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are we falling apart?
okay well i have these 2 friends and they're both my best friends..well me and one of them (christina) live across the street so we're the closest in our friendship or 3 but my friend just moved across the street from us (karlie)..and well now when all 3 or us hang out i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel..and i feel like i'm losing my best friend (christina) i mean i love karlie right to death but i just feel so left out when all 3 of us are together..like christina will leave the room and karlie will have to follow her every move..idk what to do and i'm just afraid that our friendship is going to fall apart over something stupid..what can i do to make things better please help!
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Hey hun, it may seem like you're losing Christina, but maybe it's because this is a new thing. And she just wants to hang out with someone new for awhile. I highly doubt that you guys would become something less of best friends because of this. I would suggest confronting them about it so at least they know how you feel and maybe they'll realize what they're doing. I wish you the best of luck! xOxOx
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Like you said they both are your best friends and if you feel like you are the third wheel telling them how you feel is always the answer. They are your best friends and they will understand and they probablly dont even relize how they are making you feel. Just dont think about your friendship falling apart just do anything and everything to have fun and stay close friends like usual. You guys will remain friends so you really should talk to them. ♥ `
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Like you said they both are your best friends and if you feel like you are the third wheel telling them how you feel is always the answer. They are your best friends and they will understand and they probablly dont even relize how they are making you feel. Just dont think about your friendship falling apart just do anything and everything to have fun and stay close friends like usual. You guys will remain friends so you really should talk to them. ♥ `
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haha my friends and i had the same prob. the other 2 were always hanging out. and i didnt feel like the 3rd wheel alot. but i asked them to talk about it with me,and it did alot of good to talk about it believe me
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