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Member Since: July 20, 2005
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Last Update: July 21, 2005
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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle... (link)
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hey baybay,
I know that you worry because of him, but you don't have to. I've told him how I feel about you and that he has no chance. Your the only one I have feeling for baby! I love you, you know that. The reason I kept talking to him is because I have known him for so long and he understood that things between him and I aren't gonna change. I mean he is my friend and you still talk to your friend that like you, so why can't I? All I'm trying to say is that I could never leave you, you have nothing to worry about, and I love you!! mwah!!
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Recently, I've been talking to a boy who is much more experienced than me. Not to sound like a prude, but does it hurt getting fingered for the first time?
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That all depends on the guy and how tight you are. If he is just really horny he might kind of rough when he fingers you. If you let him finger you, tell him you've never done it before and that he needs to be gentle. I mean it might hurt a little, but not a lot, so don't worry!!
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Hi my name is Bill. Im 15 and I currently attend a christian church. As a baby my parents werent married, my mom ran away, my dad couldnt afford a baby soo he left me with his parents. I grew up with my grandparents till right before my 15th b-day when my grandma died from carcinoid cancer. after that i weant to live with my dad. instead of being distanced from God I feel closer. my pastor said im the strongest person he's met. what does he mean by that? by the way i want to go to olivet collage and become a youth pastor myself. (link)
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Most people when something bad occurs in their life, they become very angry with God. Most people don't handle the loss of someone very well. I think he means that you must have a lot of faith to be able to become even closer to God. Good luck with everything and if you never need anything feel free to ask!!
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Today the discharge in my underwear had a yellowish brown tint to it. Some parts of it looked kinda red. This is the first time this has happened. Is this my period coming or should I worry. I don't want to go to the doctor *unless its really serious* because my family is really short of money right now. I'll rate 5's for any helpfull answer. (link)
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Okay, it sounds like you haven't started your period yet, and may I remind you that everyone starts at different times so it's perfectly normal! A friend of mine before she started her period she used to have a brown discharge so I think it's normal. I mean it didn't happen for me that way, but it does for some people. Even when you do start your period, sometimes it will be brown because it's old blood, so it's nothing for you to worry about! If you have any other questions feel free to ask!!
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Hey,
okay i like this guy but he has a girlfriend. But i like him so much and he is drifting away from his girlfriend..i dont see him as much as i would like but i dont have a problem with that. I really need some advice. he already knows how i feel! but i dont know what else i can do..its just that no one sees me the way he does..!!
HELP..!
Thanks
-Jayme (link)
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Okay now that's always a tough situation. It's never good to try and get with a guy who has a girlfriend, because I know I wouldn't want a girl to do that to me. Pay attention to how he acts with you, he may not technically be cheating on his girlfriend with you, but he could be bending the rules a bit. This is going to let you know how faithfull he would be with you. Okay, you've done your part, he knows how you feel, so leave the rest up to him. Just let it be his decision because you shouldn't have to talk a guy into being with you. Make sure you stay friends with him, and make sure he knows that you'll always be there for him. If there's anything else I can do for you, feel free to ask!
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Hey, i NEED help. i really like this guy. but he has a girlfriend. but he made a move on me. i dont know what to do. i think i do have feelings for him. but i dont know what to do. Should I tell him how i feel? or should i just be close friends??????
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It's never a good idea to try and get with a taken guy. I mean if he's willing to make moves on you while he has a girlfriend, do you really think that he would be able to stay faithfull to you if ya'll did end up getting together? I think that you should let him know how you feel. As far as making a move on him, do whatever with him that you would want him to do with another girl if ya'll were together. It seems to me that he's almost a player. Leading you on, yet at the same time keeping his girlfriend, and her being completely oblivious to what's going on.
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okay i reallly love this girl, and she loves me too, but we are trying to decide whether or not to do sexual stuff until we are married, but for us itll be hard. I mean weve talked abour sex, well for us it would be making love, but i dont know if we should wait for not, im a virgin, so i would be losing my virginity to her, and i dont mind at all. i actually want it to be her... what should we do? (link)
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I think that you should sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel. It's probably not easy for her to keep her hands off of you either. I think that she probably thinks that if the two of you did end of havin sex it would make things awkward and different. I mean you know what they say, sex changes everything. Think about whether sex is really worth taking the risk of losing a good relationship. I mean it's not the type of situation where you can just go with the flow. I mean are you really ready to lose your virginity, I mean it's a huge deal and something you'll never be able to have back. It also depends on how long the two of you have been together, I mean you don't want to lose it to someone if your not 100% sure that they'll always be there. I think that it's something the two of you have to really think long and hard about, and something that won't be correctly decided in one night.
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Ahh Ok well..well..i'm only in 8th grade..and all i ever do is dump boys! I dont cheat or anything and people call me a slut for dumping tthem in such quick time!..Idk what to do!..
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You have absolutely nothing to worry about. If this is something that concerns you, then maybe you should get to know the boys better before you go out with them. That way you know ahead of time what they're like, so if you go out with them there's a better chance that you might actually like them. Don't worry because I went threw the same exact thing. I could never stay with a guy because I'd always end up getting sick of them, but now I've been with the same guy for 4 months and I'm in love and extrememly happy with him. Now I know to most people 4 months isn't much of an accomplishment, but if your anything like me, you get it's a big deal. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet, but don't worry honey you've got plenty of time, so don't push yourself into going out with these guys hoping you'll feel something for them later on, if it ain't there...it ain't there. As far as the slut thing goes, you're not a slut unless you sleep around. Nonetheless nobody has the right to call you that, they're probably just jealous of you getting all these guys!!!
