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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle... (link)
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tell your gf its agrivating. most girls are okay to talk. if that doesnt work try telling her ex(even though its hard) that your with her and thats how its gonna be. ask yourself how willing you are to be with her. if you liked her that much you would speak your peace. hope you go far!
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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
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okay obviously your very into him. most of the time i would say if you have to question if its love most likely not. but this time its different. everyone has a different meaning for love. you just need to find yours. then ask yourself the same question. good luck and i hope you go far!
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Gender: male Age: 16
Me and my gf havent exactly been getting along we cant talk much it neva works, we hug sometimes, and we dont do anything else either because there was a problem and we said we'd work it out but obviously not and im a shy guy and i get pretty depressed often and today one of her friends(also friend of mine) told me my gf wants me to stop me getting into depressive moods and make more of an effort to make the first moves or she will dump me. And then her friend also told me that she also liked another 2 guys and she things my gf is just using me.
But when i was 1st goin out with her i have neva been as happy and im not sure i wanna give up on her and thus lose that happiness.
What do u think? am i just being stupid?
and if u think i should dump her please tell me.
How?
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okay her friends might be lying to you. maybe they dont think shes right for you and they dont want you to go out anymore. you should talk to the girl and se whats goin on. no lies. and if she says some stuff you dont like just say its over. when the time comes it might seem a more challenging but if you really have to do it then you will... but dont go on too long like this... cuz then youll get depressed and bad stuff like that.
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I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING! (link)
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well you cant stay heartbroken.. thats for sure. so you gotta get him back! ask him if he is still interested... see if he feels the same way. think about whats more important.... your reputation...or him?
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ok. heres the thing: guys have always been my best friends. id actually rather have guy friends then girls because guys dont gossip and dont start drama. well ever since i got a boyfriend hes been getting on me for flirting with other guys. BUT I DONT FLIRT WITH THEM ITS JUST THAT THERE MY BFF's AND I JOKE AROUND WITH HIM. how can i get my boyfriend to understand that im not flirting they're just my friends. i've tried telling him that and i've tried to stop hanigng out with the guys as much but nothing seems to work. HELP PLEASE. ill rate you high!! (link)
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okay it seems like your bf doesnt trust you enough! withought trust there is no relationship. you should talk to him and make sure he knows that you like him and you wouldnt cheat on him or even flirt withanyone. and that you dont realise that your flirting but you just are. also tell him you tried to not hang out with them as much but their your friends too.
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I wasnt exactly sure which category to put this under, but here goes...
Shaving is a BITCH! yes, yes it is. My question is:
Has anyone tried those bladeless shaving kits? do they really work? Does it last longer than shaving? does it remove ingrown hairs too, or should i just go for the wax?
yeah i know, kinda stupid, but im sick of shaving and at least dont want to walk around band camp with a bunch of nix and cuts.
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i havent used a bladeless kit but a know a bunch of people who have and they say it works great. the wax might hurt a bit but if i were you i would try the bladeless first!
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I have this really good workout for my outer thighs and it works great! but this workout doesnt work my inner thighs. does anybody have a good workout for your inner thighs??
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there are squat jumps.... if you keep your legs farth enough apart then they will work the top or your thigh and the inner thigh.
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My boyfriend's away in Europe right now & he will be for another week. I'm missing him like crazy & I can only talk to him online because longdistance is expensive. What can I do to get through this time? Any ideas how to get my mind off missing him? (link)
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try going out with your friends a couple nights a week. if you start having fun you wont even think about him. instead of just sitting home try going to the mall or something.
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All my life-I was known as the "stick."
Now I'm gaining weight-and fast. I am on birth control and that could be one of the reasons-but I'm also not in as many sports as i once was.
I'm not fat-but I feel as if i am overweight. I am 5'9 and i weigh 130.
Psycologically-I want to stop eating. I eat something fattening-and then I decide not to eat for the rest of the day.
I can't shake this-and I really just want to lose weight. I run every day-but it soon ended-I just couldn't do it anymore. I have horrible back problems. I try and eat heathy-but i still feel fat.
Sorry.
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really you just need to start eating healthier. your motabilism is probably slowing down now that your on the pill. whatever you do... dont stop eating period! its bad enough what your doing now but you could die from going anorexic! you should try to eat normall. if you feel like you ate something that was a little fatning dont stress about it.. if you feel you ate something really fatning try going on the run again. if this doesnt work you should talk to your parents about going off the pill. maybe your too young to take it.
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ok guys im not goin to say im over-weight bc im not.. im bout 5'5" and i weigh like 130 pounds. im a cheerleader so i try to stay in shape. but july was an off month for cheer and school is starting up very soon. i just want to sort of 'tone' up my stomach and legs. with a healthy diet and work out that i can stick to. i am very determined. so if there are any sites or workouts u could give me i would really appreciate it.. i will rate 5's for all good answers//sites! if you could hurry that would be great! (link)
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i am a cheerleader too. we do conditioning before and after practice 2 days a week. they help alot and they make you feel good. first we do...
25 regular situps with feet on the ground
25 with feet at 90 degree angle
25 with feet straight in the air
then go back to regular sit ups but put your legs to one side and do 25 one way and 25 the other. then sit indian style but lay down. then do another 25. make sure you keep a flat back. those are always a good workout for me.
also we do these things called planks.
you get up in the pushup position and hold it for 30 seconds then a minute then 1 minute and 30 seconds. if you hold the proper position and you keep your stomach tight then you should feel it in your abs. if that is too hars then go down to your elbows and do them there.
we do more things but i think this would be a good start. if you want more then im me. my screen name is xhotbrunette16xx
you should try doing these things 2 or 3 times a week. and ocassionally run around the block a couple times or even your neighborhood. good luck!
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alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear?? (link)
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you should either ask your brother what everyone is suppos to wear or just wear a jeanskirt (cuz their not to dressy but they look nice) and maybe a cute belt with it. and for the shirt maybe wear like a cami with a collared shirt. then bring a bathing suit if eveyone is going swimming.
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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!! (link)
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there are curl gels all over the place. a couple of my friends use loreal or got 2b curly. they both work for them. most products dont work for all people. everyone has different hair. there are also 3barrell or more curling irons. those help to!
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well i have this friend who i really really like..well we've dated before..and everytime i try to open up to him it seems like he pushes me away..i always tell him i want to tell the guy i like that i like him..yet he know that i'm really talking about him..and everytime he always says go for it and tell him how you feel what do you have to lose..i always say well he hates me and he'll always say "who could hate you?"..yet i still think he does..and i want to know if he feels the same way about me as i feel about him..what can i do? i really need help on this one..it's very hard. please help!
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okay.. i see the problem. i think you should just straight out tell him. maybe he likes you too but he has the same fear in telling you. or try asking his friends if he likes you. they might give you some info.
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ok you see my best friend is falling in love with me and i dont know what to do! we have been really good friends since second grade but i dont have feelings for him more than a good friendship! how do i tell him that? (link)
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okay i see what happened...all you need to do is sit down with him and ask him how he feels about you. tell him your not ready for commitment. and that you just want to be really good friends.
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