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friends w/ benefits
hey i cant get this boy off my mind i think about him all the time i mean like whenever a song comes on or anything. I mean i think about his 24-7. And he broke up w/ me because he said he didn't want a gf at that point in time. But we are still friends and we hang out and stuff. I go 2 his house and we watch movies. I still like him alot and i think he really likes me but im not quite sure. I really wanna go back out w/ him but he doesn't want a gf what should i do? please help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Believe me YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS!!!
Because what'll happen is since you're not "dating" he'll find some other girl and expect you to still hook up with him while he's with this girl and you'll become jealous and confused and awkward as hell around her. Just don't. I have a friend that's just getting out of a relationship like this and it ended so badly she would've been better off to just ignore him. So that's what I say you should do too.
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just tell him how you feel
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Apparently, the guy still likes you if he wants to continue hanging out with you. Just talk to him and see if in the near future, he can see himself with you again.
♥ Brooke
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If he doesn't want a girlfriend then he shouldn't get the benefits of having one. So, if he won't go out with you, find someone else who will. :)
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if he wants a girlfriend ask him if he will go back out with you
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stick around he apparently still likes you if he sits around his house with you and watchs movies.he probably just wants to see if your for real and if he really has feelings for you.just when you two are alone ask him if he still likes you.one thing you dont do is have sex with him because he except it as thats all you want and not a real relationship.hope i helped a little.
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Girl, I have the same problem! If you two already went out, and you still hang out often, then there's a deffinite possibility of the two of you getting back together! He may say he doesn't want a girlfriend now, but maybe he just wants to hang out with you to get to know you better. I would say just keep doing whatever it is you're doing because hun, it sounds like you got everything under control! What's meant to happen will happen! Best of luck! xOxOx
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I know how you feel! Try hanging out with him more and you guys will get closer. You gotta respect that he doesn't want a gf right now and dont worry things will change between you two! Tell him how much you care about him and what your feels are towards him. Dont pressure him or force him to go out with you. Try meeting new people to get him off your mind or think of other things. Dont worry about him. Dont let him hold you back because if you two get back together you wont have the freedom like before you guys broke up. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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ok here it goes-relationships are VERY and i mean VERY tough. i have a gf myself and i think about her 24-7. It even takes me an hour longer to get to sleep each night cause i cant stop thinking about her. This is what u shud do- first wait about a week then ask if he still likes u. If he says yes then ask him out if no then try to forget him. Try flirting with other guys in front of him if u have to have him. But try to forget him.
-bestadvaround45
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try talking to him and telling him how you feel about him...if that doesnt work out just stick to bein really good friends.. if he likes you a lot he will go back to you. i mean you might noe he might noe want a girlfriend at the moment because he is tryin to clear up his head. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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