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Heyy well my name's Heather..I'm 14 and soon to be 15!! Any question you give me i'll do my best to answer it! I like Alternative Rock and Country and anyting to Dance to!!

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i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now?

yes your suppose to leave them inatleast 6 to 8 weeks..use some of the ear stuff they gave you so it doesnt get infected and remeber to put in sterling silver

hope it helps

*southernbelle*

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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!

*K

Hey

well personally i dont htink it's too skinny..im 5'8 and weigh 115..i know what itsl ike for people to be like your a tooth pick and stuff like that and it kinda uncomfortable but it will pass..you prob. have a high motabolism and wont gain that much anyway..but if you really want to youcan try working out some and trying to boost your motabolism..i hope this helps

*SouthernBelle*

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My friend has diabetes(sp?) and she eats like a pig! lol no offense but she never gains weight. she's like 5 foot 4 or so and eats all the time but weighs 995 pounds. is this normal? i don't think she's anorexic... but

she prob. has a high motabolism..i do also..you can eat anything at any time and not gain a pound..even if you try lol..and she couldnt be anorexic if she eats all the time..she'd have to be belimic..but if you think she is belimic then the sign of that are going to the bathroom a lot..fingernail on her pointer finger(or which ever one she'd use to gag herself) and front teeth start decaying because of the acid in you stomach..i hope this helps!!

*SouthernBelle*

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Ok I'm 13/f and I have a crush on someone. I never have in my entire life. I refuse to tell anyone because I feel really guilty and I'm worried people will make fun of me because everyone thinks I'm a nerd. I should be focusing on getting into the Honor Choir and straight A's, not boys! Is it a bad thing? It would be really cool if someone can give me some info! thx

You don't have to tell anyone if you dont want to..and it's perfectlu natural if you have a crush..every gurl is gonna have one!!if you and this guh are friends then talked to him about it..or hint it sround..and dont let ppl bully you..one day your gonna be famous and rich and they are gonnabe left in the dust so dont even worry about what they say

hope this helps!!
*southernbelle*

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i want to dye some of my hair with this "Loreal Color Pulse", I need to know the price. has anyone ever used it? and does it work good? and i need the price of it at a local Walgreens Or CVS cuz i want to buy it but im not sure how much it is.thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

its only about like 7 or 8 dollars not that much..and if you dont like the color you got you can always wash it out..buti hope you find a color that works for you!!

*SouthernBelle*

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okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?

Defiatly!! everyone is getting it done..why follow the crowd??..and its so hard for it not to get infected..just about everyone one that i know that has gotten it done says it hurts like you haveno idea and that it was or had been infected..i hope everything goes good!!

*SouthernBelle*

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Hello. I need your help desperately. I'm a female and I hate the summer because I sweat like crazy. As a result of this, I get massive sweat stains under my arms. This makes me extremely self-conscious. I usually put on tons of deodorant with anti-perspirant in it to stop me from sweatting so much, but it doesn't help. I get really embarassed because of it, and now I only wear darker colored shirts because you can't see them as bad. What do I do?! :-( Thank you so much for your help.

have youasked a doctor about it? b/c mayb they can give you somthing to helpl you out or suggest a deodorant that would work

hope it helps

*southernbelle*

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My roots get greasy really fast, like within 5-6 hours after I take a shower. Is there any way I can keep my hair cleaner for longer without taking 2 showers daily? Is there a shampoo that prevents your hair roots from being greasy? I rate.

Umm have you tried head and shoulders??..or suave?? they both work pretty well..or you cango to like head start or somewwhere and ask for an opion about a shampoo and conditioner..hope evrything works out!!

*southernbelle*

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Hey! Right now I have a Revlon hair straightener but it doesn't work that well. I want to get a new one that works really good but I have no clue what I should look for. Can you please tell me what kind of straighteners works good, the price range of these straighteners, and where I can buy them. Thanks in advance. I will rate you.

xoxoxo

iI hve a Revlon and it works great!! are you useing it on half way or all the way ?/ b/c it really doesnt matter what you he\air is like you can use it to the highest and it gets it straight..but straighteners can run from 20 to 60 dollars or mayb even more if you get a rele good one

hope it helps!!
*southernbelle*

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When I would sit in the tub for like 30-60 minutes, I would notice that the water would get gritty and then I would rub my skin and it would come off!!!!!! Then there was a lot of DIRT or something on the sides or the tub when I got out, is this normal!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Thanks in advance for helping me (IF YOU DECIDE TO BE RUDE THEN I WON'T EVEN RATE YOU!!!!)

