Member Since: July 25, 2005
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Last Update: July 25, 2005
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do? (link)
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It sounds to me like there's only one thing he wants: Sex. And if you're not comfortable with the fact that he's always trying to make SOME type of sexual contact, then you should talk to him about it. Tell him exactly how you feel. Guys don't know everything, and they most certaintly can't read minds. (Or else we'd all have DREAM guys, right?) And if things don't change after you tell him everything, you might want to SERIOUSLY consider breaking things off. I mean, why waste your time being uncomfortable? When you could be with a guy that can hold a decent conversation and make you feel so comfortable. And also, you would most definitly be something with out him. We don't need boys or a relationship to be something. You are everything you are, with or without a boyfriend there with you. Well, I hope I helped! Best of luck with all of this.
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I have two sisters, I am the middle child(im a girl) one sis is 16, the other is 11(i'm 14). I try to get along with them, but they annoy me a lot. My older sister is bossy and thinks she can tell me what to do, and the younger one is a brat who always gets her way. My older sister is really smart, drives, and has a job, so my parents dont think she can do anything wrong. And my little sister is"the baby", so ... well ya know. It's not that i feel like i need more attention, thats not the problem. The problem is i cant do anything with my aunts or cousins without one of them coming with me. I try to tell them and my parents i wanna do something on my own, but they say that having two sisters is something i have to deal with. I spend time w/ my friends, but thats not enough. I cant do ANYTHING on my own, nd ive tried talking to my parents. WHAT SHOOD I DO ??? I'll rate highhh!!!! (link)
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I only have one older sister, and altho I am 'the baby' of the us two, I still slightly understand where all you're coming from. I can't spend time with my cousin(s) without her being there at the same time.
If I was in your exact position, I would try to get involved into something that I know my older sister wouldn't nearly be interested in, and something my younger sister would get bored with, or is too young, to do.
You should also try explaining to your parents, and sisters, that being fourteen causes for some serious personal space, and they won't TRULY understand unless you tell them that. You're 11 year old sister might not understand, but you're older one most likely will.
Let them know you want to do things ON YOUR OWN!
Altho we live with them, our siblings & parents can't read our minds. Altho, that would be rather cool. :)
I hope I helped, somehow.
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