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Sisters(long, but please read)
I have two sisters, I am the middle child(im a girl) one sis is 16, the other is 11(i'm 14). I try to get along with them, but they annoy me a lot. My older sister is bossy and thinks she can tell me what to do, and the younger one is a brat who always gets her way. My older sister is really smart, drives, and has a job, so my parents dont think she can do anything wrong. And my little sister is"the baby", so ... well ya know. It's not that i feel like i need more attention, thats not the problem. The problem is i cant do anything with my aunts or cousins without one of them coming with me. I try to tell them and my parents i wanna do something on my own, but they say that having two sisters is something i have to deal with. I spend time w/ my friends, but thats not enough. I cant do ANYTHING on my own, nd ive tried talking to my parents. WHAT SHOOD I DO ??? I'll rate highhh!!!!
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try to live with it
ask your sisters to leave me alone and if that doesn't work try to icealate your self and think of the good times i feel the same way i spent one week in my room with my baby book and blanket eating bon bons wathing soaps only coming out when no one is up to grab actual food on the road to recovery i had to go to athyapist because my parents were worried i also lost 10 pounds so try it or ging along with them
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lol, i like the rating bit he he, some how, show your parents by little things, get them to trust you to do trips, like little ones into town, or just to go to the post office or sumit?
i no its hard being the one in the middle of the family, but if you aint tryd telln ur rents that, if your going to deal with ur sisters, then may be a little freedom is required? or that you are having a tough time at school and you need to relax?
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I'm the oldest but actually I know what your going through my 5 year brother gets his way all the time and believe it or not my 5 year old brother bosses me around if I don't do what he says he'll tell my mom and I'll get in trouble. So just talk to your mom about it whenever you guys are alone and you should talk to your sisters about your problem I'm sure they'll listen! Hope I Helped!
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i am a middle child too..but yah not 14.. but next time you are in the car w/ your mom with just you and her talk about it..cause it isnt like she can go away.. how could she not talk about it if you are both right there...HOPE I HELPED <33333 GiiNG
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I only have one older sister, and altho I am 'the baby' of the us two, I still slightly understand where all you're coming from. I can't spend time with my cousin(s) without her being there at the same time.
If I was in your exact position, I would try to get involved into something that I know my older sister wouldn't nearly be interested in, and something my younger sister would get bored with, or is too young, to do.
You should also try explaining to your parents, and sisters, that being fourteen causes for some serious personal space, and they won't TRULY understand unless you tell them that. You're 11 year old sister might not understand, but you're older one most likely will.
Let them know you want to do things ON YOUR OWN!
Altho we live with them, our siblings & parents can't read our minds. Altho, that would be rather cool. :)
I hope I helped, somehow.
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Keep talking to your parents and tell them you need your personal space too. If your sister ever do anything alone try to convice your parents that you should get your own time too. Your parents just dont understand how you feel try showing them how unhappy you are. If your parents dont listen or give you the attention you need then you should try to talk to your other family members. If that doesnt work then talk to your friends parents or any adult that you know. Other people will try to help you. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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Try finding activities that your younger sister is too young for and your older sister won't be interested in. While your parents are correct in saying that this is a trial of having sisters, they should realize that personal attention is also needed.
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do you sisters get to do things by themselves? just tell your parents that you would really like it if you could get to spend time with your aunts and cousins alone. talk to them about it, without arguing because that will just make them say no a lot quicker, and they would probably use your "attitude problem" as an excuse for saying no.. make them notice you doing a little more work around the house, or not fighting with your sister, to make them see that you are responsible. maybe then they will think you deserve a little time for yourself with your aunts and cousins! but if they do say no, repeatedly, just don't worry about it because sooner or later you will be able to do what you want! Good Luck!
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