Yes this is normal
dead skin cells come off very easily..it may be different for differnent people but you dont have to worry
everything is good lol
--Hope it helped--

*SouthernBelle*

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16/f
i was wondering, what are some ways to help cheer up someone who suffers from depression? my friend suffers from it a lot and she gets down really easy. thanks in advance.

There really isn't a quick way to get out of depression..It depends on what is gettin her down..All I can say is the best you can do is be her friend and help her out and listen to her when she need it..remind her of what a great person she is and try to brighten up her life

hope it helps

*SouthernBelle*

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Alright, so, as it's probably helpful to know a little info about me, I'm 16, female. And I'm in love, I know it, I can feel it's true just as surely as I know that 2 x 2 = 4. I find myself having a whole new perspective, a whole new outlook, on life. I realize that whatever happens, it's going to be alright, because I'll have someone there by my side who I can trust with anyone, and we can be there for eachother through whatever happens. (btw, Thanks to anyone who answered my previous question, the answers have helped me realize that going to seperate colleges, while tough, is something we can handle.) Now, I know he loves me, and he talks as though whatever happens, we'll always be there for eachother, but am I doing the right thing? I mean, there doesn't seem to be a doubt in my mind about this, or him, or whether this is the real deal. But I feel like I should just step back and take one more look, I mean, I'm 16, and this isn't something that usually happens at this age. Any thoughts?

I totally understand how you feel..love is a great thing..I guess it depends on howlong y'all have been together and if you really love him..it doesnt matter when you fall in lovve as long as you keep it with you always because if it gets away then it feels like your world has fallen from beneth you..so i say go for it and stay with him..an dit kinda does seem like you have some doubt or this question wouldnt have come up..not being mean..just pointing it out..

hope it all works!!
*Southern Belle*

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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on?

Maybe while she was hanging out with some other friends someone might have told her that you were saying things about her behind her back..it happends..you should talk to her if she is really your friend you'll work it out.
hope it helped
heather

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has anyone tried the veet rasera bladeless kit? does it really work? is it worth it? thanks
♥BLAiR

I have tired it..one it smells bad!! and it doesn't even work that well..and it's a pain in the butt lol after I used it I had ti go again and shave my legs 4 real!! it might just depend on what you r legs are like because it worked for my younger sister but if you really want somthing that works use one of those Intuition things..they works very well and you can't cut yourself..unless you realllllly wanted to lol

hope it helped!!
*southernbelle*

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My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)







signed,
Birthday Girl

Okayy well for my 14th b-day me and sum gurlfriends went to the mall and hung out..drive-in(a bunch of friends) and watched a couple of movies and then the gurls stayed the night at my house..it may not be much but loadss of funn!!

hope your party turns out just the was you planned!!

*SouthernBelle*

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Okay. Here's a little background info. Okay. Me and this kid named, lets just say "Mark" went out for about 5 months. We talked on the phone everyday, and hung out almost everyday. I was soo in love with him. But then we broke up a couple weeks ago. But I really regret it. We talk sometimes now, but I really want to go back out with him again. I miss him soo much. We went to some party last night, and he told my two best friends that he still liked me. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know. I'm just really shy about telling people how I feel.

Here's my question.

1. Should I tell him how I feel? If yes, what should I say?

I rate high!! But please, I just need advice. Thanksss bunches.

Heart-broken and in love

If you reallly miss him and still like him go for it..The only thing that he can say is I just want to be friend..life is to short be let stuff like this go by..because if you don't later you will thin..what if...and that sucks soo..don't even think about it and DO IT!! lol
hope it helped!!

*Southernbelle*

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How do guys feel about dating girls younger than them ? i know this guy who seems to like me , but i want to know if i should flirt more . I'm 13 , and he's 15 (: thanks !

Heyy age shouldn't matter..I'ts about what's on the inside..so around him just be your self and if you feel like y'all click then definatly go for it!
Hope it helped!!

*SouthernBelle*

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