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does he feel the same way?
well i have this friend who i really really like..well we've dated before..and everytime i try to open up to him it seems like he pushes me away..i always tell him i want to tell the guy i like that i like him..yet he know that i'm really talking about him..and everytime he always says go for it and tell him how you feel what do you have to lose..i always say well he hates me and he'll always say "who could hate you?"..yet i still think he does..and i want to know if he feels the same way about me as i feel about him..what can i do? i really need help on this one..it's very hard. please help!
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You need to talk to him openly or you'll never really know if you are understanding each other on the same level. You say he must know your talking about him when you mention this guy you like, but there's a chance he doesn't or doesn't know how else to respond than "tell him you like him" because he's not sure if you are talking about him or somebody else.
Be plain with him. Avoiding overwhelming him by gushing that you really really like him, just put your cards on the table and say you'd like to go on a date with him. You say he pushes you away sometimes, so raise the subject gentley and be prepared for the possibility that he might be suprised that you have feelings for him and need some time to think things through.
Good luck.
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I say... just ask him stright up...not on the phone face-to-face...ask if he likes you or not.
-Manders *Hope I Helped*
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okay.. i see the problem. i think you should just straight out tell him. maybe he likes you too but he has the same fear in telling you. or try asking his friends if he likes you. they might give you some info. <^hope i helped^>
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wow. its scary because i kno exactly how you feel. i have a friend and he is my best friend . ive known him for about 2 years. i realized that i really really like him. so the idiot that i am .....i told him. it was horrible. i mean he didnt say anything but he didnt say that he liked me back. i felt so awkward. i couldnt talk to him for 2 weeks. he is my best friend and i would much rather be able to talk to him i can find another guy but not another best friend who completely understands me. so pretty much my advice is.....just because you like someone doesnt mean they are gonna like you back. and its much better to keep it to yourself then ruin a friendship,and give it time he might come around
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Talk to him openly just like you did now tell him your feelings towards him like he said what do you have to lose? Go for it you never know he may feel the same about you just waiting for you to open up first.Good luck ♥Kate
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