okay i reallly love this girl, and she loves me too, but we are trying to decide whether or not to do sexual stuff until we are married, but for us itll be hard. I mean weve talked abour sex, well for us it would be making love, but i dont know if we should wait for not, im a virgin, so i would be losing my virginity to her, and i dont mind at all. i actually want it to be her... what should we do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? l3al3yd0LL answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:15 pm: I think that you should sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel. It's probably not easy for her to keep her hands off of you either. I think that she probably thinks that if the two of you did end of havin sex it would make things awkward and different. I mean you know what they say, sex changes everything. Think about whether sex is really worth taking the risk of losing a good relationship. I mean it's not the type of situation where you can just go with the flow. I mean are you really ready to lose your virginity, I mean it's a huge deal and something you'll never be able to have back. It also depends on how long the two of you have been together, I mean you don't want to lose it to someone if your not 100% sure that they'll always be there. I think that it's something the two of you have to really think long and hard about, and something that won't be correctly decided in one night. [ l3al3yd0LL's advice column | Ask l3al3yd0LL A Question ]
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