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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle...
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i went through a situation along those lines but my g/f grew up with this kid her whole life and she was texting him behind my back and he would call her in the middle of the night and all i did was sat her down and talked to her about it and how it made me feel.not all girls will want to hear it and it might cause and argument but later when they think about it they will understand where your comin from.good luck.if all else fails hire a hitman haha j/j.
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Wow. This couldn't be a more perfect question for me. I'm going through the same thing only I'm the girl being hit on so maybe I can help. First off, maybe you should take a look at the relationship you have with this girl. It might be hard to realize but maybe this girl still has feelings for her ex and that might be why she doesn't really come forward with him. Maybe she's not ready to move on. If you are SURE she's over him, then let just sit down and have a mature conversation with him by letting him know that you're uncomfortable with the way he's treating your girlfriend. Maybe he'll realize what he's doing is wrong and back off a little. If he doesn't stop, then maybe you're better off without the girl. You know, let them work things out before you get more involved. Three's a crowd and I'm sure you can do better. Hope I helped!
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tell your gf its agrivating. most girls are okay to talk. if that doesnt work try telling her ex(even though its hard) that your with her and thats how its gonna be. ask yourself how willing you are to be with her. if you liked her that much you would speak your peace. hope you go far!
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Don't take any action against him. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her that it really bothers you when he hits on her. Make sure she's told him that it bothers her as well, and that she's with you and he's not going to get her back by trying to pull her away from you. However hard it may be to handle, just know that if you really love and trust your girlfriend, there's nothing to worry about. If it doesn't work when she talks to him, tell him to back off yourself, but don't get too angry, be civil, and it will go down better. Good luck.
:) Nevaeh
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Aww okay first you need to talk to her let her know how you feel also talk to the guy let him know that she is your gf and he cant steal her away from you! its not right!!! i am soo sorry but i dont have enough time right now to finsih this.... you can im me on qtgymnist1212
-hope i helped-
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ive had the same probolom and what i did was talk to the guy about it and he sorta got pissd at me so not to good idea but id talk to your gf about it mayby she would be understanding.
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hey baybay,
I know that you worry because of him, but you don't have to. I've told him how I feel about you and that he has no chance. Your the only one I have feeling for baby! I love you, you know that. The reason I kept talking to him is because I have known him for so long and he understood that things between him and I aren't gonna change. I mean he is my friend and you still talk to your friend that like you, so why can't I? All I'm trying to say is that I could never leave you, you have nothing to worry about, and I love you!! mwah!!
<3Ash<3
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Well talk to her and tell her that she needs to tell him to stop hittinq on her either that or you could try telling him that you all are together and that you would really like for him to stop hittinq on her!! Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jo*
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i know you dont really want to but your gonna have to talk to her. tell her that you really like her and you dont like it when she flirts with other guys. tell her that you dont think she is really giving her ex the right message. i hope i helped....♥ leah
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you need to trust your girlfriend...geremey i mean isnt it you the one who wanted her to trust you...try talking to ashley she loves you and you know she wouldnt do that to you
<3 chickenn licker
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Really it's something your girlfriend needs to deal with. Let her know that it bothers you and ask (note I said ask, don't tell) her to make it clear to her ex that she is no longer single and is not interested in a relationship with him.
If you try to deal with it yourself, you may end up getting hurt if he's the violent type or your girlfriend may get upset with you since you interfered in what she might consider her business.
Good luck.
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first of all, if she isn't making it clear and they are both flirting then (from a girl...) she is leading him on. she probably even said something to him online or something to make him think he has a chance.
if you truely believe that is NOT the case then talk to her ex, say that you love her or w/e and that he needs to know when to back off. do not be violent or critisize him or oyu will come off the jealous type. good luck
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hmm .. if i were you i would talk to her about out and see if she told him that she is going out with you. let her know that it bothers you when he does it!
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