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Ok I'm 13/f and I have a crush on someone. I never have in my entire life. I refuse to tell anyone because I feel really guilty and I'm worried people will make fun of me because everyone thinks I'm a nerd. I should be focusing on getting into the Honor Choir and straight A's, not boys! Is it a bad thing? It would be really cool if someone can give me some info! thx
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THATS NOT A BAD THING. thats perfectly normal. in fact iits surprising youu've never liked a guy before him. guys don't always take you away from making straight A's. i have a boyfriend, im not a nerd, and i make A's & B's. and tell the other kiss to kiss your ass cause you can like whoever you want. & when the right guy comes along hes not gonna care if your nerdy or not. hope i helped
x0x0 vanna =)
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You don't have to tell anyone if you dont want to..and it's perfectlu natural if you have a crush..every gurl is gonna have one!!if you and this guh are friends then talked to him about it..or hint it sround..and dont let ppl bully you..one day your gonna be famous and rich and they are gonnabe left in the dust so dont even worry about what they say
hope this helps!!
*southernbelle*
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You know those who make fun of someone for the things they like (boys included) are pretty much all lacking in the brains department. You can keep it to yourself if you want to but, just don't pay attention to what others may say. Now or in the future.
At 13 it is very normal to have crushes. It is certainly nothing to feel guilty or bad about. Yeah, once in awhile it will be a major distraction but it is perfectly normal.:)
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Just because you think you are a "nerd", it doesn't mean you can't like guys! Why should you feel guilty? So maybe you aren't as popular as the kids who make fun of you, but you shouldn't even value their opinions. If you like someone, don't let anyone else get in the way of it.
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Alright, I'm sixteen, also rather a nerd ;). And still, boys aren't such a bad thing to focus on. Remember that life calls, too, and eventually those straight A's won't matter so much. So, who's this cute guy? If you really like him, tell him. Honestly. I don't know where I'd be right now if I had never (finally) gotten up the courage to talk to the guy I had feelings for. Is he a bit of a nerd, as well? Cause then you already have some common ground, and stuff you can talk about. If he's not, just cross your fingers and say hi. By the way, don't worry so much what people will think, you seem to really focus on that image that people see, like the straight A's and honor's choir. Be who you really are, and if people don't like it, they don't matter. Hope all goes well, ask for advice any time! ;)
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of course thats not a bad thing!! youre just growing up... its like one of those changes things... from barbies to boys... if you dont feel comfterable with these other kids finding out about it, dont tell anybody, except for the people you trust the most, like your best friend... and of course some people will make fun of you for who you like, but everybody has different tastes in guys... so dont let it bother you if somebody has something mean to say... be your own person, and dont let what others say bother you... hope i helped!
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Don't worry! You can balance school and crushes. And don't worry what others think!
Oh, and just wait until highschool. They'll love you there. ^^ Join a drama group or something. ^^ That might help. And many coffee houses have "stitch and bitch" nights for younger women and teens to knit and hang out.
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listen to me! alright, life is short and its no fun to just sit around watching it pass by. you need to live it. do you really want to be known as the girl who never did anything except study study study. i mean, you can have a boyfriend and still get good grades. good luck on that.
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darling its alright! we wouldnt be girls if we like guys..i deff know what you mean because my grades and my spot on my drill team matter so much to me. but guys are great to have..so just dont dwell on it. i mean unless the guy is keeping you from pursuing your dreams go for him! you never know, he could make you feel like happy and complete and stuff..and dont worry aout populrity it is so gay..for example..my BEST friend is the most popular girl in school. and the so called "nerds" have all done stuff before her and stuff like that. so yepp hope i helped :)
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Awww okay wow you can also have fun in life you dont always have to be SOO serious!! Its alright to like boyz.. or be BOYYY crazyy!! lol - but no its not a bad thing to have a crush on a boy. And sometimes its better to keep it to youreslf if its nothing big, but if its boterhing you like it seems to be. The best way to get rid of it is maybe tell a friend. And if u dont want that to happen maybe tell him?
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fuck them. your allowed to have a crush just like everyone else. but if your not ready to announce to everyone you like this person, keep it to yourself for a while. no ones gunna think your weird for having a crush.. its common nature hun, fuck them lil bitches!! haha hope i helped :)
<3 bailey
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Hehehe. Guys are cute and super easy to have crushes on! Though you should definately work more towards your grades than a boyfriend. Especially in highschol where every point counts towards what colleges start looking at you. Besides, right now relashionships are mostly pointless. If it makes you feel any better I am yet to have an official boyfriend! :) Nothing wrong with me I just haven't cared all that much.
If that's what you wanted to hear than I'm glad I could help!
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