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Ive had this best guy friend for a while. We went out a few years ago, and it lasted fr over a year, things got rocky, and we're still very good friends.
But recently it's been obvious that theres been attraction between the two of us. We hung out the other day and one thing led to another and we got to the point of almost having sex. I stopped it and went home. Tomorrow we are hanging out together again, and i know the same is going to happen. The thing is, i REALLY want to have sex with him because we had such a great relationship, but it just feels funny.
Would it be be wrong and "slutty" of me to do so?
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hi,
you obviously love this person very much and want to be with them very much and if you feel that you two aremant to be together then go for it! just make shore tht he is ready and plus you should loose your virginity to some one that you trust and you obviouslt trust him if you think about this you will come to find that it is not "slutty" of you
I hope that you find the answer in your heart
from wiggs
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no it wouldnt be slutty at all bcs you two did go out for a while and you obviousally know him real well. i think you should go for the sex! ♥ ♥ ♥
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Have you ever had sex with him before? I don't think it would be that slutty of you if you do because you have a history with him. Plus it sounds like you guys may be getting to the point of going out again, maybe? If you want to do it, go for it. Sure, there will be people who might say bad things about you but you shouldn't care what other people say if you've already dated him for over a year. This is YOUR choice, no one else's. Hope I helped! xOxOx
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you should have sex with somebody you love not just because your attracted to them.. i mean you should have both at the same time.. ♥ Dez
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you will be called a slut.
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How old are you first off? 13 to the age of 17? I would suggest not to have sex. You've been friends, but your going to have sex without having a strong love relationship? I suggest you dont have sex with him. It wouldnt be slutty, but it would be weird for you to do that when your not exactly bf or gf, ya know? It probably feels funny because you are good friends. I would suggest to become boyfriend and girlfriend for a while, because, most likely, you'll have sex, and then you wont date, you'll still just be friends, probably friends with benifits, and that could lead to getting pregnant.I would just, hold off. Making out i suggest you should do instead, if he's a good guy he'll understand. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!
~Brina~
P.S- I was not trying to be mean at all, cuz after i just read it over it seems "meanly", but i am never rude to any advice questions, i hope you'll know that :)
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The main question here is: Does he have a girlfriend? If he does and you decide to have sex with him things can only go reeeeally bad.
But, no one can tell you when you're ready to have sex. If it doesn't feel right, then don't do it. Don't do it because you feel you HAVE to. The greatest advice I can probably give here is if you go through and have sex with this guy, use condoms so things won't go from bad to worse.
X_Amanda_X
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If you feel you are mature enough to handle having sex, then do so. Just make sure you're doing it because you want to and no for any other reason, ie. hoping that he will like you or trying to make the relationship better. Sex generally complicates things, not make things better. Remember to have safe sex to protect yourself and your partner.
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You really shouldn't have sex unless you're in a committed loving relationship. "Friends with advantages" is a really bad idea usually, and you could end up regretting it. It wouldn't be wrong or slutty at all - in the end it's completley up to you. But since it feels funny, it sounds like you have a bit of doubt, and any bit of doubt means you aren't ready.
If you both still have feelings for one another, you could always give the relationship another shot.
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If it "feels funny" then I think you should wait. Obviously something is holding you back from having sex, and until you figure out what it is and deal with it, you're not ready.
Since you're not actually dating, just friends, I would wait until you have a dating relationship for a bit before moving onto a sexual relationship. If your friendship is as strong as it seems to be, he won't mind waiting. That way you won't lose a good friendship over a possibly one-time thing.
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Yes.
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you really shouldnt..you may noe him as a friend but you hav no idea what kind of other things may go on with himm...try dating for a while and then see what happens
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