Hey, i NEED help. i really like this guy. but he has a girlfriend. but he made a move on me. i dont know what to do. i think i do have feelings for him. but i dont know what to do. Should I tell him how i feel? or should i just be close friends??????
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? l3al3yd0LL answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:31 pm: It's never a good idea to try and get with a taken guy. I mean if he's willing to make moves on you while he has a girlfriend, do you really think that he would be able to stay faithfull to you if ya'll did end up getting together? I think that you should let him know how you feel. As far as making a move on him, do whatever with him that you would want him to do with another girl if ya'll were together. It seems to me that he's almost a player. Leading you on, yet at the same time keeping his girlfriend, and her being completely oblivious to what's going on. [ l3al3yd0LL's advice column | Ask l3al3yd0LL A Question ]
boricuachik answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:17 pm: what ever you do do not be his gf while he has one cause u wouldnt like to get played anyways tell him how you feel if he feel the same way he will leave his girl 4 u [ boricuachik's advice column | Ask boricuachik A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:02 pm: If he has a girlfriend then he shouldn't be putting the moves on you. You can do what you want of course but who is he gonna be putting the moves on while you are dating him? Doesn't sound like someone you could trust very far. Maybe stay friends. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:35 pm: i would just stay friends and wouldnt even get involved with him in a relationship because if he has a girlfriend and made a move on you that shows that hes a player and he could end up hurting you
bootylicusbaby83 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:32 pm: ok well this has happened to me before and if this guy has a girlfriend and hes trying to get with u, then i wouldnt even bother with him because you know right away that hes a player...you know what they say "once a player, always a player" if hes a cool guy to hang out with then you should just be friends with him and nothing more
ncblondie answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:14 pm: A friendship would be fine but I wouldn't let my emotions get involved in it. Since you didn't say anything about him splitting up with his girlfriend any time soon, I would worry about that. It shows a lack of commitment. If he'll cheat on her, chances are he'll cheat on you also.
Michaela721 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:12 pm: I say you talk to this kid. If he is the kind of kid who wants to cheat on his girlfriend, I say screw him. Don't get involved with a cheater. But, if you and this kid have known each other awhile and things are falling apart with his girlfriend.. maybe that's a different story. Call him him and ask what the deal is, don't tell him how you feel until you know he likes you. [ Michaela721's advice column | Ask Michaela721 A Question ]
mushoku answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:03 pm: Some guys (like me) are just really flirtatious. If I'm in a committed relationship, I still flirt with people I'm comfortable with, just not as much as if I were single.
If he is trying to pick up on you, tell him you're only willing to be friends right now, maybe more later. Trust me when I say you don't want a guy to break up with someone to be with you, regardless of who he is. 'cause it'll happen again when he's with you and likes someone else. [ mushoku's advice column | Ask mushoku A Question ]
Dakmor answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 6:02 pm: If he made a move and you have feelings for him, then I'd tell him. As a guy who doesn't get many girls, that's the best thing a girl could give me, putting aside a nice shiny, red convertible with ten thousand dollars in it. But I think he'll love it if you tell him, and good luck with it =D [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
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