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ok well what is the urethra? i kno its on a guy i think, but where and what is it exactly? (link)
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The urethra is a canal that carries urine from the bladder to the urinary opening. In males, the urethra is also the passageway for semen. The urethra is located on the head of the penis, it's the hole. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me!
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ok, i lost my virginity july 2004, the nxt time i had sex was July 2005 (a year later) after i was bleeding like crazzy, it was almost like i had my period for a few hours, eventually it stopped but it was kinda gross and i dono wat to think . . . gimme your advise PLEASE (link)
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I lost mine last July as well, and no bleeding occured. It must've freaked you out because you probably thought that something must've gone wrong. You shouldn't worry though, it was probably just your cherry. Your cherry doesn't always pop the first time you have sex. I mean never popped while i was still sexually active. All girls are different. So it's not always going to happen at the same time the same way for every girl, so don't worry hun!!
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does anyone know of any websites that you can find really cute qoutes about love and friendship? thanks (link)
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yes, try going to firehotquotes.com and look under friendship. If you don't have any luck there try going to google and type in friendship quotes.
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(FOR THE LADIES)
What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world? (link)
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hey love!! The way to make a girl feel like she was the most special girl ever is to do something original. Something that involves things that she likes, but not necessarily expensive, because remember it's the thought that counts. Do something that she knows you could've never used on another girl, just on her. Make her the center of your attention, and make her feel as if she's all that matters to you, and the only person in the world. Make her feel beautiful, important, and make sure she knows you'll never leave your side. If you need anything else feel free to ask!!
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i want to make a shirt for my best friend, because her birthday is comin up... shes very religious and i want to put some sort of quote on it...so does anybody kno any short bible verses, or religious quotes?? thanks for your help!! (link)
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Yes, I used this one for a religion project my 8th grade year because we were all going our seperate ways....
"Do not let them depart from your sight; keep them in the midst of your heart."
Hope it helps you love!!
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i went to the doctor to find out if i was pregnant and the nurse came in before hand to ask if i wanted to be or not and i of corce said no and the lady left the room to get the results and then came back to tell me that i wasnt. but that if i didnt start soon to try the test again because i could get a positive later on. i've heard that doctors can tell you that your not so that when you finally do find out its to late to have an abortion. is that true? and does it sound like that's what was going on in this situation? (link)
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I think that maybe she was just trying to take your mind off of it and trying to communicate with you. She's not allowed to lie to you about those things, and if she did she would get in a lot of trouble. It doesn't matter how far along you are, you can have an abortion at anytime. There is something called partial birth abortion. Partial birth abortion is when you deliver your baby when your due , only they suck the brains out of the baby. I don't at all mean to gross you out, that's just the kind of cruel world we're living in these days. So I think your response to her about whether you wanted to be pregnant, didn't determine her answer about whether or not you were pregnant.
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what should i name my dog?
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Bonquesha...definitely Bonquesha. In case you don't like that though, just go to google and type in dog names, and it'll give you a ton!!! Good luck hun!!
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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
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aww...girl, no one deserves to be treated like that. I think that maybe you should talk to your "friends" about this and ask them why they don't treat you with respect. Just stay true to yourself and keep your head high...if you ever need a friend i'm here for you...just email me!!
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well see iv only kissed one girl before in a truth or dare game and she kissed me back and all but it was only a peck on the lips and im afraid becuase i always wanted to have sex but like im a little nervous now but only for like making out and the girl another time was dared to give me a handjob (yes we are physco) and i couldnt get a boner i tried for a really long time but i couldnt like does anyone know any things that can help me with kissing and is it because im nervous that i cant get a boner...i didnt think i was nervous but i might of been..sorry if its confusing
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You're probably having trouble getting a boner because you're nervous. Just relax, concentrate on what's going on and you'll be fine. As far as kissing goes, don't think about it. Don't plan it all out, just go with the flow and you'll be fine!!
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Ok..I really really like this guy soo much, but we've only hung out 4 times, one all night..and we talk online & on the phone alot..but I don't KNOW him KNOW him..like i dont know how too explain it.. He's cute, SOO SWEET, and funny, well, he's perfect for me...and he tells me he loves me so much and everything. Today he said if we were older he'd ask me too marry him, which scared me..and now I just feel a LITTLE weird..bc I love him, but I don't know him well enough to marry him. But I really do feel he cares about me...but another thing is that he's older than me...and he's had sex, and I haven't and he walsy says "baby you don't know what your missing.." and "i wanna make this sumer one you won't forget ;)" and i'm thinking that he wants me too have sex with him..but he's told me that he doesn't want too push me into it, but he does it slightly...I don't know..
Any advice???
Lots of love & noise
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Okay for me to answer this the right way you've got to let me know how much of an age difference, and if ya'll are going out...and what's the situation with that.
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hey.
i am 13/f & i have this cousin that is 10 & she asked me if i have had sex before & i said no & she said that she could "show me" & gave me the choices of having sex with her, her giving me lessons, giving me oral or fingerfucking me! & i went with it just so she would leave me alone & now i am scared of what she might do & i dont know how to react to this & am so creeped out... What should i do? plz help!!! i rate high!!!!
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did you not realize that she's your little cousin? You need to think before you act.
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Hey i do the normal riding sex & oral sex & things what are some new ways to have sex.. i need something more to attract my partners... thanks so much
P.S. I rate high!!! (link)
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There are plenty in the September 2004 issue of Cosmo. Go to cosmopolitan.com and look up "100 Sex Tips From Guys." If for some reason you can't find it, then just ask me and I'll tell them to you. Remember girl be safe!
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