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anger issues
my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?
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You have to break up with her before she kills you or makes you codependent or whatever else she could possibly do. She doesn't love you...I'm sorry...but she doesn't. She's abusive and she thinks of you as a toy, pretty much. You have to break up with her and find a better girlfriend who will actually care about you.
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You should sit her down, talk, and ask her whats what is bothing her. Ask her if she is being abusive because she has something on her mind and has no one to talk to about it. Try telling her that her you don't like her abusive ways and want her to stop before it becomes a bad habbit - and if she doesn't stop, just tell her that you can can no longer be together, even though you still love her.
♥ Brooke
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sweetie, thats just as bad as a guy acting like that with his girlfriend. theres nothing right about that, at all. no matter how much you love her- let her know exactly how you feel, and let her know if she doesnt stop it, youre done. and end things if she's not willing to compromise. because its not fair to you. hope i helped.
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Sit her down and talk to her about her abusive ways. If she knows that she's hurting you, she will try her best not to do it anymore =D
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maybe you should just do what she wants when she wants and treat her like a princess:);)
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that sounds tough. i think one day you should take her out on a nice date and make her make the desicions. ask her what she likes, doesnt like... and when you have her in a good mood, start talking about her anger problem. ask her why she gets so upset over little things. as much as you know, she could have other things going on that she's just keeping in. if she has a real serious issue, maybe you could help her overcome it. but if its simply because shes always been hysterical i would think of breaking it off, but still adress what the problem is before you make any actions you might regret.
good luck and i hope i helped.
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You need to get her to stop it before it becomes a habit. Just tell he very firmly that you will not put up with being hit at and having things thrown at you. If she keeps it up then don't take her to the movies anymore or whatever it is that set her off. Explain you won't take her again until she can grow up and stop with the tantrums. Sounds harsh but hey...can't have you injured because of it. Tell her you are not going to be embarrassed by her behavior any longer. She should come around if she cares about being your girlfriend. :)
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i think that you should lay down the law. you should tell her that you dont like what shes doing to you and that she needs to stop. if she doesnt stop break it off. maybe you love her but she doesnt love you as much as you think
hope i helped
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I'm really sorry to hear that hun. But if I were you, I'd just be there for her and maybe sit down with her sometime, and ask her if there's anything you can do to help her. Maybe she's getting frustration built up from something and she just doesn't have anyone to talk to. So just be there and let her know that if she needs to talk, you're there. Hope I helped and best of luck! xOxOx
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anger management classes? Good luck with that situation...
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It seems like your girlfriend has some anger issues. Sit down and talk to your girlfriend about her anger and what it's doing to your relationship. Try not to sound accusing since this might set her off again. Just tell her you're concerned about her and you don't want to see your relationship end over something that can be fixed.
If she agrees that she has a problem, be supportive of her and help her find healthy outlets for anger (exercise, writing, etc). If she doesn't think she has a problem, then you have to make a choice of whether you can put up with her anger and abuse for the sake of your love.
Another option is to talk to your girlfriend's parents so they can help her get help either through counseling or anger management classes.
The following links are for sites that explain anger and techniques to help control it. I would suggest reading it so you can get an idea of what's going on with your girlfriend as well as come up with some ideas of how to help her. The second site does offer to sell books and tapes on anger, but it also provides free information as well as a message board on anger management.
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I hope this helps you.
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Have her go to anger classes.
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Confront her about it don't be mean but be firm to get your point across.....So I would ask her to stop pyschaly hitting you it hurts your both pyschicaly and emotinaly..And ask her I don't hit you do I??? Tell her you love her and you'll be there for her always unless you kill him first
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well, my advice is talk to her, be nice tell her shes hurting you, and if you could please stop, but be nice and make sure to say i love you after and kiss her!! hehe hope this helps
luv, hannah x3
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