. listen to break up songs and have a good cry. get that out of your sistem. now the next day if you think about him then keep yourself busy. play sports, see a movie, hang out with friends, or have a girls night out. sooner or later you will begin to realize that you can make it on your own. i hope you feel beter.
♥ leah
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Maybe you should ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he does, you'll just have to listen to your heart to find out what's right but if he doesn't, the best way to get over someone is to go out and meet new people. Give some other guys a chance and gradually you might get over him. I'm not saying you will get over him fully, but I'm not saying you won't. But hun, the best thing to do would just be to listen to your heart. You can ask hundreds of people for advice, but only you know what you truely want! Do what you feel is right. Good luck! xOxOx
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