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Question Posted Monday July 25 2005, 4:48 pm

alright i dont no wat i should do.i really like this guy and we r friends.he is 16 and i am 13.a big differance i no.but i really like himcause he is sweet ,nice,funny,opened,and really cute.but i dont no wat to do .wat do u think.o yea and im a girl of course.

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XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Monday July 25 2005, 5:12 pm:
Three years isn’t a big difference, but at your age it is. Only because a 16 year old wants totally different things then you are probably use to. They may not pressure you into sex but they most likely will at least bring it up. If not sex then they will want to at least do everything in between making out and sex. Think of what you want in a relationship and if you would be ready to do things with him. If you really want you can see where it takes you and be in a relationship with him. Just don’t do anything you don’t want to do and don’t let him pressure you into it.
Good luck, I hope things work out for you!

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icey0990 answered Monday July 25 2005, 5:02 pm:
Well, i say you should talk to him or get either one of your good guy or girl friends to talk to him for you to see how he feels. I mean, if you dont, it will be on your mind constantly..you will be thinking "wHAT if he liked me too?" Trust me , i've let that happen to me and it drove me nuts to keep wondering what could have been.
Get one of your friends to talk to him..ask "do you think (your name) "

i hope i helped

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AGAiNSTxTHExODDS answered Monday July 25 2005, 4:58 pm:
Mkay.. Well 3yrz is sort of a big difference. But if you really like tha guy then i dont see why you couldnt give it a shot. Just be sure that he isn't using you since its an age diff. Hope I helped =]

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Mackenzie answered Monday July 25 2005, 4:56 pm:
Well if you'Re ALREADY fRiends, why not simply tell him how you feel? Don't beat aRound the bush, just say it. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. I think once you've told HIM how YOU feel, you'll be a lot moRe likely to get an HONEST Response fRom him; since you would have bRoken the ice, you see? It's Really the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if how he feels about you; you can *ASSUME* his feelings alllllllll you wants... but the tRuth is... you'll neveR actaully know EXACTLY how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom HIS mouth, ya know?? And let's assume the woRst and he say infact DOES NOT feel the same foR you. Then it's kind of an 'end of stoRy' deal. Bottom line.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR anyhow?? All that matteRs is that you tRy to peRsue this to the best of youR abilities. Hopefully eveRything tuRns out how you'd like! :D

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louisianaisforlovers answered Monday July 25 2005, 4:56 pm:
ok. well this might not be what you wanna hear. but guys that are 16 have different things on there minds then holding hands and kissing. this guy may not even be a virgin and a 16 year old guy doesnt wanna go up to his high scholl friend and say yea im dating a 7th or an 8th grader. it sounds like you just have a crush on him, kinda like the crushes you have on celebrities. sorry if this isnt what you wanted to hear. you dont have to rate or wahtever.

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