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15 years is enough
I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much
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I'm the exact same way! I don't think you should change your personality just to get a guy to look at you. Its completely stupid. I mean, you want a guy to like you for you right? So how can he like you for you when you're prentending to be like someone else? Just be youself and one day he'll find you.
♥ Brooke
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ok you need to get some self-respect and love yourself believe that you can be different forget about what your friends say it's you who makes the decions so you need to get up and go flirt your hardest if your postures good then get out there and kick some butt lol what I mean is have faith in yourself your unique and have girl power so go show them boys what your made of hope i helped love sophie
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Hun, just be yourself! Go out and have fun with it, don't worry whether he likes you or not. There are plenty of other guys that would more than likely be attracted to you for who you are. Maybe you'd feel better if you hung out in groups, like with some of your girl friends and stuff. I can't think of anything else other than to be yourself. Honestly, you'll find it a lot easier than trying to be all flirty. And eventually, you'll be more open to flirting. Good luck babe! xOxOx
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Have you ever heard of these 2 sayings....1) Good things come to those who wait..... and patience is a virtue...... you don't need to make yourself more flirtatious to attract boys/men..... from the way you write you are confident enough in yourself already... just take each night out as it comes...... you'll find the guy you are looking for when you least expect it......
Just be yourself.....
TC
Mel
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First off, you doing something you're not comfortable with (flirting, etc) will show. Not all guys want a flirty woman, or that's what my husband said when I asked him to get a guy's opinion.
Look around to find a guy that you really think would be compatible with you. Try to find a common interest so you'll have something to talk about with him. Write down what you might say so you can collect your thoughts. That way you're not stuck wondering what to say.
When you talk to a guy, lean in a little. Body language often lets people know how you feel without you saying it. You leaning in says I'm interested in you or what you're saying. Keep eye contact. Don't stare 24/7 but when your eyes meet, hold the look for a minute before looking away. Looking someone in the eye shows confidence. Making similar gestures from time to time (If he puts his hand on his hip, you do also.) shows attraction.
Being curious about him and asking questions shows you're interested in him and want to know more. Touching him occasionally will also show interest.
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hey
i am just like you. lol. i had that same problem
just be yourself, dont go searching for a boy.
get confidence, try working out a little, that helped me to be more outgoing.
when school starts back up again, just talk to people in your area, small chat. like you would to make a new friend.
and maybe even join a few clubs to meet people outside of your classes
you dont need to be a flirt to get a boyfriend either.
like i said, just be yourself, and someone will find you and love you for just the way you are. =)
hope i helped.
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first off be yourself around guys...let lose as in enjoy yourself and flirt with guys more. for example you sittin talk to the guy you like try touchin him pokin him. guys like girls that know how to have fun... so try to have as much as you can.... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Make sure you find someone that you like and that isnt only after one thing. If you have a crush on someone and you think he's the right guy for you, not one that uses girls and hurts them because you should have someone who is special and who will respect you.
i asked some of my guy friends what they find attractive about girls. The main things they said was that someone who makes them laugh is important, genuine, honest, who they can chat with for hours about everything and anything.
Here are some tips for you;
Be your self. It is important that you don't act differently around your guy because he will see right through it and think you are fake.
Be happy. If you smile you will look more approachable and friendly. He wont want to be with someone who looks unhappy all the time. Also when your with your mates and he's with his, flash him a nice flirty smile.
Give him compliments. Guys get insecure about themselves just as much as us girls so he'll love it when you boost his confidence now and then.
Find out what kinda stuff he is into. Then do some secret research on it. he'll think its cool that you like the same cool band as him or his fave movie. Don't go overboard though, if you have Everything in common with him it'll soon get boring.
Laugh at his jokes, even the bad ones. not hysterically though or he might twig what you're up to.
When you are chatting to him, gently touch him on the arm in a sweet flirty way.
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Guys are easy. Just be friendly, conversational. That's all you have to do, be direct.
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look. dont change yourself to get a guy. tat never works. when that guy you liek coes around he'll like you because of you. but if you really wanna become more flirtaious and stuff just put yourself out there a little more. make friends with these guys before you except them to wanna go out with you. hope i helped?
vanna :)
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