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my name is savanna. im 13 years old and i LOVE to give advice. if you have any questions at all im here to help :)

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Hey add me to msn or email me::: Darkness4life@hotmail.com I LOVE BO!!!!!!!!! HE IS FINE!!!!!!1

haha. if ur talkin bout bo from the dukes of hazzard. you are most defintily right. that boy is fine && coy is pretty cute too from them episodes! just making sure but are you that person that wrote the message 'bout the general lee? if not, who are you?..haha

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my cousin is 11 and she wants to lose weight for my 15 year b-day and her holy cummunion so do you guys have any good diets.

um. not a diet. but just tell her to eat healthier and lay off the junk food. tell her to eat pleanty fruits, and limit the junk food to nothing or like 1 thing a day.

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alright i dont no wat i should do.i really like this guy and we r friends.he is 16 and i am 13.a big differance i no.but i really like himcause he is sweet ,nice,funny,opened,and really cute.but i dont no wat to do .wat do u think.o yea and im a girl of course.

ok. well this might not be what you wanna hear. but guys that are 16 have different things on there minds then holding hands and kissing. this guy may not even be a virgin and a 16 year old guy doesnt wanna go up to his high scholl friend and say yea im dating a 7th or an 8th grader. it sounds like you just have a crush on him, kinda like the crushes you have on celebrities. sorry if this isnt what you wanted to hear. you dont have to rate or wahtever.

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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :)

just let her know how much ou love him and how you would do anything for him. i mean f shes a true friend then she'll understand taht you've found someone that you love and, if your engaged, you want to spend your life with..hope i helped? :)

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Hi, I'm 17, Female. I have a friend that doesn't think I like her, but I do. Now when I try to talk to her on AIM, she doesn't say anything, or she just signs off. What should I do? Please help.

the only thing i can think to do is when shes on aim write a message to her and ask her why she thinks that you dont like her and explain that you do. because if she avoiding you it might be the only way. hope i helped at least a little?

:) louisianaisforlovers

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I AM SOOO BORED waht should i do?

www.bored.com

it'll occupy you for hours :)

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i am sooooo bored! any ideas for fun?

m. go to bored.com that'll occupy for for hours. i promise :)

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Where do you get your cute icons? =)

heres a website to do it from

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=totally__icons

hope i helped :)

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what happens when you get raped?? im totally scared of it......HELP PLEASE!!!

ok. i agree with Mackenzie about how muuch you worry but rape is when someone aggressively throws themselves on you and holds you down while he trys to have sex. or do sexual things. thats not what happens in all cases but in most cases tat is what happens.lemme knoe if i helped by the feedback :)

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ok so i'm going to a green day concert in october and i dont know what to wear. have any ideas anyone?
*ill rate high*

well since its a rock concert dont get all dressed up and dont go overboard with the makeup.id just wear jeans and a tshirt with some tennis shoes, i mean you cant really go wrong with that. and try to keep the makeup to a minimun because you dont wana go lookin like barbie. hope i helped.
vanna :)

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August 5th will be my one year anniversary im so excited.. well i wanted to get him something and my mom gave me an idea but i wanted to know if people thhought it was corny or stupid.. well there is this store place near my house kinda called Build A Bear.. and i was going to make him a Monkey cause its his favorite animal and this i was going to get a San Antonio Spurs shirt or something and put it on it cause thats his favorite basketball team.. well i wanted to know does that sound childish and stupid.. or does it sound okay.. i just dont want to feel stupid givin it to him.. By the way he's 15 almost 16 and im 16 almost 17.. thanks in advance an if you think its stupid and childish give me some ideas on what to get him THANKS!!

wow. thats a great idea. it has meaning to it and its more than just buying him something from walmart , ya know? another good idea would be to make like a memory book. like take a bunch of pictures or like things from dates you guys went on like if you keep movie tickets or something from a restaurant and put it in the book. hope i helped & i like to know if im giving good advice so feedback please :)

vanna:)

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What are some good quiz sites? Please not quizella.

WILL RATE.

go to www.bored.com & go the quiz section :)

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ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute

i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!

i honestly think it depends on where you are in the date. like in your in the movies nd yall are holding hands then go for it. but it'd be differnt if you guys were like on her front porch then if you ask it'd be cute. but if you ask in the middle of the movie then it might ruin the moment. hope i helped oh, & i like ot know if im giving good advice so feedback please :)

vanna :)

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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH

ok. i was in this exact situation. what i did what i wrote down everything i liked about the guy i was going out with and everything that bothered me and then i did the same for the other guy. then i looked at the list and i was screw this and i listened to what my heart said. if you dont want you and the guy that ur goin out with to break up then dont unless u have a good reason to break up . hope i helped :)

vanna :)

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

i definitly think i'd be cute. it shows that he respects her and likes her enough to not make her feel uncomfertable. definitly not weird. hope i helped :)

vanna :)

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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-wondering

ok well im not 15 years old yet but i definitly know what id like a guy to do for me in a movie. it really depends on the kind of girl. if shes the kinda girl who loves a gentleman then open the doors for her and stuff. if she like me and really doesnt care if she has to open the door then leave it at that. the number one rule is to be sweet and not rude. yeah try to put your arm around her in the movie or something. & maybe slide your hand over and put in on top or right next to hers. and hold hands for however long you want, you know? it really doesnt matter. but one thing dont like right when you sit down start trying to hold hands wait until like 15 minutes after the movie starts. have fun :)

oh and i like to know if im giving good or bad advice so feedback please :)

vanna :)

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ok im the one who asked about the music thing abouut downloading music for my mp3. i like rock country and a little rap. mostly nelly mike jones and 50 cent.

breaking benjamin and all american rejects :)

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my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
will rate 5's

i think you should talk to your friend and try to talk her out of running away. she mightget drunk and do someting reallyy bad and nobody wants that to happen to they're friend. if theres no way on talking it out let her stay at your house because its probably the safest. hope i helped

vanna :)

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Anyone know any good ska bands? or punk band?

lets see- all american rejects. hawthrone heights. fall out boy. relient k. the used. lifehouse. three days grace. sum 41. foo fighters. weezer. croosfade. third eye blind. three doors down. linkin park. &; blink 182
and i have more if you need some hit me up on my inbox :)

vanna :)

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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.

ok if your bf cant trust you as much as to smile at someone than you need to talk to him about his trusting you. let him knoe that you have friends and theres no need for him be jealous because you only have feeling for him. hope i helped. i worte that from experience me and my boyfriend had jealosy issues to. vanna :)

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