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Boyfriend...
Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do?
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Well it sounds like he's just with you for sexual contact. Dump him. You can do better than him. There's plenty of other guys out there and you'll find Mr. Right. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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If you've spoken to him about it, and nothing has changed, then it is time to leave. He is just using you.
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Well boys will say anything to get with you and if he really loved you he'd wait until you were ready to the things he wants you to do. And about the fighting thing, it would'nt be the worst thing if you broke up with someone who your constantly fighting with. If you have had other boyfriends then you did survive with out him before so with a little encouragement, i think you can pull it off again!!
Good Luck Hope I Helped!
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if u already talked about him and that didnt help, then let him go! ull be fine without him and thats pitiful you think ud be nothing with him!! hello you are a person with your own life and personality! maybe this could give you the space to get more comfortable with who you are and learn how to live without a boyfriend by your side.
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Sweetie, if you're not comfortable with the way stuff is going in your relationship, talk about it. If talking about it doesn't do anything, it's time to let go.
This guy sounds like he doesn't respect what you want and need. Think about the way he does and says things. You say you fight all the time? The relationship used to be great? "Used to be" are your keywords.
You have a couple of choices. You can try talking to him again and letting him know that you've considered breaking up with him but haven't because you would be nothing without him. (if you haven't already told him that)
You can just break it off and give up.
Or, you can try to go with some of his wants. What's your reasoning behind not wanting to touch him? Are you just uncomfortable? If so, does he know that?
Never push yourself, or let anyone push you to do something you're uncomfortable with.
You are your own person. Never let yourself think that you're nothing without someone else. It sucks to be single if you had a relationship you were happy in, but really think about it. Are you happy now? If not, maybe you would be happy single.
It's your decision to make obviously, but please consider everything before you make your decision(s).
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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If you really want to break up with him then you just do it. You will be fine without him and may find someone even better. Maybe hes just moving things along to quickly for you. If you want him without the extras then just tell him. Ask him if hes willing to continue dating you without all the sexual contact. If he says no then move on to someone who will. :)
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Alright, uhhhh. well, yeah, it sounds like all he really wants is sex, and if it's not teh same thing you want. from the sounds of it, he's your first bf? if he is, it doesn't suprise me. it will always get harder before it eases up, personlly I would dump his sorry ass, you deserve more than that.
I really hope i helped!
*Ally*
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It sounds to me like there's only one thing he wants: Sex. And if you're not comfortable with the fact that he's always trying to make SOME type of sexual contact, then you should talk to him about it. Tell him exactly how you feel. Guys don't know everything, and they most certaintly can't read minds. (Or else we'd all have DREAM guys, right?) And if things don't change after you tell him everything, you might want to SERIOUSLY consider breaking things off. I mean, why waste your time being uncomfortable? When you could be with a guy that can hold a decent conversation and make you feel so comfortable. And also, you would most definitly be something with out him. We don't need boys or a relationship to be something. You are everything you are, with or without a boyfriend there with you. Well, I hope I helped! Best of luck with all of this.
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A hard one, but I'm gona try my best.. Through my past welps I kinda think he wants the sexual kinda stuff as in proof of you loving him a LOT I really don't know him though so I dont want to give you the wrong view, it could mean many things.. depends on what kinda guy he is --> the first time doing all that sexual stuff might be scary and not very pleasuring but it will be after awhile, I understand what you mean "I don't think I would be anything(without him)" You either, can do what you want with him sexually & move forward, but if you arent comftorable with that, explain it to him, tell him you love him & you love how everything was going before he kept on wanting all this sexual contact, explain what he means to you, dont spill your heart all out though, If he is a good guy he WILL understand & that will tell you a lot, tell him youre uncomftorable doing those kind of things with him.. and its unnessicary if his love is really that strong.
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