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I am going to be a freshman this year, and I have just started talking to this guy. Well, He is going to be a junoir and i know him from my sister--who is going to be a senior.
I have started having feelings for this guy. We talk alot online, and he is really sweet. But there are two problems. 1)He has a girlfriend 2)He still see's me as a kid.
Now both of those are really..hard. Because I think he see's me more of a little sister, then a friend. And it is so tough to deal with. Because I know i am not brave enough to tell him how I feel. And I know he doesnt feel the same. What should I do? (link)
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You should be happy he looks at you like his little sister compared to a nothing! Listen, he's probably going to act like you aren't his friend because you are younger then him, but guys are like that. They don't hang out with dudes younger then them. It's a killer to their rep., and that's what they are all about.
I know this might not be the best advice, but I have expirience and I've had things for older guys when I was younger and it went to hell in a hand basket. Basically saying, I regret doing it. Just try to forget about him, and plenty of new boys this coming freshman year, for you, will lead to lots of new friendships and expiriences.
If you need anything just drop me a line!
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I am 5'1 and 140 lbs. I am really wanting to loose at least 15 lbs. before school starts back because I feel that I am a lil chubby..if anyone knows of any kind of excercises or tips so make this much easier or of a quick weight loss thing that has worked for you..let me know, please?! (link)
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Aw man, you sound so much like me and I can help!
First whatever you do, you have to cut down on your eating. I'm not saying you eat a lot, and hell if I would know, but you have to eat reasonably.
Eat a good breakfast, but make it small. Breakfast isn't supposed to be a huge meal. And don't eat a cereal bar or anything.. Have a serving size bowl of cereal with a cup or so of milk and a glass of orange juice or some v8 tomato juice. Whatever you like!
[no snacks inbetween!]
Lunch is supposed to be larger than breakfast, and what I like to have is Iceburg lettuce salad with carrots and cucumbers in it with a tablespoon of ranch dressing and a glass of water. It keeps you energized and keeps you full until dinner!
[no snacks inbetween!]
Dinner, in most families, is the largest meal of the day. It really doesn't matter what you are eating at dinner whether it's french fries and fried chicken or something more healthier and balanced. It's better if you have sit down dinner with a family, too because it's proven if you eat meals infront of the TV you don't realise how much you are consuming and it may be too much. Now, if you have a family that has desert right after dinner and it's your favorite, you might want to leave some room so you aren't completely full when it's time for desert.
Reminders: You should always drink water with meals and a glass before a meal. Sodas are bad to have with meals because they don't properly "rinse out" your insides!
Okay, so now to the excersize question! Sorry, I added my own little thing up there, but truly it does help when you want to lose weight in a month.
Excersizes: Stretching. Yes stretching can help you burn those pounds. Try doing "helocopters" where you have your arms infront of your chest and facing inward as if you were going to pound your two fists together and rotate left and right. It works out your abs and it's a great warm up.
Walking. People don't realise this either but walking burns pounds when you are eating right. If you live in a neighbor hood take a couple walks everyday, or walk your dog or go to the park and walk a couple laps around the park!
Crunches: I think most people know them by sit-ups or cruches, and they are pretty affective, but keep in mind you might do 100 crunches a day and never loose weight in your stomach because you can not spot reduce.
Spot reducing is when you work out a certain part of your body to reduce the fat in that area.
Sorry for making it so long, but if you need any more tips or anything drop me a message!
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Anyone Have Any Good Intresting conbo starters that will last quit a while (link)
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Think of something totally bazaar or ask a question that no one would think of.. Or just silly ones that spark people's imagination like, "If we were stranded on an island with no food to feed us what would you do?" Then before you know it one conversation leads to another and you are talking something far from being stranded on an island.
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