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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH
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i think that you should stick with the guy you are with. BUT do you have things in common with the other guy or more with your b/f? Do you like the other guy alot more? how well do you know him? those are the things you need to think about. and also is your relationship with your b/f serious? you need to think about his feelings. xx
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If you really like your bf then stay with him! The other guy should respect that you are in a relationship right now. If he likes you then he should wait and see if you and your bf work out or not. You should do the same. How well do you know this other guy? Believe it or not but people act different when someone is dating another person. I've been there and done that so I can really relate to your problem. I had been dating my bf of 6 months and I met this amazingly hot and sweet guy. He seemed perfect and there was something about him that I really, REALLY liked. He seemed so different from my bf and he actually took me out and hung out with me while my bf was off being a dumbass. In the end I broke up with my bf for other reasons that had nothing to do with the other guy. But the other guy totally changed after I became single again. And things never worked out the way I thought they would. Its a true statement: People like what they can't have. If you haven't noticed alot of guys will go after girls that are taken already because its a challenge. They have a guy, and it seems impossible for them to get the girl, but if they can they act like it's some sort of accomplishment. So trust me... stay with your bf. I'm not sure how long you have been with him, how much you like him, or any other important factors. I suggest you make a pro and con list of the two guys. That can really help. Another thing to consider: Is there any hidden issues that you secretly have against your bf? Are there some things he has done since you two have been dating that might make you try and run to this other guy? If there is then DON'T go to the other guy. Although my feelings for the other guy in my relationship were strong, it wasn't the reason why I broke up with my bf. I had some hidden major problems with him that couldn't be worked out in the end. So never EVER let another guy cause you and your bf to break up. Just go with the flow and stay with your bf. Don't take the chance of switching to another guy, cause that not only hurts you but it hurts your bf as well and it might be a HUGE mistake in the end, so why risk it? I hope my advice has helped you and remember its your choice, but just follow your heart and everything should work out for the best.
~Sherah
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ok. i was in this exact situation. what i did what i wrote down everything i liked about the guy i was going out with and everything that bothered me and then i did the same for the other guy. then i looked at the list and i was screw this and i listened to what my heart said. if you dont want you and the guy that ur goin out with to break up then dont unless u have a good reason to break up . hope i helped :)
vanna :)
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you should stay with the guy you are going out with now because if you brake up with him for someone alse you dont kno what could happen maybe the other guy could change his mind, or maybe he does not even like you then you would lose your relationship for nothing
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sounds drastic- but who do u think you could see yourself marrying?- there really shuld only be one choice- and if you cant decide- then as cliche` as it sounds- neither of them are for you. hope i wasnt too bogus.
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DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM! trust me you'll regreat it afterwards. give him a chance...if it doesnt work out with him then go out with the other guy...
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If you want my HONEST opinion, I say you shouldn't bother with EITHER of them! Honestly, Hun.. you CAN NOT like TWO people. If you DO or even THINK you do, you DO NOT like EITHER one ***ENOUGH*** And what's the point of being in a relationship when BOTH partners aren't willing to devote ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL of their time, love, and attention to it???
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How old are you?If you really like the guy you are with.. and dont want to mess that relationship up then stay with him. But you also have to think about who you'd rather be with.. I cant make the choice for you.. Think about... Who makes you laugh the most... who likes you for you the most.... those kind of things...
hope this helped.. Good Luck
*Jackie*
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stick with the guy you are going out with, i mean you obviously really like him and you were with him first, if the crush on this other guy gets to be bigger than the crush on ur bf then you should break up but for now it seems like you still like your bf too much to just break up with him
good luck!
<3 donny
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ok here goes- you must decide who you like better and if you could imagine yourself without the guy you are with now and try to imagine yourself breaking up with him. If it is too hard or you can't just imagine it, then stick with the guy you got. You sed REALLY like and KINDA like so i think it is obvious but its your decision. Go with the guy you like and think about more.
hope i helped
-bestadvaround45 (please rate whatever you think this deserves)
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