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ok, my hair is naturally blonde...and uh i dyed it black...(but it was a lot of colors in between and the black was a boo boo) and now my roots are back and it has been dyed black for almost 1 and a half years now. i have been redoing it and stuff when my roots needed it. but now i wanna get back to blonde!!! how can i go about getting back to blonde with blonde roots of about 2 inches and then the rest of my shoulder length hair black? is there any way to get hte dye out, cuz i wanna be blonde again ASAP!!! thanks! (link)
mm kk..well my advice is go to hair salon..but maybe if u let it grow out a bit...try starting with like a highlits of another color...


Ugh I'm sick of it, my mom is seriously obsessed with sleeping pills. I'm really worried about her. Shr doesn't sleep if she doesn't take them and she doesn't sleep when she does take them. I already told her whats the point of taking the pills if you cant sleep and you can't sleep if you don't take any.

I think i want to bring to a drug rehab center.. Just because i'm worried about her. I want her to be with me for a really long time. Any ideas on how I can make her stop taking them?? She doesn't listen to me when I tell her to stop taking them.. (link)
no you cant stop her...
you need to think this through

talk to her about it

how old are you...are you 17? or younger...
if your younger see if there is someone you could stay with...like a friend or relitive!

if you report her your going to have child services on ur moms ass like a hawk you might not see ur mom again...

try talking to her first!

if she is a hazard to you or others then you HAVE TO REPORT HER..

but if its just sleeping pills find out what kind they are n awl..maybe research


if you need my my email address is oliveyoux3@hotmail.com




I'm 21 just findout that I'm pregnant but they can't tell the month or weeks is it possible? problem the father I'm no longer dating him and I dont love him we used protection I dont know how did it happen I haven'nt even dating him for more than 3months I realized the relation would'nt work but we din't discuss verbaly, the main question is shall I tell him and the biggest problem he is already got a baby of 10months thats why I could'nt continue in with a relationshirp, and he said to me he regrets his child if there was a way he could have suggested abortion so now its me I really dont know what to do, and I've grown without knowing my father so I dont'wnt the same for my child tell what to do pls (link)
no abortion!
go to the doctor and hell tell you almost everything
first you have to decide if you want to keep the baby
alot of things go into deciding this...
if you can support it
if your ready
if you are mentally capable..and so on and so on....

http://www.optionline.org/?wcw=google?source=google&campaign=pregans

about that dad...tell him..he deserves to know and if he doesnt want anything to do with his baby then go to court for child support

i hoped i helped..

if you need to talk my email address is
oliveyoux3@hotmail.com
my name is ashley and i hoped i helped!



Does anyone know a good site to get LJ icons? i am OBSESSED with them but i forgot the website were i got them before. please help! i`ll rate!=)thanks in advance. (link)
http://www.picgames.com/perl/msn-messenger-icons


right click the pic you want and save it...and then go to lj and go were its says upload pic..

well thats were i get mine from...



Is the nano ipod a good buy? (link)
i want to get..its awesome...if you have the money then yeah but think about it..in 2 months there probally be somethin better...make sure you adore it!


Hi

I have a question about guys who wink.
When a guy winks at you, does it mean he likes you as more than a friend.?

The reason I ask is because I got winked at by a guy and then I later found out he is married.

I've also been winked at in different ways. Some guys wink really fast and smile in front of others, and other guys wink at me really slow when no one else is looking.

I've been winked at since I was about 13 and now I"m 27. I'm really curious what it means.

sincerely
buzzie
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well...maybe your wearing a white shirt and you have a black bra on..lol..

its a wink...if its not ur black bra take it as a compliment and do something!


mwahss!!!!

x3 asher puff


Well I have some boyfriend but I really want to have one. But I don't want to ask anyone else also I dont want to look like a fool.
So if anyone can Help me please reply (link)
umm explain pweasee :)


Okay. Well I recently got back together with my ex. He asked me back out and said he had missed me and all of this stuff. And that he was happy we were back together. He was all like, "I regret breaking up with you." Lalala.. You get the picture. Well, now that we're back together... he never calls or anything. He has a cell phone, he could call any time he wasn't busy (which he is a lot... he juggles work and school and the crap his parents make him do.) Well what I don't understand is... if she cares about me the way he says he does... wouldn't he at least call sometime??? or I mean, geez... I dunno. I'm just confused. Is he secretly trying to say, "Hey, I don't think this is gonna work?" or do all boys do this? Lol (link)
well its hard to say...
i dated this guy timmy who was like all yeah ima kawl and then broke up with me a week later...but hey he could have gotten back together with you beacuse he felt sorry n awl...but it could just beacuse he is busy...

advice:

talk to him!

*mwah*

x3 asher puff!!


I have been friends with Lauren since Kindergarden. We've always been close and I've ignored the fact that she's really geeky. Now, im in 7th grade and I'm starting to be really concious of it. Shes so embarassing!! Her nails look like a witch's and she won't let me cut them. I've been trying to slowly ignore her, but since we've been close since forever its hard to pull away. I know she won't let go of me. I'm her ONLY good friend. Tonight is the football game and I don't want to go with her even though she invited me. I want to go with my other best friend. Number one: How can I pull away from her? Number two: What should I do about the game tonight?? (link)
I know!
But im a person who beleives in god...what you sew is what you reek basiclly (KARMA)

you mave have really popular friends now but that my change...i know this beacuse it happend to me...i had my friend lace and shes a dork and w.e and i always left her to go with these other girls and then those girls ended up hating me...and blah blah

basiclly she has stuck by since foerver...do you want to loose that by the way she looks and acts? people can change those things... but ur ruining ur friendship over something stupid...

truth is she will grow out of it just like my firend lace did..

mwahh

hoped i helped



13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..

Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.

I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.

And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.

If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column

Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..

Thanks in advance for any helpful advice. (link)
heyy i know whtchya mean like when i was 13 (around two years ago) i felt like really ugly and w.e but if you have enough confiendce like i did guys will love you! and you know i doubt your ugly...you just need a boost of confiendce..and if you pray to god and beleive with your wholest heart that you will one day find that guy ( soon) you will! just like i did when i was 13...and me and my bf have been datin ever since then...HoPe I HElPEd!!



18/female

Me and this guy have been friends for like over a year now and i have had a huge crush on him. I have told him about and left it at that. We are always hanging out. He tells me more stuff then he has ever told anyone. He is like a best friend to me. He flirts all the time with me and he is always holding my hand and cuddling with me but then he always is saying that he just wants to be friends well he dont act like it at all and he has gone out with my best friend and after she dumped him i started getting closer she tells me its fine and we talk all about it but i just think i need more advice everyone says he likes me but then he does the same exact stuff to other gurls and im just really confused about it if he does like me what should i do? please i need your help (link)
give it time..maybe hes not ready for a commitment..mayb yawl arejuss really good friends..but dont like hav sex with him for that reason..i mean just dont let things get to far


Ive had this best guy friend for a while. We went out a few years ago, and it lasted fr over a year, things got rocky, and we're still very good friends.

But recently it's been obvious that theres been attraction between the two of us. We hung out the other day and one thing led to another and we got to the point of almost having sex. I stopped it and went home. Tomorrow we are hanging out together again, and i know the same is going to happen. The thing is, i REALLY want to have sex with him because we had such a great relationship, but it just feels funny.

Would it be be wrong and "slutty" of me to do so? (link)
you really shouldnt..you may noe him as a friend but you hav no idea what kind of other things may go on with himm...try dating for a while and then see what happens



Does anyone know of any good diet pills that actually WORK?! (link)
trim spa...it fills you up so u dont each as much

you kan go to walmart and get like 5 for thirty dollars


13/f

hey, umm, yeah...i haven't really been sleeping the past 2 weeks...and now, i'm starting to get headaches-like frequently...

this has never happened before, and like i just wanted to know if this is semi-normal or if something's wrong w/ me.

also, i'm postitive that its not like PMS or anything having to do with my period...it just started randomly happening...and plus, i've had it for like almost 4 years now...s0o0o, yeah...help?! (link)
you myte be depressed

try thiss....to see if ur depressed

http://my.webmd.com/content/tools/1/quiz_depression_risk.htm

or just search on

www.wedmd.com

hoped i helpedd


mwahhss



im sorry but this probally sounds really gross, but im 13/female and whats a good way i can *play* with my self? and fun techneqes?
(with out the purchuse of vibrators or dildos..im to young to buy them..)
thanks! (link)
use a lotion bottle! lol and rub ur clit at the same timee!!...!!! wee

hoped i helped!!!



14/f .. would you consider it cheating if someone else kissed you but you weren't the one who kissed them? (link)
no..its not your fault...you should explain to your bf what happend..if he really loves you hell understand

well hope i helped! mwahhsss!



what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle... (link)
you need to trust your girlfriend...geremey i mean isnt it you the one who wanted her to trust you...try talking to ashley she loves you and you know she wouldnt do that to you



i know this may sound really gross but i dont know if something is wrong. When i masturbate, i usually use a electric toothbrush or one of those things you use to massage your back and stuff. It feels so good and i love doing it but after im done, i start bleeding from down there, like i have my period when i KNOW i dont. is this normal, does it happen to anyone else? (link)
heyy dewd..i used one of those!!! lmao..but no use a lotion bottle and ur finger...


alicia i dont know if ull respond to this cause its really personal but i have been with my boyfriend for quite a while and hes moving in a couple months so we decided to have sex, i took the day after pill but i left the little container in my purse. my mom went looking for gum and came acrossed it... now she doesn;t trust me cause shes all religious and stuff... what should i do? are you a virgin, or have u had to face ur guardian about sex issues?
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be honest...if shes religious..say that god forgives and why should she!


OK this girl I've known for a long time hates me for some reason. I was crushing on her boyfriend and they broke up. We've been in many a fight and I want to be friends with her but all she does is call me a bitch or a cunt. This has been going on ever since I've met her. How do I get her to stop and maybe be friends with me? HELP (link)
mmm kk well i had a prolem like this.. this girlt tabitha was makin funn of me n pe. untill oneday she was all like wht did you say to my friend and i was all you herd me bitch and so yeahh...
try standing up to her..shes probally juss as much of a pussy as any other..once you stand up to her..expecially infornt of everyone..shell ern ur respct! rememeber: KARMAS A BITCHHH
that girl tabitha broke her ankle within two days..lmao! mwahs love yas byes




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