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I think a girl's trying to pick me up...
Ok, there's this girl I like who doesn't like me, until I can get her to like me, I don't want to be with any other girls. Unfortunately, during Dungeons and Dragons at camp today (please, no nerd cracks), there was this girl who I think was trying to get me to like her. For example, my character died, and she was like "It's okay. You and I are the only not-mean people here." Also, I never see her talk to any other guys in the group, putting aside group discussions, like marching order and etc. Is she trying to pick me up? She goes to my school also, unfortunately that other girl also goes to my school. I really could care less about this new girl, but I really think she's trying to get me to like her. What do I do, and how do I tell her that there's someone else? What if I'm wrong about her? I'm really confused, and please, none of those smart alek answers, I rate ones for people who tell me "just bang her" or anything equally unhelpful or smart alekey.
-Dakmor
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if i were you, i would jus try an avoid her. be nice 2 her an talk 2 her when she talks 2 you, but try and give her the hint that you dont like her bakK. And as for the girl who you like, i would ask her out, u've nothing 2 lose. also, if the girl you dont like finds out you asked the other girl out, she'll probably back off.
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In my opinion you should spend a little more time with the new girl, you never know you may like her even more than the first girl, and if you don't then you have a girl friend that you can talk to and ask for advice about the first girl.
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Hey its ok and you are not geek because people may think i am totally not geek and stuff but i do like geek stuff so everyone as little touch O' geek in them =) and second of all i think she does like you but it can be that she's just nice
but most likely she likes you and i know when you like someone and some one that you dont like, you just want to tell them."get lost" (which in case is for most guys.)
and i am not telling you its wrong but you have to revise the situation here.
you will feel very bad if your crush say "hey i dont like you so get lost"
and think about it, she's in same situation as you. so dont tell her mean stuff just tell her
that you are not intereted in her or that you are not interested in girlfriend yet but that is most likely backfire and hurt her more when she sees you at school with you and your new girl (hey it may works out for you and your crush *wink wink*)
anyways ...if you think she likes you, it probably is. so if she's really trying to hit on you such as ask you out on date!
then calmly tell her, no being mean! because she can tell her friends about it and MAn us girls can gossip so you can be rated as mean guy among the girls, anyways then just tell her that you think she's nice and all but you want to be truthful and that you are not interested because you already like somebody so much. and be nice and casual about it so she wont feel bad and your night conscience wont haunt you down at night =)
so hope i helped and remember what i said.
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Not every girl who talks to you is trying to get with you. There are some girls who just want to be friends with guys (I am one of those girls.)
As for this girl that you like so much... Let's just say that this dungeon and dragons girl IS trying to get you to like her. And you don't like her at all. Sound familiar?
That's because you're doing the same thing to the girl you like so much.
If you want to know what I think about this girl you like, here it goes. I think you're wasting your time. I think you should give other girls a chance. It's romantic, that one true love and all, but sometimes you just have to let go. Accept her feelings, and let go of your own.
You don't tell dungeon and dragons girl that. If she's interested, she'll find out whether or not you like someone. Until that point, just be her friend.
If you're wrong about her, then you're wrong about her. You can change the relationship if you want to, and she lets you.
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hey dakmor do you have any feelings for the dungeons and dragons girl cause if the other girl doesnt like you know she might never and you might be passing up a really great girl but if you have no feelings for the dungeons and dragons girl then if she asks you out or something just say you like some1 else but you would really like to stay friends hope i helped
Morgan
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If you like her any at all you can be friends with her. I do think that if the other girl don't like you maybe moving on is the answer. But, doesn't have to with this girl. Doesn't hurt to be friends though because you never know. She just might make a great friend. I don't think just talking to you means she is trying to pick you up. She is probably just being friendly. No need to even mention a girlfriend, if she doesn't like you she really isn't one though. :)
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i would forget about it maybe shes just being friendly because she wants to be friends with you if she asks you out one day then just say theres is someone else and you just want to stay friends
hope that helps let me know how it goes ♥
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ok well this ones kinda tough lol...ok well about this girl that you like, if you like her then go up to her and try to talk to her and just say hi and if she gives u negative feedback, then it just wasnt meant to be but if shes nice to you about it, try and make friends with her, you never know what could happen. and about this girl who likes you...just stay friends with her for awhile and see if she asks you out, or tells you that she likes you or if the girl that you like doesnt want to be anything with you at all, give this new girl a try because she could really be great once you get to know her..trust me its happened to me several times!
* hope i helped *
-Sarah
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Unless she asks you outright, I would let it go for now. It's possible she just wants a friend her age that goes to her school and shares her interests. If the subject does come up and you're truly not interested in dating her, tactfully tell her you're flattered but you're not interested in dating her right now. do not mention the other girl in your response to her, it will hurt her deeply and she'll carry a scar of rejection because she didn't measure up to your "dream girl" standards.
With that said, it seems to me that you're hanging all your hopes on this one girl that doesn't like you. If she doesn't like you now, chances are, her feelings won't change. While I understand you have a crush, don't sit around waiting for her to change her mind. You may miss out on that special someone because you were looking the wrong way.
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